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i can't get along with anyone
16/f
i can't get along with anyone i live with, my parents are devorced and i don't get along with either of them, then there's my sister who i can't stand, so they'll yell at me annd throw me out to later apologise and make me feel horrible for wantingto move out... how can i deal with getting thrown out all the time and then feeling bad about it?
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It looks like your family needs professional assistance. Perhaps you can tell them that you don't like the way things are going and you want to fix things with a professional mediator in a group as well as individual setting.
Do you have a relative, friend's mom, favorite teacher or school counselor you can turn to? If so tell them what is happening at home and how miserable it is making you and that it's affecting academics and every aspect of life.
They will support you and present options and ideas you may never have thought of. The beauty of the situation is that your teachers, admin etc know the truth about your home life and can apply pressure on your mother/parents and siblings to work out their shit or they'll make sure to keep monitoring the situation.
Can you move out? Your mom is responsible for you until you are 18. If you had a relative or friend's family who wanted to offer you a room there's nothing legal stopping you as long as your mother knows where you are and you can pay for food and contribute something towards rent. See if this idea would fly.
If they're always throwing you out and then feeling awful maybe things will change if you do decide to move out and live with friends. That way you can work on your relationships and healing without being in a negative atmosphere all the time.
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If I were you, I would talk to somebody about it. Maybe a friend, counselor at school, teacher, other family member, someone that can be there for you. Right now, you have to stand up for yourself and believe in yourself, you deserve to be treated with respect an shouldnt be feeling as though you're world is crashign down on you. yuh know? To get your feelings out, listen to music, write, draw, talk, cry. Just don't keep these feelings you have build up inside of you, because you'll explode. yuh know?
Good luckk
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