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Mother Daughter relationship
I'm 14 and I'm a girl. Me and my Mother don't get along that great. Everyone so often we'll have a nice conversation, but she treats ne like I'm 5. I tell her not too all the time and I scream at her because my anger rises so quickley with her and she doesn't do anything when I yell at her. And when ever I talk to my sister, even when it isn't a bad conversation she gets mad at me for talking to her? And then I yell at her again, and she does nothing. I always feel so guilty, help?
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you have to talk to her. i know you may not want to, and that you think it probabaly wont help, but it will. thats the only way to clear the air or something? like, you just have to ask her to treat you like the age you are, even though that may be hard, because if your anger rises quicky, then maybe she feels like she has to walk on egg-shells and has to watch her words so you dont flip. with the talking to your sister, talk to her about that as well. did you and your sister use to argue a lot? maybe she thinks you are argueing again. but talk to her and sort it out. good luck :)
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she yells at you for talking to your sister? why? thats messed up! you shouldnt feel guilty, youre expressing how you feel and it sounds to me like she is the one with the issue if she yells at you for talking to your own sister! next time though, try just completely telling her how you feel and that you know she loves you but you wanna get along better and maybe she'll explain. the only thing to do is talk to her about it, eventually i bet you guys will become closer and everything will be okay but i still dont get why she would yell at you for talking to your sister!
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