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Hey Everyone :) I'm Kate and a level 2 mod on here. I've had this account since July 2004, so I've been on here since I was 13! Wow ... crazy for me to think how long ago that was. I will admit I don't check in as often as I once did, but being away at college, being in a sorority, and having a job when I'm not at school is very time consuming. I still try to help out as much as possible, and if you send me a question I WILL answer it. This site helped me a LOT when I was in high school and had a lot of questions, and I'm here to help anyone who needs it :) Feel free to write in my forum or send me a question any time!

advice

1st of all I RATE!!! :):):):):):)
hey ya'll, i want a site that will let me put songs in my column and if there's a certain code that i will need, could yall put that in ur answer too, unless the site gives u the code i've been to a few that give u a code, but then they don't work
I DON'T WANT THE XANGA SITE OR IWEBMUSIC!!!!!!!!
they don't work for me(and yes i had the correct code, and iweb music is down or sumthin)
I RATE I RATE I RATE I RATE(i've looked at other questions that are the same, but they all have the 2 sites that don't work for me)

this site no longer allows music

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There is this guy that i had met online. We have been talking for quite a while now and we both like each other a lot. One day we want to meet each other, but I'm not quite sure if it's safe to do so. But like I said we like each other a lot and we love talking to each other.

he could be a perverted rapist
he could be a great guy

if ur a kid or a teenager, then bring a parent wit you, and then u can find out for sure
or like u can have the parent hangin around but not near u, so if sumthin happens, then the guy doesn't kno ur 'rent is there, ur rent can either call the cops, or step in

if ur an adult, then i don't really kno wut to say, does he have ur pic? if u don't have a cell, then buy 1, if u do, make sure u paid ur bill, and bring it

also make sure u have pepper spray in ur purse, or pocket or sumthin

meet in a public place like a mall, don't go to the movies or out to eat, shop, or go to a fair or sumthin like that

play it safe for the 1st few dates

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hay ok well i put music on my advice column and it wont play! is it the site im useing or is it im doing it wrong??? plezz help me give me more sites and walk me thru the steps plez ill rate!

i just found out that the admin won't let us use music on r column anymore
sux doesn't it

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hey do you have any ideas on how to lose weight fast over summer?

excersise, crunches, run, walk, pilates, situps

eat less food, or just smaller portion
eat healthier foods!!
sports
hangin outside, playing games where u run a lot

Hope This Helped
SoUtHeRn_ChIcKeTy

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ok me and my friend have been friends for a while and stuff but anyways. ever since i took her to youth group at my church everybody seems to liek her more now then they do me... they are all her friends instead of mine!!and im really hooked on my bf and whenevr i talk about him she gets mad but i dont get mad when she talks about guys thats shes not even going out with.. what do i do? do i take a break from her? help!

it sounds like yall did (still do?) have a good friendship except that one lil thing

try talkin to her, if she blows her steam, then idk if she's a good enuff friend, but if she understands, and tries not to act that way, then maybe everything will get better

actually ur friend sounds sorta how i used to be (not the whole boy thing tho, just takin all the friends)
but ever since my friend talked to me about that, i actually changed a lil bit, and now im not like that, sumtimes i slip up, but still just talk to ur friend it'll all work out in the end

Hope I Helped
SoUtHeRn_ChIcKeTy

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Hey Everyone! I'm a 16 yr old female and this summer my mom and I planned a trip to Tennessee. So she said I could invite a friend, so I did. Today we went out with that friend and another one, later at dinner my mom said she was re thinking bringing her with because she was a lil out of control. She said I should take my other friend that was out with us today. I don't want to lie to the one I already invited and take another one instead. I asked if I could take both, my mom said she'll think about it. So should I go to take both? Because I really want both of them to go! I rate. :)

if your mom lets u, then invite both!!

if not, then u should probably just invite the 1st 1, but warn her to not be so out of control
but like say it in a REAL nice way

i mean, u don't want to hurt anybody's feelings, and it'd be awesome if u could invite 2 of em, cuz then u can have TWICE as much FUN!!

Hope This Helped!!
SoUtHeRn_ChIcKeTy

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can u get pregnant if u hav sex on your period??

yep, there's actually only 1 week a month that u are safest, and not ovulating

1 week b4, the week ur on it, and the week after

the last week of the month, r better off

it sux for a grl i kno, but thats the way we were made!!
Hope I Helped
SoUtHeRn_ChIcKeTy

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I am 4'9" and I weigh 93 pounds... I have very muscular legs and arms,(i dont mean to brag but i am telling the truth so i will get good advice) but my stomach is a little poochy. I haven't gone through "puberty" yet, and i know that I will get taller and thin out a little bit, but for now, what are some ideas to lose the pooch? (plus inner thighs, and lateral obliques) Thanks!

it's okay to weigh that much, but incase u wanna be POSITIVE, go to this site
Http://www.BMIscale.com

okay, well u are able to do sit ups, crunches, jog, walk

but really, it's just baby fat, since u haven't hit puberty thats all it is, idrk if u r able to lose the pouch, but those are still ways to keep in shape
Hope I Helped
SoUtHeRn_ChIcKeTy

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all my friends think my one guy friend is gay and i think so too..but he deny's it when we say nething about it..what do i do ??

if he's really gay, maybe he's embarassed

and if he is gay, he'll find a way to tell u in his own tyme

we knew this kid, and he acted gay, looked gay, and EVERY1 thought he was gay, including his family, well it turns out, he wasn't

Hope I Helped
SoUtHeRn_ChIcKeTy

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Well me and my boyfriend have been goin out for 3 months starting tewday...and i have this problem with cutting ( my wrist ) and i havn*t told hym untill yesterday....and he got really mad at me and said i either have tew stop cutting or i have tew brake up with me cuz e doesnt wanna risk losing someone he really loves......but i think he is just running away from the problem.....wat dew u think he is doing

he cares about u, he isn't runnin away from anything
so your best shot is to try to stop, like tell n adult and get counciling, otherwise u'll lose him, then u'll get more depressed, and cut more, and i think u kno where im goin wit that 1

if u can't seek counciling, then where a rubberband around your other wrist, and snap it each tyme u cut (that method is used to stop many other addiction, and it works too)

GL!!
SoUtHeRn_ChIcKeTy

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i used tew be really shy and all of a sudden i made a big change all of my friends see it to, i dont think a lot of people exept that im changing.........and im not sure but a lot of people started calling me a slut or a hoe and like a whore and i dont no why, and even if i was doing somting it would only be with my boyfriend and its not even there buisiness, im so confused

the best answer that i can give you, is to talk to your friends
tell them how u feel about them callin u names
unless it's the other people, that u aren't friends wit, then it shouldn't bother u

as long as u have your friends and ur guy, or atleast your friends, then it shouldn't bother u wut other ppl are saying
if it REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY bothers u, than tell them off or sumthin, or talk to an adult, or if skools started, and they call u names there, tell an administrator!!

Hope I Helped
SoUtHeRn_ChIcKeTy

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How can you delete a question you posted?

i've asked admin, u can't.. 'sum people pride their abitility to answer questions'

thats the line i got from admin, it sux, i've asked questions that were deleted by admin and won't be shown, and they won't even let me delete them BS!!!!

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okay, well, I think I want to break up with my "internet boyfriend". but I don't want to hurt his feelings, and I don't know how to end it :(

Lilly

tell him that it isn't workin, and you'd rather date sum1 that lived a bit closer

goodness child for all u kno, he's sum 30yr old pervert, or sum 70 yr old queer

i don't really believe in internet relations, u never kno wut could happen

u could tell him the truth
or u could say u have found sum1 that u kinda lyke around where u live!!

Hope it all works out for you :-)

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Is it safe to cook with pans if they're getting rust spots in them?

no cuz u don't want the metal or anythin to get in ur food, unless the rust spots are smaller then the nail on ur pinky toe, get new pans!!

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i got this huge pimple that just showed up overnight, does anyone know how to get rid of it fast?

stridex
oxi pads

TOOTHPASTE, that works for me!!

or u can pop it and put on sum acne medicine

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hey, i have this plant. it bit me, well sort of. it's a venus fly trap, and i stuck me finger in it. is it poisonus? should i see a doctor, or am i doomed?

u probably have enuff answers, but no i don't think anything is gunna happen, if ur like REALLY SUPER DUPER woried, u can talk to ur rents, but i don't think u have nething to worry bout
KaTe
rate me plz :-)

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hey yall, im doin a survey for skool

here are the questions im askin please answer whichever one's u want, u can answer 1, all, or sum

1.)Bush or Kerry?
2.)Fave Food?
3.)Fave Color?
4.)what IM programs do u have(list all, if u don't have any say none, ex. AIM yahoo msn ect...)
5.)grade your in(if aduly, wuts ur degree, diploma, or like masters...)
7.)age within then next 3-6 months
8.) number of siblings
9.)internet u use(dial up, roadrunner, msn, yahoo ect.)
10.)county u live in (if USA then state)

thanks for the help

this is all for skool, there is no possible way that i can figure out anything about you
and if u wanna actually give me any of your screennames so we can chat, go ahead but u don't hafta!
thanks for all the help! :-)

bush
chicken tenders wit honey mustard
green
AIM YAHOO MSN
9th
14
3
RR + MSN
USA-NC

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I've been with my boyfriend Steve for alomost 2months now. I haven't seen him in over a month and by the time i get to talk to him it'll have been a month. Lately I've been talking to my best friend Chris a lot. He's really sweet and nice to me. I really like him now. And i'm more open with him and i can talk to him easier than i can talk to steve but hes going to high school next year and im going into 8th grade and so is steve. Chris just got dumped by one of my best girl friends and shes mad at me cause she thinks i called her a slut and i didnt. I told chris i liked him when he was still going out with my friend. about a week after she dumped him he said he liked me back. we were playing truth or truth and he asked me if i would dump steve for anyone. And i said why do you want me to. And he said yes. I said i dont know if i would cause i hadnt talked to steve in so long. I'm really confused i dont know what to do. Should i dump steve and go out with chris? i mean it might make my friend mad cause she gets mad at stupid things. Or should i wait till steve comes home and talk to him cause i also feel like i barely even know him. who should i choose? what should i do?

this is just my opinon, and u mite also wanna ask sum1 else, cuz im just about as cunfused as u r on the subject, but here goes anyways

u like both boys
both boys like you
you see chris all the tyme
u hardly see steve

well u can either wait until steve cumz home, and tell him that since u hardley see him, u've developed feelings for another guy

and i got confused, are both boys goin into 9th grade, or just chris??

well here's another opinion of mine

YOUR ONLY WHAT 13, 14!!

u don't need a steady boyfriend (i mean i have 1... but u don't need 1)

i can't really tell u who u should choose, but this is wut sum friends and i do, whenever we have mixed feelins on sumthin, we also use this as truth questions when we play truth n dare

If there was a murderer in your house, and u n steve n chris were the only there, he said he was gunna kill both boys, say he has 2 guns and he'll shoot them at the same time

WHO WOULD U JUMP IN FRONT OF AND TAKE THE BULLET FOR¿?
if the answer is neither, then ur screwed(idk how to rlly put that in a nicer way)

if the answer is steve, stay wit steve
if the answer is chris, go wit chris

if the answer is u'd try to kill the murderer b4 he could hurt either of the guys then im not sure

but wut i would do is wait for steve to cum back, or w/e and talk to him, do u still have STRONG feelins for him?
if not then leave him and take chris, but make sure chris still wants you

or if it's allright with them, then go out on dates wit both of them, u don't need a steady boyfriend

sorry this is so long, and probably REALLY confusin, but maybe u should also see wut other people have to say

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Where can I find cute quotes??

well since every1 has told u firehot, ill give u sumthin else

http://www.iconator.com

it doesn't just give icons, also u can get away messages, but most of the away messages are just quotes,
i also think that there's one, sumthin like
www.wittywuotes.com

sumthin like that

sry im not that much help

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How do I add different backgrounds to my column?

the site i go to is
Http://backgrounds2001.cjb.net/

and u go to the settings page
scroll all the way down
it will say sumthin like backround page URL or sumthin like that

well u copy the URL from w/e site (it has the URL on the pic for the one that im talkin bout)

then u paste it on the edit settings page

if u don't like wut they have at the site above then u can search yahoo or google!!
u would search as colorful desktops
or as cute dsktops, or just as desktops

Good Luck, if u have any questions on backrounds, ask and ill let ya kno!!

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