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Well, my best friend recently moved here from Wisconsin. (We're both in 8th grade). We get along really well, but the thing is she always puts her Wisconsin friends before me. I know this is perfectly normal, but I still wish that I could be her best friend. I don't want to talk to her about it, because I don't think she would understand. Can you give me advice on how to deal with this? (link)
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Wow, I am going through the same thing as you are right now. My best bud moved back here from Arizona, and she is ALWAYS putting her arizona friends before me, and I can understand that she misses them, yuh know, but it's like....what about me? So, I totally get how your feeling. I tried talking to her about it, but she denied doing it, so she doesnt understand [and it makes me upset too] what I do is I just keep hanging out with her. I want to become her number one friend again, so I would suggest just invite her places, talk to her, call her, text her, whatever you have to do, but don't let her forget about you. If she needs a shoulder to cry on, be the first one there, tell her that you'll always be there for her, but whatever you do, don't put her wisconsin friends down, she will like disown you haha [I know, I'm so corny] But try writing or drawing your feelings, talk to some of your other friends, but also show your bff how much fun you are and that you truly care. You don't have to hide your feelings, just go with the flow :]
Good luckk and if you need anymore help, just inbox me :]
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my question is very, very simple
http://www.csnofficefurniture.com/OSullivan-Furniture-11711-OV1645.html
find me that desk. it doesn't matter the price as long as it's not more than $200, and if it is send me the link anyway. doesn't matter what type of wood. must be finished. one drawer under tabletop preferred (does NOT have to be keyboard slider kind). nothing fancy, just a SIMPLE. DESK. how hard is it to find a cheap one of these babies nowadays? ps. i will love you forever if you find it.
pretty much, find me a desk that LOOKS just like the one above except cheaper, cause i can't. (link)
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Some of these maybe?
http://www.overstock.com/Home-Garden/Queen-Anne-Desk-Chair-Set/1587405/product.html
or...
http://www.amazon.com/QUEEN-ANNE-WRITING-CHERRY-FINISH/dp/B000FLZNQ0
Good luckk!
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16/f
i can't get along with anyone i live with, my parents are devorced and i don't get along with either of them, then there's my sister who i can't stand, so they'll yell at me annd throw me out to later apologise and make me feel horrible for wantingto move out... how can i deal with getting thrown out all the time and then feeling bad about it? (link)
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If I were you, I would talk to somebody about it. Maybe a friend, counselor at school, teacher, other family member, someone that can be there for you. Right now, you have to stand up for yourself and believe in yourself, you deserve to be treated with respect an shouldnt be feeling as though you're world is crashign down on you. yuh know? To get your feelings out, listen to music, write, draw, talk, cry. Just don't keep these feelings you have build up inside of you, because you'll explode. yuh know?
Good luckk
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Hello. I have had really low self-esteem lately and im finding myself blush over anything! it's ridiculous! i don't know y i do it, its makes no snese. Is there anyway you can control it or any way to train yourself to feel more confident? Thanks (link)
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I still blush haha, it's really hard to control, this happens to everyone, and it's pretty natural. It's just a reaction that is soooo hard to control, and some people thing it's cute :] I just like hide my face or put my hands on my cheeks, to cover it up somewhat. yuh know? But if you want to feel more confident, you gotta believe that you are confident. You have to look in the mirror and KNOW that you are beautiful and great and confident, because guys like that in a girl, and girls like that in a guy. Juts believe in yourself, because you are so great :]
Good luckk and go with the flow
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what are some good workouts to do for badminton tryouts? (link)
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well, if i were you, i would definetly work out your arms...lift weights, do PUSHUPS, and planks, and you might want to work on your abs (planks can help this) and legs, do wall sits, crunches, sit ups. but really, the main part of badminton is to use your arms, so let that be your main focus. just do a lot of exercises with your arms, pushups and weight lifting will work the best, but it is also helpful to have reflexes, and strong legs.
GoOd LuCk!!!
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ok so im trying out for the school soccer team. im in 7th grade so there are 8th graders trying out too. i have played since i was 4 years old then i decided to stop my 5th and 6th grade year to get serious about cheerleading. well now cheelreadings over and i want to go back to soccer. im trying out but i dont even know what half the terms mean. 40 pple make the team (or teamS not sure) but i want to make it so badly. tryouts are the week of 3/10-3/14. im going to disney from feb.21-mar.1 so i have about 15 days to condition. what should i do for my soccer skills and to get into shape more. cheerleading ended in november so im way out of shape..thanks in advance! (link)
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run run run! :-) seriously, going to disney is probably really good, because its nice weather down there, so you can get up early (or at night) and run. also, you walk alot at disney too, so that will help. Do some crunches, wall sits, squatis, sit ups,stretches, and jump rope or just jump in general in the air for a few minutes. also, bring a soccer ball at disney with you, on your spare time, if you have any haha, you can practice your ball handling skills. also, do some jumping jacks, and planks (how to do a plank:
lay flat on the ground on your stomach, then lift your body up in push up position with your fore arms holding you up.)
http://images.google.com/imgres?imgurl=http://www.berkeleyrunningcompany.com/Portals/3/elbow-plank-exercise.gif&imgrefurl=http://www.berkeleyrunningcompany.com/Staff/TipsandTricks/CoreStrength/tabid/161/Default.aspx&h=200&w=200&sz=3&hl=en&start=4&tbnid=9xL5hXyASTM6JM:&tbnh=104&tbnw=104&prev=/images%3Fq%3Dplank%2Bexercise%26gbv%3D2%26hl%3Den
^website on planks!!! haha
http://www.soccer-training-info.com/soccer_speed_warm_up.asp
^a website for some good exercises for soccer!
GoOd LuCk!!!
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I want to act, I just got a call to go to an open call audition. I havent told my family yet, and i dont know how because i dont think that they will believe in me.
how can i tell them, or atleast my mom ? (link)
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just go straight in for it, tell her the good news. make sure to be excited about it when you tell her, that will make her feel better, and take you more seriously. when you tell her, say something like "mom! i can NOT believe it! this is like, my dream, and this is so exciting! can i go? please? this is REALLY important to me! :-)" and when you are telling her, make sure to have the number she can call to get more information, do your research, this will also make her know that you are serious, and that you actually took time to get information.
GoOd LuCk!!!
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Which tumbling pass do you think would be more impressive & score higher for cheer tryouts?
Roundoff - three flips flops - back tuck
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Roundoff - flipflip - Layout
My goal is to do roundoff, 2 or 3 flips flops, layout (which I can do on a spring floor, but I dont know if I can get it on the basketball court by tryouts). So if I don't get it by then, which of the other passes would be better??
Thanks! =] (link)
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I completely agree with the person below me...some of my friends are cheerleaders, and i watched them do both of the cheer moves you menchoned, and the roundoff flipflip layout will look hot! they are going to be blown away!
GoOd LuCk!!!
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good luck at tryouts!
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I'm 14 and I'm a girl. Me and my Mother don't get along that great. Everyone so often we'll have a nice conversation, but she treats ne like I'm 5. I tell her not too all the time and I scream at her because my anger rises so quickley with her and she doesn't do anything when I yell at her. And when ever I talk to my sister, even when it isn't a bad conversation she gets mad at me for talking to her? And then I yell at her again, and she does nothing. I always feel so guilty, help? (link)
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you have to talk to her. i know you may not want to, and that you think it probabaly wont help, but it will. thats the only way to clear the air or something? like, you just have to ask her to treat you like the age you are, even though that may be hard, because if your anger rises quicky, then maybe she feels like she has to walk on egg-shells and has to watch her words so you dont flip. with the talking to your sister, talk to her about that as well. did you and your sister use to argue a lot? maybe she thinks you are argueing again. but talk to her and sort it out. good luck :)
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does anyone know when the next gossip girl episode is? or why they never played episode 14 (the season finale), and when it will be played? (link)
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All I know is that it has something to do with the Writer's Strike. So whenever that's over I suppose.
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hey. ok so my mom used to wear these winter boots but she's saying that they're too heavy (cause of the platform on the bottom that keeps the boots elevated so when she walks in the snow, they don't get ruined). so she was like, "maybe i should buy UGGs like you" and i was like, "uhhhh. no." and so i need to suggest to her some type of winter boots that are light. they don't even have to be boots.. even ankle boots are fine. they just have to be reasonably easy to walk in yet keep her feet warm. price range.. > $150. any suggestions? (link)
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well, theres lots of types of uggs, if you didnt want her to have the exact same pair as you, but there are also really cute coach boots that are light. I found a website with ALOT of winter boots
http://www.winterfootwear.com/ulu_boots.html
GoOd LuCk!!!
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okay this might sound like a dumb question but is there any way to make your eye color lighter? i have blue eyes, but usually they're dark blue, and i would really like them to be a lighter blue. i don't have contacts, but is there anything that can brighten the color? thankss. (link)
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you can get colored contacts, and you can also wear different color clothing to lighten them up, for example, my eyes turn green when i wear a certain color clothing, so i would not wear that color clothing if i didnt want my eyes to turn green. i found a website that can help!
http://malaysia.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080201112938AAUF9fW
GoOd LuCk!!!
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i need a song that's about guilt and innocence, guilt vs. innocence. anything like that. or that has something to do with guilt and innocence. school appropriate please!
thanks to anyone who can help, this is hard haa :D (link)
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well, you could always try
JoJo...pretty much all of her songs are kind of like that...to me at least. wow, i hope i helped haha :-]
GoOd LuCk!!!
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that was kind of hard...but i really tried hard anyway! umm...you can also try hilary duff.
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16/f. 15/m. my first boyfriend's getting to be REALLY kinky...and it's okay, to some extent. but i've just had enough.
i have a kind of ..a fear of male genitalia..its not a fear..more like a disgust [because of events that have happened previously..to me ..when i was young] and..my bf (lets call him A)
well, A showed me his penis. and i wasn't exactly turned on or anything. we're much too young. and whenever i reject looking at it, or touching it or anything, he gets PISSED at me. and he goes...so you have peniphobia now? WTF?
he ALWAYS finds something wrong with the way i act-how i'm disgusted by certain crude..sexual acts - IN PUBLIC.. WHO touches themselves in public? Please tell me..? Am I insane or -what..?
He takes pictures of his penis and gets upset when I refuse to see it. He doesn't respect my irrational fear...no matter how stupid it is.
Worst of all, he forces some acts on me...he grabs me by the crotch and forcefully grabs my boobs. I liked the making out stage...But it's just getting too retarded now. He's way too horny. And I tell him I love him..because I do. But I can't be with him anymore. I feel like he only uses me for my body. That's all he wants.
Can somebody PLEASE tell me ..whether or not this relationship could be worth saving? Or..?
There's also no intellectual attraction - We have nothing to talk about. It's all physical. And I don't feel like I can tell him anything.
I have no experience with boyfriends prior to this one. So I don't know what to do. Any help would be GREATLYYY appreciated. (link)
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honestly, you two should sit down and have a chat with one another. tell him how you feel, and that he needs to take that into consideration, because, after all, he is a reflection on you too. if he doesnt abide, then you have to decide wether or not you really want to stay in the relationship. It sounds to me like he does just want you for your body, and is trying to take control. maybe you should tell him that you have a purity ring or something, and see what he does. tell him you are not ready, just as a test. he should not push you into anything...but just remember, i am making an opinion, and you know him way better than i do. :-] In the end it really all comes back to you, and what you decide.
GoOd LuCk!!!
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this is going to sound corny but i have a myspace and i hate all of those mirror "myspace pictures" they're boring. i want a good picture, does anyone have any good picture ideas? thankss 16/f (link)
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it all dependsss:
alone pics:
check the scenery, make it what you want, if you have distort features on your camera...do it! try different angles, to see what looks good,try different poses, not just one facial expression.
More than one person:
have your friends get together with you, and have all of you guys like jumping on a couch or something and take the picture holding the camera, make silly faces, or just smile.
Best friend:
hug each other, make silly faces, be jumping on a trampoline or swimming, or make it an insider (like if you have an item that is such an insider, like ducks, then you could have you and your best friend with a toy duck in the mall)
experiment and have fun with it!
GoOd LuCk!!!
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Everytime me and my crush talk, I always end up saying stupid things..
He was talking about being a lefthanded pitcher and his height and how thats an advantage to him playing baseball.
And I didn't hear the last part, and I said 'Oh, so that helps you win, huh?'. I didn't mean to say win, but I often find myself saying things that I don't mean.
How can I stop being so nervous around him when I talk to him? (link)
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well, it might be tough at first, but first you need to get used to being around him. Then, when you are having a conversation together, just take a deep breath (in your head i guess haha :-]) like just relax, and make sure to listen to each word he says. You really just have to get used to him first, it will makea world difference. Also, ask him questions on the topic he is talking about, he will be glad you did, and you will feel more relaxed (and he will know that you are listening!)
GoOd LuCk!!!
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How can i learn spanish fast and easy not in school, because theres not a possible way to switch my schedule around i already tried so any reccomendations? (link)
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I could of sworn I answered this before. Anyway I recamend Roseta Stone I learned zulu in 2 months.
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14/f
Whenever I sing, I sound.. pretty good i guess. But with a microphone, I really hate my voice. I think it sounds different--- yes, different in a bad way. What wrong? What can i do to still sound the same? i mean the microphone is there just to make the voice louder.. not change how it's SUPPOSE to sound.
Please.. any advice? (link)
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try holding the microphone at different angles, along with putting it farther/closer to your face. just remember too, that what you hear is also different from what the audience hears. It could also be the microphone, try out different microphones to see which is the best, some are better than others.
GoOd LuCk!!!
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Hey! I like this guy and i told him that i did. I knew he had a girl friend even before i started to like him. So I like him and when I told him that instead of ignoring me we started to talk even more often. Like we never used to talk on the phone but we did. We can talk for hours with getting bored. He sits next to me now well in my table and we talk alot! My friends say that this is showing that he likes you. I feel that he likes me but only as a friend. He shares everything with me. His problems and sadness happiness, we talk on aim etc... He said he trust me and I'm very special to him. He got me a gift for my birthday. We have a weird relationship. I really like him, but he has a girlfriend and I don't know what to do. He said I'm pretty adorable and smart etc... but if my friends says he likes me and he does? Why doesn't he just break up with his girl freind? We have so much in common and I even told him not to break up with his girl cause they were having some problems and I helped him out. Still I want him to ask me out. I am so confused... I hope you can help me out here. Do you think he likes? If he does why not ask me out? (link)
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aww, well it sounds to me like he likes you too. and im not just saying that. Maybe he just doesnt know that you like him more than a friend too. I think that if you really like this guy, then go for it! but dont let the world know, because then TRUST me, you can start to get into problems with HIS girlfriend, her friends, and him. i would say that it would be safe for you to tell your friends though. When you are around him, dont pull away, hint to him that you like him alot. (but continue to be yourself.) For example, when he has problems with his girlfriend, and you go to help him out, to make some "humor" in the whole situation (more like flirty humor haha) say "well, you could always have me," or "we could always go out instead." something like that. But say it in a funny, flirty, hinting way. it will bring a smile on his face, while at the same time, make him curious.
and dont be affraid to come up with "a look" for him, one that you only give to him, when he looks at you. a look that says "i like you alot" a sweet look. Also, teach him a little more about you, and learn a little more about him. Ask questions, hang out more often. This will bring you closer. Right now, he could also be deciding wether or not he wants to choose you or his gf. Show him that you guys can like each other better than the way his current gf is, and how much you truely do like him! Just make sure you dont rush into anything, let him (and yourself) take your time. :-]
GoOd LuCk!!!
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life is short, make it sweet, take risks every once in a while! Go For It!!!
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i'm going on a royal caribbean cruise next week (enchantment of the seas) and i was wondering if the pool is salt water. if so is it all gross or is it filtered or whatever?
also what should i make sure to definitely bring, and how accessable are the rooms, like bathrooms and whatever.
thankss (link)
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Dont worry the pool isnt gross, they clean it pretty often. Here is what you should bring on the cruise:
As many clothes as you need (duh)
Tooth brush and whatever shampoo you use*
(I'm almost positive they give you soap)
The make up you use (if your a girl)
One sweater and one pair of jeans or long pants.
I think thats all you need. Good luck, I hope I helped and I hope that you enjoy you caribbean cruise.
*If they do give you shampoo then you might want to know that I heard that hotel and cruise shampoos that they get from real big companys can cause cancer.
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