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nervous
Everytime me and my crush talk, I always end up saying stupid things..
He was talking about being a lefthanded pitcher and his height and how thats an advantage to him playing baseball.
And I didn't hear the last part, and I said 'Oh, so that helps you win, huh?'. I didn't mean to say win, but I often find myself saying things that I don't mean.
How can I stop being so nervous around him when I talk to him?
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the best advice i can give is: Let go. take a deep breath and dont even worry about how youre sounding. gather all of your confidence and just talk to him like you would talk to your friends. dont worry about him thinking you sounded dumb, he probably didnt even think that. confidence is key. just be comfortable with yourself and know in time youll get much more comfortable around him to!
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well, it might be tough at first, but first you need to get used to being around him. Then, when you are having a conversation together, just take a deep breath (in your head i guess haha :-]) like just relax, and make sure to listen to each word he says. You really just have to get used to him first, it will makea world difference. Also, ask him questions on the topic he is talking about, he will be glad you did, and you will feel more relaxed (and he will know that you are listening!)
GoOd LuCk!!!
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If you think about him as a person and not as a crush.
Maybe try pretending he's a girl, or another guy that you don't have a crush on. Thinking about him as a friend will help you feel less nervous around him.
Also maybe telling him how you feel. He will understand the nervousness.
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