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My boyfriend's friends think I'm ugly!
I started dating my boyfriend last month and he treats me really good. The problem is that his friends really don't like me. They keep telling me that I'm hideous, ugly, and skanky and that he deserves so much better. I haven't really said anything to him about it but he never says I'm pretty or beautiful like guys are suppose to do. It's weird. What should I do? Do you think he thinks I'm not pretty? Should I tell his friends off?
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You need to bring this up with him.
It's one thing his friends disliking you or thinking you're unattractive, but him not defending or reassuring you is another.
Some guys are either too shy or just aren't very good at telling girls how they feel or complimenting them. Your boyfriend is with you for a reason, it's unlikely that he doesn't find you attractive. My ex boyfriend hardly ever complimented me or told me he loved me and it used to really annoy me. I know now that it's just the way he is. If that's the case then fine, but you still need to talk to him about how that makes you feel.
It is disrespectful and rude for his friends to be so unkind about you. Your boyfriend should be sticking up for you. You need to tell him that. If he's happy for his friends to be so unpleasant towards you then he really isn't worth it.
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Hon, as long as the boy likes you. What his friends say DO not matter.
But the guy should also take into consideration that he should be able to defend you when his friends are being jerks like that.
So, you should tell him "I don't like the way you let you friends insult me!"
And if he doesn' do anything about it, let the guy go.
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Your probably a beautiful girl and its not what your boyfriends friends think about you its what he thinks about you. If he treats you right then keep him around but if you feel like hes not fulfilling your needs then maybe you should address the situation and talk to him about it. If hes a jerk or something ask yourself is he really worth your precious time. Theres plenty of fish out there in the sea. lol You deserve better.
Good luck!
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If he's friends with people that would talk about you that way, then his thoughts about you can't be too different. Are you hideous, ugly or skanky...? Probably not, so ditch this boy.
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"find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot,
who calls you back when you hang up on him,
who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat,
or will stay awake just to watch you sleep…
wait for the boy who kisses your forehead,
who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats,
who holds your hand in front of his friends,
who thinks you’re just as pretty without makeup on.
one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares
and how lucky his is to have you…
the one who turns to his friends and says,
“that’s her!”
~ anon ~" this is a poem that always comforted you. his not really worth it if he cant stand up for your in front of his friends, talk to him about it. otherwise his friends are just gonna go on about it and not respect you..
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