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Tring to tell a friend


Question Posted Tuesday July 19 2005, 11:17 am

I am goin out with this kid and my friend likes him too I think I should tell her that I am goin out with him or should I not But we tell each other like every thing

I will RATED YOU HIGH
Please help mee

Always
Mee


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Tyler123 answered Thursday July 21 2005, 7:04 am:
id tell her and ask her to be understanding cuz ifu dont tell her and she finds out the hard way u might lose your friendship.



love always tyler*

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ilovepink101 answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 12:45 pm:
well you shouild never keep anything from your friend..and yes that means that you shouild tell her..maybe she will back up off hi if you tell her..im sure she wil appreiciate it if you tell her..im sure she wont mind though...and thats good you and your friend tell each other everything..and its good that you to have that trust between each other!!but yeah dont break that trust and just tell her..im sure she wont do anything..but she may get mad at you..but just give her sometime!and im suure shell get over it!1
hope i helped....!!!!!
*love always*
Bridgette>ilovepink101

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vanna04 answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 11:31 am:
you really should tell your friend. it'll probably be better if she finds out from you and not some person she doesnt even know. then yall will have the issue of i thought you were my friend and you didnt even tell me. so i think you should tell her.


<3 vanna

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KMUL05 answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 5:59 pm:
well first off..shes your friend and shes going to find out some way or another..so just tell her and see what her reaction..hoes before bros! xomulz

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batteredxdreams answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 5:46 pm:
You should tell her. If she's your friend she'll be happy for the two of you and put her feelings aside.

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orphans answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 4:59 pm:
i think you should tell your friend. if she likes him she might be mad for a while but she will come out of it and be your friend again. and later on she will thank you for telling her and if she finds out on her ow3n and you dont tell her that would probably get her more upset. i hope i was helpful to you.
~*Brandi*~

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Nevaeh314 answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 4:24 pm:
How hurt would your friend be if you told her? I mean, it's wrong to be dishonest, but you don't want to lose a friendship, either. You should tell her, but possibly wait until her feelings for your guy pass, or introduce her to another guy in the meantime. But tell her as soon as you feel you can, because if she found out through another source, she'd probably be hurt. Hope it all works out for you :)

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SilentTears answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 4:07 pm:
you should tell your friend now before it gets serious because the longer you wait she will be even more mad when she find's out because she likes him and you kept it from her.

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Girl2GirlbM answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 3:47 pm:
Well who saw him first? And did she know you liked him. And if you tell her everything, should sne already know that you are together. If it gets complicated between you and you're friend, break it off with the boy. Chicks before dicks- Good luck.

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ForbiddeN answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 3:09 pm:
Well it is better to tell your friend now before it gets to serious. At first she might not want to believe it but then she will understand and be happy for you. Boys come and go but friends are forever. But there is the chances of her being upset. If that do happen then you should give her time to herself for a few days, and if your not sure when you should talk to her, it will work itself out. And you can be expecting the question, "Why didnt you tell me before?" from her...

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BlondeBabe0282 answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 3:01 pm:
I think that you should tell her..I mean just think what could happen if she finds out and you didn't tell her..
But make sure you don't hurt her feelings. Also make sure she's in a calm mood. If she's really your friend she will understand.

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rockstarxlove answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 2:04 pm:
If you dont tell her, that doesn't mean that she wont find out somehow. I'd just tell her yourself. Keeping that from your best friend may be a bad thing. Also, if she thinks that he's available she might go after him. So it would be probably be a good thing to tell her. It may hurt her a bit at first though, because she likes him too. But telling her is better than lying to her.

&hearts; nicole

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ncblondie answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 1:13 pm:
It's better to tell your friend now so she doesn't make a move on him. If she tries to date him anyway even knowing that you're dating him, she isn't that great of a friend since no true friend would poach her friend's guy.

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Footballbabe0333 answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 12:58 pm:
well i think its like a rule you don't go out with i guy your friend likes but if you really really like him and are willing to jeopardize a friend ship then go ahead but if you don't like him that much don't risk it!!!

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use_the_force answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 12:34 pm:
lying to ur friend is not going to solve everything.. she may be hurt to know you're going out with someone she also like but think about how hurt she'll be when she finds out on her own.. not only will she be hurt but this could possibly hurt your friendship with her.. afterall you did lie to her.. so just tell her the truth even if it hurts. good luckkkk

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MD_Girl101 answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 12:24 pm:
You should just get our in the open.You should be honest with your friend.Now she may be mad st you but if she si your true friend she won't be mad at you forever.
Hope I helped
MD_GIRL101

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xoBrowneyes answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 12:16 pm:
Yeah you should tell her!

*!ClAiR!*

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SoInToYoUx0x answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 12:14 pm:
i think you should tell your friend be honest with your friend and dont let her find out the hard way. hope this helps.
*~Stephanie~*

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Me_Help_You answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 12:03 pm:
You should probably tell your friend becasue if she finds out for herself, there will be trouble!

Hope I helped!

:.:Holly:.:

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t0xicParadiSe answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 12:00 pm:
i think you should tell her before she finds out on her own its best if she hears it from you
hope i helped if you need anything drop one in my inbox &hearts;

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LoveNJstyle answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 11:59 am:
i think you should tell her before she finds out. do it nicely tho...<3

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horsesare666es answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 11:55 am:
Okay, same thing happened to me. I went the wimpy way and told her over aim. the conversation was basically
Hey
Hey
Sup
n2m u?
same
hey i have no idea how to tell you this but i'm going out with ----!
what?!?!
yeah...
oh.. that's cool i guess. i'm still hitting on him and sitting on his lap
*sigh w/e*

I was really workedup over this too and she didn't really care all that much. she was kind of jealous for a week then she got over it n just made fun of us teasing.. then she gave up on that after a month or two lol. if your really good friends she should be happy for you!
<3's
(that was kind of crappy advice... but goodluck she should be fine)

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AskElyssa answered Tuesday July 19 2005, 11:18 am:
yOU SHOULD TELL HER

MEEE

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