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lost love?
im 14 && my boyfriend of almost 10 months && i broke up about 3 days ago. i know you probably thin im too young for love but i really think that was it. no, i know that was love. i told him everything, not only was he my boyfriend he was my best friend.. but towards the end of this relationship things started to get shakey- im not much of an optimist so i couldnt see the bright in things anymore.. all of my friends basically everyone around me was telling me to break up with him bc i deserved better && he was not worth it. my being my idiotic self acted on impulse && broke up with him. now he wont even talk to me.. he cant even look at me in the halls && it kills me. so im asking you how do you get over someone that youve just spent the last 10 months of your life with?? any good ideas.. it would be greatly appreciated bc i deff. need that right now
thanks <33
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scream at him and tell him u dont like him anymore and if he gets mad back u'll get ova it!
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Why should you get over it?
Really, it sounds like you still have feelings for the guy and he must still have feelings for you.
If this is the case then you need to talk to him...if he refuses then write a letter, send an email, whatever it takes. Tell him you made a mistake listening to friends and want to try again.
Letting friends tell you what to do in a relationship, especially at your age, is not always the best thing to do.
Sometimes, they are jealous ( secretly of course), and sometimes they just think they are being helpful. But for whatever reason, its not always best to rely on them for relationship advice.
If there is a problem with the way you were being treated, hes the one you should have talked about it with. He is the only one who could help you change it.
He is probably you age, right? Or pretty close. He has no idea how to treat a girlfriend. So, you need to help him out.
You say he was your best friend. Treat him as one and talk to him. Don't let the fact that hes your boyfriend make you stop talking for fear he will get mad. Communicate.
Go talk. Best of luck :)
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