Hey my husband is going to be deployed to Afghanistan towards the end of October and i want to get a tattoo of the yellow ribbon with dog tags around the ribbon, but i want the necklace part of the dog tags to be a heart. I tried looking on Google to see if i could find a picture that resembled kind of what i wanted but i haven't found anything. Can you help?
If you go into any good tattoo studio with a rough sketch or even just an idea of what you want, they should be able to draw it up for you. Reputable tattoo artists care about their work and will be happy to redraw it until you're happy with the design. Another advantage of that is that you have something completely unique.
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I grew up with this one cousin and he's pretty great. We're like best friends but I never thought anything more of that. Well, today he told me he needed to tell me a secret and to keep it just between us. So, he tells me he has a crush on this really hot girl and that she's the hottest girl he's ever seen. He told me some perverted thing, too, but you get the idea. It's just how we talk to each other...like best friends! Anyway, I kept asking him who this girl was because I thought I could help him ask her out. He said he'd whisper it in my ear and then he leaned in and kissed me. I was really weirded out and told him to get away and to go home. I didn't tell anybody what happened but I've been ignoring him online all evening. I don't know how to handle this because it's like losing my cousin AND my best friend all at once.
For the record I do NOT like my cousin like this and had NO IDEA he thought of me the way he does. It's really nasty and not cool at all.
What do I do now? What should I say to him? Do I just ignore what happened?
You need to talk to him and make it really clear that you aren't interested in being anything other than his friend and cousin. Tell him it was inappropriate for him to kiss you and that you don't want him to do it again. It's important you don't send any mixed signals so be as clear and firm as you can but try to also give some consideration to his feelings, being rejected is never pleasant.
It will probably be awkward and you may need some distance from each other for a while but hopefully you'll be able to rebuild your friendship soon.
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My brother is in the 2nd grade and has been diagnosed with a mild case of autism. He is fully fuctional and communicates very well. The only issue is he isn't good at eyecontact and gets distracted rather easily. Last year, the school had a meeting to help decide which teacher was most appropriate for his needs. The decided on "Mrs.Tang", out of a twist of events the district transferred him out but my mom got him transferred back to his original school. He was assigned to "Mrs.Net" which was strange since Mrs.Tang was supposed to be the teacher. Anyways for the lsat 3 weeks my brother has come home beggong us to switch his teachers. He's never complained about any of his past teachers. The other day I went to go pick him up and I saw Mrs.Net's class. My brother wasn't with her. He came out of the school 5 minutes later BY HIMSELF. I don't understand why Mrs Net wasn't watching him. Then I sat down on a bench with my brother and Mrs.Net comes out of nowhere and yells at him. I've never seen a teacher yell at a student like that. My family has never yelled at him like that. I dindn't know what to say. But I DO want him with a different teacher.I'm not quite sure she's grasped the fact the he IS autistic and needs a bit more help. He gets recess taken away 1-3 times a week because "he isn't doing his work". DUH, because he needs more help and guidance. Is there anyway to transfer him? Should I approach Mrs.Net? Talk to the principle? Please help.
If your parents aren't already aware of the situation then make sure they are as they are the ones who will need to contact the school.
They should arrange a meeting with the principle and the teacher to discuss your brother's progress and air their concerns. Often teacher's just aren't trained or equipped to deal with children with special needs and it sounds like that's what's happening here. There needs to be plenty of communication and contact between your family and the school to ensure that everything is running smoothly.
If your family feel that the situation isn't improved after a couple of months, then try and get into contact with the local education authority to see what they can do.
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Okay so I'm a 19 year old female. A little history on my situation. There is this guy that is apart of the hip hop company with me in a professional dance company. He has made it very obvious that he has feelings for me and has even told me this. I get creeped out by him because he is so straight forward. He will text me asking what I'm wearing like every night, and he is just a creep. Anyway, last night one of the girls in our dance company had a party. I am usually not a partier but since it was with this group of people I did not see the big deal. I took about 6 shots if not more and needless to say I was very drunk. Everyone knows how much I get creeped out by this guy and regardless of this fact they left me alone with him. I passed out on my friends bed and when I woke up I was on her couch and he was on top of me. We started making out for a long time which I know was stupid on my part but I was so drunk that it didn't even matter. The next thing I know he took off my pants and started fingering me. I am unfortunately not a very outspoken person and I didn't tell him to stop. Before I knew it he was trying to have sex with me. I wasn't sure what was going on until I felt him go inside of me and again I just kind of laid there not knowing what to do. I know that this is all my fault because I didn't say no....... but he knew how drunk I was and I just feel so taken advantage of. To make it worse, this is how I lost my virginity...... I need to talk to him and let him know that that was not okay. I have to see him on a regular basis and I just don't know what I should say to him.... I feel SO stupid about this situation. I am a girl who never gets mixed up in this type of drama. I have talked to many of my friends about it, but I need outside advice.......
I have been in a similar situation. The trouble is, because you didn't actually say 'no' (and neither did I), everything gets a little hazy.
The first thing you need to do is book yourself in for an STD test. If you miss your next period, you should also take a pregnancy test. It's unlikely this guy used a condom.
I second Razhie's notion that he does not deserve a face to face confrontation. In my situation, I sent the guy a message on Facebook. I'd strongly recommend threatening to report him to the police. You don't have to follow through with it, but it will shake him up and make him understand the severity of what he did. Make it very clear that you are uncomfortable and that you want nothing else to do with him.
The fact that you are in a dance company with him bothers me. Is there anyone in charge who you can make aware of the situation? If you'd rather not give them the details, could you at least tell them that this guy is making you feel uncomfortable? If there is any way you can be separated from him it'd probably be a good idea to do it. I know that every time I saw the guy who did this to me I felt physically sick. You don't deserve to be made to feel uncomfortable at work.
You might find it helpful to talk to someone about what happened to help you get over it. A friend or even a professional counciller - if you go to school/college there will probably be one you can see for free.
Try to learn from this. It's all too easy to do things we regret when we drink and the results are often negative. I actually gave up drinking for a long time after it happened to me. Obviously you don't have to do that but you should be aware of your surroundings and the people you are with when you drink and preferably ensure you are not left alone.
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Does cold water rinse make hair shine or is that a lie somebody made up to trick people into freezing their faces off? XD
It's true.
Cold water seals the cuticles on the hair so that they lie flat, enabling them to reflect light. The more light your hair reflects, the shinier it'll be.
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So...are you saying that person doesn't need a legal guardian or someone who's over 18 to care of him/her? Legally speaking.
That's right.
In the UK, once you reach 16 you no longer legally need a guardian, although you are not considered an adult until you reach 18.
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Can a person at the age 16 move to the UK, live and study there without parents, if he/she has their consent? I tried to find more details on google, but I can't find anything related, except that the age of 16 is considered the legal age for sexual activities. I need answers from someone who knows exactly.
Thank you.
Legally, you can live, work and study in the UK alone, with or without parental consent.
However, unless you were working full time you would almost definitely need someone to sponsor or pay for you because you wouldn't be eligible for benefits (welfare) until you were 18 and finding council/social housing would also be difficult.
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I started dating my boyfriend last month and he treats me really good. The problem is that his friends really don't like me. They keep telling me that I'm hideous, ugly, and skanky and that he deserves so much better. I haven't really said anything to him about it but he never says I'm pretty or beautiful like guys are suppose to do. It's weird. What should I do? Do you think he thinks I'm not pretty? Should I tell his friends off?
You need to bring this up with him.
It's one thing his friends disliking you or thinking you're unattractive, but him not defending or reassuring you is another.
Some guys are either too shy or just aren't very good at telling girls how they feel or complimenting them. Your boyfriend is with you for a reason, it's unlikely that he doesn't find you attractive. My ex boyfriend hardly ever complimented me or told me he loved me and it used to really annoy me. I know now that it's just the way he is. If that's the case then fine, but you still need to talk to him about how that makes you feel.
It is disrespectful and rude for his friends to be so unkind about you. Your boyfriend should be sticking up for you. You need to tell him that. If he's happy for his friends to be so unpleasant towards you then he really isn't worth it.
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One night at a party, and I was running around outside with my friends until i tripped and i lost my necklace. I asked a boy to help me look in the woods for it, because that's where I lost it. While we were in the woods, he said "What do I get if I find it?" and I said, you'll find out when you find it! And sure enough he found my necklace, then he asked for his "reward" and I said he gets nothing but a thank you.
So school started this week, and today a boy walked up to me and said "HEY, if i find your necklace will you give ME head?" and I was really confused. Until one of my close friends came up to me and asked me if i blew a kid who found my necklace at a party. Of course I said no.. because i didn't! And people in school keep bringing it up.
I guess I'm just asking if you have any tips on how to cope with it? Ignore it? Etc.
Thankssss.
I'm going to second what you've already been told - ignore it.
Rumours are ALWAYS going round and I can guarantee that in a couple of weeks or so this will be old news and people will stop caring.
If someone asks you about it, act like you don't care. Alternatively, make a comment about the fact that this guy must be pretty lame to have to make up stories about getting head rather than getting it for real, or that you're flattered he used you in his fantasy.
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me and my mom dont eat meat, so it's hard to find anything without any meat. are there any kind of foods that we can make that are easy to make? we're both really picky, so they have to be guaranteed to be good. :)
One of my favourite easy recipes is a simple tomato sauce. It's quick, relatively cheap and you can make big batches at once freeze for later use.
Fry some chopped garlic and a whole red chilli which you have pierced once with a knife in a good amount of olive oil for a few minutes before adding a couple of tins of whole tomatoes and some herbs (dried oregano or fresh basil work especially well). Leave to simmer for 30 minutes or so before using a spoon to break the tomatoes up and remove the chilli. Add a dash of balsamic or red wine vinegar, season to taste with salt and pepper and you're good to go.
A good tomato sauce can be used for so many meals - just tossed with some pasta for a quick dinner, mixed with pasta in a casserole dish and topped with cheese for a pasta bake, if you eat fish you could pour some into a dish with a fillet of fish and top with mozzarella, capers, olives and basil and bake. You can also add more chilli, herbs or spices to suit your taste.
Another favourite of mine is a simple stir fry. All you need is a selection of vegetables - baby corn, sugar snap peas, bean sprouts, peppers, shredded cabbage and mushrooms work especially well but you can use whatever you like.
Heat some oil up in a pan (preferably a wok) and when it's really hot, throw in your vegetables. Keep moving them round the pan and don't let them stop for a moment or they'll stick and burn. They'll be done in a matter of minutes. You can just serve them with some plain noodles or rice. If you want a bit more flavour, try adding chopped garlic or chilli with your vegetables. You can also buy stir fry sauces in loads of different flavours which work really well and add a bit of variety.
Homemade soups are also great and much easier than you'd think. You'll find thousands of recipes online but it can be as simple as cooking some vegetables before blending them with some stok. Like the tomato sauce, you can make a large amount of soup and freeze it for an easy meal when you need it.
You'll find plenty more ideas with detailed recipes if you have a look on Google. Just search 'easy vegetarian dishes'. You could also try hunting around a for a good recipe book. There are quite a few these days which center around the concept of only using 4 or 5 ingredients. Most have a vegetarian section and there are also some written with vegetarians in mind.
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Im 18/f hes 18 too.
We've worked together for about a year now at a restaurant. he cooks, i dish wash and waitress.After a month of working together i said "we should hang out this weekend" but he said " i work all weekend sorry"...which was true, he worked everyday long shifts. for the next few months we talk at work,nothing to deep, i always laugh when we start talking and smile. a week ago i called him and left a voicemail asking if he wanted to go to the movies. he texted me later saying he couldn't today but we should go another time. i let him know he worked way more than me and to let me know when hes free.at work we didnt mention anything about me asking him out, and he didnt say anything about hanging out another time. he seems pretty shy but we get along super well. all i want is to hang out with him more, get to know him but if it doesnt go well work would be awkward. all of our co workers always say "when you guys going on your first date" and stuff like that. we always go along with it and laugh.
i was planning on walking out to our cars one night after work and just tell him i like him, and ask him if hes into me at all.but thats kind of blunt, i dont wanna freak him out, but i really like him, and he wont make a move, even though he seems to flirt with me a lot.
what should i do?
Mention hanging out to him one more time. If he makes excuses or doesn't suggest a time then I think you should leave it at that. There is a possibility that he isn't interested in anything beyond friendship and you don't want to make things awkward by pushing him.
Similarly, I don't think telling him you like him bluntly is a good idea. Even if he does feel the same, if he's shy you might scare him.
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I am a seventeen year old female and i have wanted to get my tongue pierced for a while. problem is, my mother might kill me if she finds out. i am determined to get it done, i just need help with how to hide it. she threatened to kick m 21 yr old sister when she got hers done, tried to rip it out herself and refused to speak to my sister until she took it out. i am seventeen, God only knows what she would do to me. can someone please help me by telling me how to hide a fresh tngue piercing? (i HAVE to speak around her, she's uber religious and makes me pray the rosary everynight. so absolute silence is not an option)
You'll find it near impossible to hide. Your tongue will swell up and talking/eating will be difficult for the first few days. Is it really worth the drama? Wait until you move out, then get your tongue pierced. It's annoying when parents disagree with you on things like this but the fact is that you are her child and while you are living under her roof, what she says goes.
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If you give head to a guy at a party while your boyfriend is not there does that mean you cheated on your boyfriend? Yeah, the guy was really hot but it's not like we had sex or anything. I didn't even let him finger me! My boyfriend is really pissed and won't talk to me now but I really can't see his reasoning or point of view. I've done this a few times before but I haven't told him about it and regret telling him this time. Do you think giving a blow job is REALLY cheating? I mean, come on...it's like...kissing...sort of...I don't see a problem.
If your boyfriend performed oral sex on someone else, would you be upset?
If your answer is yes, then why on Earth should it be any different when the roles are reversed?
If no, then you need to find a boyfriend who doesn't mind an open relationship.
Either way, your boyfriend has every right to be upset. Of course this is cheating! Personally, I consider cheating to be anything I wouldn't do if my boyfriend was there to see it. That could be anything from flirting to full sex. I think you'd be hard pressed to find anyone who wouldn't consider oral sex cheating.
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k my boyfriend of two years and i have been rocky any way right now like we are fighting. well things were going good again until i go on facebook and see these pictures of these girls who are 15 16 with him but they were at his friends house and his friends little sister and her friend were taking pix now there were two that were just of the girls and him and he sees nothing wrong with them yet everytime i ask him who he is with its boys that he chills with and these were taken the other night and he said he told me but i think id remember him telling me that hes with a girl especially one im not to happy with. every time i see these i want to break up with him am i being stupid? and when something like that happends i want to approach it in a diffent way instead of straight bitching at him. idk what to do any more.
I think you're overreacting.
He was at his friend's house, it just so happened that his friend's younger sister and her friend were there. I doubt he went there with the intention of hanging out with those girls. It sounds to me like he's just trying to avoid an argument with you.
It's normal to be jealous when we think our significant others are flirting or hanging out with people behind our backs but you've got to make sure you don't let your jealousy control you. Has your boyfriend ever given you any reason to think he'd cheat on you or lie to you?
If you have a situation like this in future, just mention it to him casually. Explain to him that you don't mind him spending time with his friends, male or female but that he needs to be honest with you. If you're constantly acting jealous and get upset everytime he spends any time with girls then he's bound to hide things from you to avoid confrontation.
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I have this co worker who every time we are supposed to close together always calls in he usualy works days and I work the closeing shift .he only helps close 2 nights a week .I don't know if its because he doesn't like to work with me or just don't like to help close.there is a lot of cleaning you have to do at night and I know a lot of people at my job don't like to do that sort of thing because the people during the day shift don't do anything but he knowes if he don't come in than I'm on my own and that gets anoying so what do you think any ideas
Unless you've annoyed him in the past, it's much more likely that he just doesn't like doing that shift. Either way, mention it to your boss. It's not fair that you have to do his share of the work because he can't be bothered to come in, regardless of his reasoning.
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Today when I was walking down the hallway during lunch I got hit in the back by one of my classmates. He started laughing and his friend was egging him on to hit me again. He's bigger than me so I couldn't have hit him back. he does the same thing to me in my 2nd period. Then when I went to 6th period another boy hit in me in the arm and everyone else just laughed, hes bigger than me too. If I tell somebody that their doing this they will make fun of me and bother me more.
how do i stop wearing my heart on my sleeve? all my life even when i was little i would try and still befriends with some one that has done me wrong, i always wanted to believe that people just make mistakes and not believe that the ones i care about would be this hate full towards me.
how can i toughen up and stop letting people walk all over me? my dad my mom and sister always tell me im to nice and people treat me the way they do because i allow it. and that nice people finish last, but how can i stop being who i am? my grandma always tough me to treat people the way i want to be treated but that doesn't work. I don't want to start any fights with people so I don't argue and the are usually bigger than me. I'm nice to them and they turn around and talk about me and call me zit face. I even cried when a group of girls started yelling at me calling me pimple face and everyone started laughing. It ruined my whole day. I already have self esteem issues bacause of my acne. People at school always beg and take my school supplies and they beg for my food. These girls in almost all of my classes talk about me for no reason, and I haven't done anything wrong. I'm nice to everybody. Every single day there's a kid in all of my classes asking me for paper and pencils. Some people even take things out of my pocket, when they don't ask, and I don't say anything. If I don't give them what they want they will be mean and talk about me, it bothers me because im sensitive and might cry later on. I don't want people to hate me or try to fight me if I say no or tell an adult. Most of the kids in my first 2 classes cheat off of me, I hate my first 2 classes and I think i'm starting to hate school becuz of these stuck up pretty girls. Ive noticed that every girl in the school that's pretty is stuck up and they treat everyone that they think is a geek or ugly badly. This girl sitting next to me got mad at me cause I wouldn't tell her how to do her own paper. i'm tired of people making fun of me and bothering me. If I tell an adult I will just be picked on even more and called a snitch and the people that bother me have tons of friends that will bother me. Ive tried getting my schedule changed but the same people that bother me are always there and its mostly girls. I get along with boys ok, but the girls are really mean, catty and they like to fight all the time. I don't bother anyone in any of my classes and im nice to everyone but Im always getting bothered. People take my things and talk about me while Im sitting right next to them. yesterday 3 girls took my work while I wasn't paying attention and copied it, then when they were done they threw it on the floor when the bell rang. I get cussed out and talked about all day. I know some people will say don't worry about that, worry about your studies. I am passing in school, but these people that pick on me are making me hate coming to school. It makes me cry everyday. I told my mom about it and she doesn't understand how people bother me. I cant go to another school because they are all far away. I get picked on by tough, popular people and every other group in school. I dont know what else to do to get these people to stop bothering me. I dont argue or fight, Im little anyway.
No one deserves to be bullied or picked on. Being 'too nice' is not an excuse. The sooner you realise none of this is your fault the better. You DO NOT deserve this behaviour.
Generally, bullies are people who are unhappy with or don't have alot of power over other aspects of their lives. They pick on others as it gives them some control and allows them to assert power. Bulies aren't limited to schools and workplaces either. Unfortunately you'll find them everywhere in life. You know those who are rude to people working in shops, bus drivers and even strangers in the street? They're all bullies too.
Breaking the silence is the most important part in fighting back against bullying. I suggest you sit your parents down and talk to them about this again. It's important that they understand what is going on. They are much more likely to take you seriously if you talk to them sensibly and maturely at a time when they are calm. If this isn't possible then consider writing them a letter. Once they understand just how much this is affecting you, they should be willing to help you.
Keep a diary of every single unpleasant action the bullies take against you, no matter how small or insignificant you think it is. Include dates and times and be as specific as you can. Name them wherever possible. This will help you when you tell a teacher or parent what's been going on. All schools have some form of anti-bullying policy and should take your complaint seriously. There should also be a person in your school to go to with these complaints. If you can't find a designated person, then go to your school counciller or a trusted teacher. You can even go straight to the head teacher/principal if you want. The most important thing is that you tell someone.
If you feel like the school isn't taking you seriously, ask your parents to write a letter directly to the school head teacher/principal. If that goes nowhere then ask them to write to the board of governers or the authority in charge of the school.
Do not be afraid to speak out. The school should respect your confidentiality and deal with the situation as respectfully and tactfully as possible. However, be prepared for these people to turn nasty if they are not properly dealt with the first time around. Continue to ignore them and don't be afraid to go back to the teachers/your parents if they don't stop.
In the mean time, there are a few things you can do to make school easier for you. The first thing to remember is to try really hard not to fight back. The second you fight back, you will be put in the same boat as them in the eyes of teachers and it's not unlikely that the bullies will then get you into trouble. Regardless, it will undoubtedly make the situation worse. As hard as it is, it's imperative that you ignore them. The same goes for any form of retaliation. They are more likely to leave you alone if they don't get a rise out of you.
Try to avoid places where the bullies will be. Obviously this is more difficult in school and in classes especially but at lunch and break times, try to be elsewhere. Look into joining lunchtime clubs at your school or find a quiet room to read or work in.
Don't listen to the catty comments and remarks. Bullying often relates to the bully's own insecurities and picking holes in you makes them feel better. Always remember this when they are unpleasant to you. Don't avoid school or let your work suffer because it'll mean letting the bullies win. You shouldn't have to do badly because of them.
Please, please speak to someone. Even if you can't bring yourself to speak out against these people then at least try talking to a counciller or trusted adult to get some of these problems off your chest and work out some coping mechanisms.
I really do wish you all the best and would be happy to offer you extra help and support with this if you need it.
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What would happen if my boyfriend wore 2 condoms instead of one? would that make it more safe? what exactly would happen?
It would actually be less safe than using one.
The friction created as the condoms rub together can cause tears and holes, making them less effective.
Stick to one.
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18/f my so called best friend Skylar is a huge liar. Like she'll go somewhere with her Friends, and tell me she was babysitting. She did something horrible last year, she pretended to be someone and told this girls boyfriend that she was cheating on him and stuff like that. She is just such a liar. She is fun to be with. But I saw her in school
today and I couldn't even look at her. I'm so angry and I just don't know What to do. I haven't texted her Nd she hasn't texted me. If she texts me I know it's going to
be so hard not to say anything. I know she knows Im mad because I heard she was talking about me. She leaves me
out of things and obviously doesn't think of
me the same. Wha should I do?
This girl isn't a friend.
She's made it quite clear that she doesn't value your friendship very highly and that she doesn't care that you're upset.
Steer clear of her, don't waste your time with a 'friendship' that you aren't getting anything out of.
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I'm 20/f, my boyfriend is 18. We've been together for 3 years. We've had our ups and downs, but we've always worked out. Basically, he's done a lot of crap to me that I just put up with.Anyway, I found out that he cheated on me a couple of weeks ago. (He had sex with another girl;I don't know her) And now I can't figure out what to do. I know it seems obvious..I have always said I would dump somebody in a minnesota minute if they cheated on me, but I never expected this. Like I said, we've been together for 3 years. He is the only guy I've ever slept with, and I love him.
But I keep going back and forth about what to do, because I still love him and want to be with him, but at the same time, I can't get over him betraying me like that. All I can think about is how he was intimate with someone else, and it's driving me insane!
Plus, I don't trust a word he says now. I found out on my own about him cheating, and he denied,denied,denied until I finally drug it out of him cause he knew I knew. So now even if he just says he's going to walmart my mind starts spinning..
anyway, advice please!
is 'once a cheater,always a cheater' true?
should I even be trying to work this out?
help!
If you hadn't forced a confession out of him, your boyfriend is highly unlikely to have confessed. On top of that, getting away with something is always motivation to do it again.
Sometimes people do cheat, feel terrible about it and never do it again. We all make mistakes. This doesn't sound like your boyfriend.
Even if you could forgive this guy his betrayal and his lies, as cliche as it is, trust is crucial to a relationship. Once the trust is gone, the relationship collapses. You've admitted yourself that you don't even trust him to go to Walmart so how on Earth is that going to work in the long term?
Of course it's not as easy as just leaving him. Three years is a long time to invest in someone and it's incredibly hard when you realise you've wasted your time. Ultimately, it's your decision as to whether or not you stay with him but you don't deserve to be with someone who treats you like this.
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lets go with me and my boyfriend have been having sex im on birth control and when i started going on birth control me and him started not using condoms and i dont really like using them. well the other night he was like i wanna try a condom with lube ok lets try then again last night he used a condom and i was just thinking why again? so i was like um no were not using those i dont like them and hes like really and i go yah. then no b.c i didnt want him to get mad. now all i was thinking hes having sex with someone else wtf! and i felt like if i asked him that hed filp b.c it might or most likely not true. so basically the mood was torn and he got mad b.c i left him hanging and now its weird. and i was like if your going to change the way we have sex you should tell me why and he said it hurt last time with out one then i dont want babies and w.e so your telling me three diff reasons and i was like your not the only one having sex with me here so i think i should know why and he like ignored me on that question. so i dont know what to do.
and just a reminder im well old enough to be having sex and me not using condoms is none of your business so i dont like to hear that i should be using them i know all i need to know, ive had one partner so has he.
'me not using condoms is none of your business so i dont like to hear that i should be using them'
But that's just the point.
The fact that HE wants to use condoms means you should using them too if you want to sleep with him.
No method of contraception is 100% effective and it's very sensible to double up. Your boyfriend has every right to use them if he wants to and should not have to deal with a bad attitude from you. Sex is a two way thing. It is completely unacceptable for you to get angry with him because he wants to be safe.
Your trust issues with him have nothing to do with contraception. If you think he's sleeping with someone else then it's a different issue entirely. Stop sleeping with him until you sort it out.
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