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Best Friend Issue....
Well, my best friend recently moved here from Wisconsin. (We're both in 8th grade). We get along really well, but the thing is she always puts her Wisconsin friends before me. I know this is perfectly normal, but I still wish that I could be her best friend. I don't want to talk to her about it, because I don't think she would understand. Can you give me advice on how to deal with this?
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Wow, I am going through the same thing as you are right now. My best bud moved back here from Arizona, and she is ALWAYS putting her arizona friends before me, and I can understand that she misses them, yuh know, but it's like....what about me? So, I totally get how your feeling. I tried talking to her about it, but she denied doing it, so she doesnt understand [and it makes me upset too] what I do is I just keep hanging out with her. I want to become her number one friend again, so I would suggest just invite her places, talk to her, call her, text her, whatever you have to do, but don't let her forget about you. If she needs a shoulder to cry on, be the first one there, tell her that you'll always be there for her, but whatever you do, don't put her wisconsin friends down, she will like disown you haha [I know, I'm so corny] But try writing or drawing your feelings, talk to some of your other friends, but also show your bff how much fun you are and that you truly care. You don't have to hide your feelings, just go with the flow :]
Good luckk and if you need anymore help, just inbox me :]
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