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well i like this boy right and he's spanish and i have no problem with that b/c he''s really sweet and cute. but all my friends do b/c im like white and we're totally diff and some of my friends are sort of racist. i don't know what to do b/c i rlly like this boy...what should i do
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your friedns are stupid racists who cares waht they think? if you like the boy go for it
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Ok, I'm 17 and me and my bf just broke up. Well, i'm not suppose to talk to him ever again and I did. Huge mistake, but now he's saying he will tell my mom we've been talking if I don't see him or do what he wants me to do. What should I do? (link)
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tell your mom about what he said and say your sorry and that she was right about not letting you talk to him. then tell all your friends that he has a small dick.
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First off, I am a girl, and I am dating another girl. Now on to the problem. Ive been dating Molly almost 11 months now. A few months ago, things got really rocky between us, so we took a short break, and things got alot better, and we didnt fight or anything. Now, about 2-3 weeks ago, she, just out of the blue, says she wants a break, a longer one, and when I asked why, she said she didn't know how she felt anymore. She says she is starting to fall out of love with me, and that she needed space so she could work it out. It was really hard for me, at first, but now I am getting better. Now the thing is, she is sending mixed signals. Sometimes it seems like things may be getting better, others, not so much. She even tells me that I can 'do stuff' with other girls, should I choose to (I dont want to) and then when I hang out with someone that something could potentialy happen with, I think she gets kinda jelouse (but I'm not sure if I am reading signals wrong). Now I have 2 questions: The whole doing stuff with other people. Is she testing me? Or possibly she wants to not feel so guilty if things dont work? And my second question is, How long should I wait for her? Our one year is January 20th. Im only 17, I have invested a year of my life into our relationship, I am not ready to give up yet. What can I do? (link)
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heres my guess, and i could be way off. she cheated on you, most likely soemthing fairly minor like a kiss. she feels bad but she likes the person she kissed. she might be letting you get even with her without actualy knowing it.
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What do you think is the best way to figure out if a guy likes you? Lets say....you think there is a pretty high chance he does....so what do you think?
ps-i rate anyone who tries to answer this question! youre making my day by just helping me out on this! (link)
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"hi do you like me" works amazingly well. actualy why dont you try asking him out if he says yes then he likes you. dont go that whole "note thing" or having a friend ask those wil make you seem like a coward
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me and my boyfriend have been together for quite some time ((3 months)) and we have known each other since he was 15! he is 19 now & im 15... my parents think he is 16 and i hate lying to them but i love him and i want to be with him... how bad does this make me?? (link)
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only a liyylr bad. 19 going for a 15 year old is really pushing the limit (actualy id say exceeding thelimit) of approporate age difference but love knows no numbers.
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My friend has this bf that I hooked her up with.Me and him are cool ever sence they met and I liked him I still do but not as much.Well the other day she ad a dream about us to mking out and going behind her back.I would never do that but does that dream mean something. (link)
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no, but then i dont believein psychic dreams. dreams only reveal stuff about your subconcious not some1 elses.
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I think I accidentally signed up for that paypal thing on this site. I got like 2 messages saying thankyou, I don't know when or how it happened, but I can't be signed up, this is my parents computer, and I have no money to pay for any of that. Will someone please tell me what happened? I deleted the e-mails after responding to one saying whatever happened it was an accident. This is Southern_Chickety just to let you know, incase it's important. I don't know if it's for something else, but I got these to e-mails that both said thankyou for signing up for paypal. So if it's not for this site, then how I can I not be signed up for whatever it's for? Sorry it's long, but I'm so confused. (link)
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i think you jsut signed up for paypal, which doesnt charge anything. goto paypal.com put in your email adress and password and it will show you your recent transactions.
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theres this guy that im kinda friends with (im a grl) and on the way back from one of our classes i could walk with him n stuff cuz he walks alone and so do i but i dont know what to say to him because i dont realy know anything about him besides that he goes to my hebrew school. what could i say to him? ill rate! thanx (link)
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hebrew school? poor you. i went to hebrew school 3-8th grade and well lets just say im not afraid of hell anymore lol. well you dont know anything about him, so ask about him lol tell him about youself. but dont let teachers catch you i dont think boys and girls are allowed to talk lol.
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I know there is something messed up in my head because i get angery, sad, and happy really quickly and when i am mad, i throw things. i hate the way i act and i have been trying to change, but nothing has been working. ive told my mom and sister this and they really havent done anything to help me. what should i do? (link)
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i hesitate to say this but you might be bipolar. thats really the worst end of the spectrum and i thought i should tell you to contrast with all the people telling you its all ok. its better to be overcatious then undercatious. ask your mom if you can get it checked out.
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my bf is hidding behind being shy!
we have a son that was just born on halloween and he still hasnt got a job! i need help and he agreed to help, right now my parents are paying for everything and i dont know how to make him get a job, hes 18 years old...the only job hes ever has i got for him he didnt have to work for it so he doesnt know how to get one and ive tried to teach him but still doesnt go and get a job...i dont know what to do...how can i make him get a job but still be nice about it. (link)
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how about this, dont be nice about it. tell him to get off his lazy ass and get a job. actualy getting a job is preatty hard so you should help him with applications and such. im 18 and today is actualy my first day of work (in exactly 1 hourr lol) seriously its hard to get a job but he should still have one.
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Gosh, how can I make myself STOP procrastinating??? I mean I've got it bad. I come home from school and don't even start my homework till' about ten at night or after. I get on the computer...eat...clean my room...shower...anything but do homework, and it's making my grades suffer. If I would just start studying for tests a few hours earlier, I would do so much better. Any tips? (link)
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stop procrastinatin! tomorow! thats the thing hard work pays of later laziness pays off now. procrastiantion isnt the problem, its the solution, just the wrong one. one thing you can do, if you dont have the will power to stop yourself, is ask your mom or dad not to let you on the computer or watch tv until youve finished your homework.
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I work at an arcade. I was your basic level grunt for a while: Did all the cleaning and such. Then I started getting more into repairs. Then my boss started to trust me with bigger responsibilities. I always carry two important keys with me on the same keychain with my keys for my car, home, etc: The key to the building, and the key to all the machines. I know the passcode to the security system, and have full access to the register, change machine, basically anything to do with money. I know exactly how much money the business makes, how much goes towards expenses, and how much each individual machine makes. I am trusted to run the place myself on several days of the week. That, my friend, is a LOT of trust that has been placed into me.
I started working there in Summer of 2003, so it's been about a year and a half by now. My starting pay was $6 an hour, and I was paid in cash right after the work day. If I worked for 4 hours, I'd take $24 out of the register and go home. No taxes to deal with or anything. Nice huh? But now I have been promoted to Assistant Manager. Now I am an offical employee. I will be paid on Mondays with a check, taxes taken out. The thing is, I'm going to get a raise, but I am to decide what it should be. Help me out.
Take these factors: I have worked there for a year and a half for the same pay, taxes are now being taken out, and I have to do so much more work than I used to. My pay has to be about $6.50 or $6.75 just to receive the same pay, because of taxes now. So what should I ask for? I hate to have made this so long, but there are a lot of factors at work here. (link)
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what state are you in? im in california i just got my first job entry level adn my starting pay is 6.75 with that much responsibility it really doesnt matter what you get paid just take some out of the register. no really dont do that. my friend is a cashier and she makes 12$ per hour. now really an assistant manager should get piad quit a bit as in the 20$ range.
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i have a friend who is bi....but im ok w/ it .but she asked if i wanted to come over?and i told her no cuz i have plans..but i dont,and people have told me wen they stayed the night w/ her that she want to do stuff and im not like that at all....wat should i do??? (link)
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do you want to "do stuff" with every single guy you meet? im guessing no, so a bi or gay girl isnt gonna want to do stuff with every girl she meets. those people are probably jsut homophobes that want to make her look bad
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I recently started dating this guy and he seems really nice. He's in his mid 20's, he don't have any kids, and he's a gentlemen. But there's a downside. I don't know what to think about him. Something's just not right and I need yall for some support about what I feel. First of all, he has more than 1 tounge ring. Now that's weird, but I really don't see them much so I just gotten use to that. Second, he has long fingernails. I dislike when someone I date has longer nails than me. There's more! Third, he has the most unattractive walk. I like my men to have some kind of stroll and he DO NOT have that. Finally, he don't wear underwear! Now, I don't know what to think of that. People keep telling me that he's a freak or bisexual or something and that really don't sit well with me. He's a nice guy and all but I don't want to get all serious with someone who could fall for my brother. So please, tell me what yall think! (link)
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i really dont see what not wearing underwear can have to do with being bisexual. all the otehr things are preatty superficial and if you wantt o break up with some one over that then feel free. otherwise dont.
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my bf and me have been going out for 2 weeks now. and it just weird. he has already told me that he loves me and everything. i can't stand that and when i told him not to say that, he got kinda upset. so then he told his friend that i said i love you first, and then his friend wants me and him to break up with him. and today when i wrote him a letter about it i was kinda mad. and during the passing period he came right up to me in the big lunch room and started yelling at me infront of god and everybody. i walked away trying not to cry, but when i walked into 3rd period i was balling. he told me later that i started it. and that he is tired of my prissy attitude. what do i do? what would you do? would you stay with him? should i dump him? i like him a lot (link)
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well he might really love you (or think he does) and when you told him not to say it it hurt him. guys really go on the spot saying i love you first, its something they usualy wouldnt admit to their friends. but really that isnt an excuse for how hes been treating you. id try to talk it out first, then if that doesnt work break it off (his hand lol)
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dear advice giver,
I am 13 years old and I do not like my body. I am young for my grade and I am considered rather small in my grade. But what bothers me the most is that I have no breats. I can't even fit into a size A yet. All my friends have breasts but I am as flat as a cardboard. Consider this, I am a size 34 in sports bras but not the size A to go with it. My mom is a 34B and she says that she grew at a slow rate. Please help.
-sign, flat as a wall (link)
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well at 13 it isnt uncommon to not have breasts yet. but there are still guys out there who like girls with small chests as well. um just wait a few years, especialy if your mom has small breasts and was a late bloomer
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ok so theres this guy i like lets call him in "C" well the other night "C" asked me to pretend to be his gf for that night to piss this grl off that likes him n he doesnt like her the same way bcuz well shes sorta a nerd..and he said he'd break up wit me at the end of the night so i said yes but he never broke up wit me and that was like sunday night. so are we still goin out or what? bcuz hes always callin me his gf and stuff to his friends but i mean it was only for that 1 night so whats the deal? (link)
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i think C was is really into you and that was just his way of asking you out. if youi dont want to full on date him then ask him wtf, in provate so you dont embareass him
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Me and my friend are going to New York this weekend. Were both 15 and we both have boyfriends that are 17. Then last night my boyfriend called me and told me that he was going to new york with my friends boyfriend and their brothers, who are in our grade. Well my boyfriend came over this afternoon and he told me he loves me (not for the first time) but we're both virgins and he talked about having sex this weekend at the hotel. I'm still not totally sure I want to, I asked a question on this before, but this is different... if i have any doubts do you think i should go for it or not? cause this is my one and only chance to be with my boyfriend for the whole weekend in a hotel.. if anyone can help please do!
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this is a hard question to answer. you only get one first time and you dont want to have any regrets. first and foremost dont let him presure you into it. you will always have doubts, it is human nature to doubt. however if you love him and you think you are ready then go for it. but most importantly make sure you use protection/
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For the past week my hands have just been ice cold. My guess it is do to poor circulation. I work on a computer all day, so it is not like I am not moving them. Does anyone have any ideas what causes this, and what I can do about it? It is very uncomfortable. (link)
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if you smoke that cuts the circulation in your hands and feet off. beyond that i suggest washing your hands with hot watter instead of warm. it might be the weather my hands have been kind of cold lately too.
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My husband and I were talking the other day and he said that if he died he would not want a funeral. I was shocked. Of course he should have a funeral, it's a great way for family and friends to say goodbye. I feel it is more for the family of the deceased anyway. He disagrees, and is shocked that I would not respect his wishes. Who is right here? And if he did die, what are we as a family suppose to do? I would like the love and support of my faamily. (link)
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well its not like hed even know or be able to do anything about it. yeah thats cold and i dont really mean it. you should respect his wishes, but he should respect yours as well. compramise with him find a middle ground. like a small service for just a few faminly and friends. funerals are over rated anyways at that point the body is just an empty shell and you really dont need it to be able to say goodbye to your loved one.
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