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My love has a girlfriend
Hey! I like this guy and i told him that i did. I knew he had a girl friend even before i started to like him. So I like him and when I told him that instead of ignoring me we started to talk even more often. Like we never used to talk on the phone but we did. We can talk for hours with getting bored. He sits next to me now well in my table and we talk alot! My friends say that this is showing that he likes you. I feel that he likes me but only as a friend. He shares everything with me. His problems and sadness happiness, we talk on aim etc... He said he trust me and I'm very special to him. He got me a gift for my birthday. We have a weird relationship. I really like him, but he has a girlfriend and I don't know what to do. He said I'm pretty adorable and smart etc... but if my friends says he likes me and he does? Why doesn't he just break up with his girl freind? We have so much in common and I even told him not to break up with his girl cause they were having some problems and I helped him out. Still I want him to ask me out. I am so confused... I hope you can help me out here. Do you think he likes? If he does why not ask me out?
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aww, well it sounds to me like he likes you too. and im not just saying that. Maybe he just doesnt know that you like him more than a friend too. I think that if you really like this guy, then go for it! but dont let the world know, because then TRUST me, you can start to get into problems with HIS girlfriend, her friends, and him. i would say that it would be safe for you to tell your friends though. When you are around him, dont pull away, hint to him that you like him alot. (but continue to be yourself.) For example, when he has problems with his girlfriend, and you go to help him out, to make some "humor" in the whole situation (more like flirty humor haha) say "well, you could always have me," or "we could always go out instead." something like that. But say it in a funny, flirty, hinting way. it will bring a smile on his face, while at the same time, make him curious.
and dont be affraid to come up with "a look" for him, one that you only give to him, when he looks at you. a look that says "i like you alot" a sweet look. Also, teach him a little more about you, and learn a little more about him. Ask questions, hang out more often. This will bring you closer. Right now, he could also be deciding wether or not he wants to choose you or his gf. Show him that you guys can like each other better than the way his current gf is, and how much you truely do like him! Just make sure you dont rush into anything, let him (and yourself) take your time. :-]
GoOd LuCk!!!
ps
life is short, make it sweet, take risks every once in a while! Go For It!!!
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