Hey Everyone! I'm a 16 yr old female and this summer my mom and I planned a trip to Tennessee. So she said I could invite a friend, so I did. Today we went out with that friend and another one, later at dinner my mom said she was re thinking bringing her with because she was a lil out of control. She said I should take my other friend that was out with us today. I don't want to lie to the one I already invited and take another one instead. I asked if I could take both, my mom said she'll think about it. So should I go to take both? Because I really want both of them to go! I rate. :)
xx1pimp69ettexx answered Sunday July 25 2004, 3:43 pm: you shud if youR mom says yes..but if she says no..just invite tha won uRe mom wants cz u dunt want uRe mom tu complain..and also.. you can tell uRe friend tha tRuth ad she'll undeRstand becuase its not uRe decision ! [ xx1pimp69ettexx's advice column | Ask xx1pimp69ettexx A Question ]
AnDiE answered Sunday July 25 2004, 2:29 pm: i thynk u shuud invite both.. so that u dont have to take an invitaion(how ever u spell it) bak.. cuz that would suk big butt if u were invited sumwhere and then got uninvitied... just tell your friend to tame down.. and yea.. l0l.. tennessee is tha best... MeMpHiS iS mUh HoMeToWn!
haha.. yea.. i lived there till i was lyk.. 3.. l0l.. u didnt kneed to knoe that tho.. l0l.. kay.. bYe$$ [ AnDiE's advice column | Ask AnDiE A Question ]
S_C answered Sunday July 25 2004, 8:43 am: if your mom lets u, then invite both!!
if not, then u should probably just invite the 1st 1, but warn her to not be so out of control
but like say it in a REAL nice way
i mean, u don't want to hurt anybody's feelings, and it'd be awesome if u could invite 2 of em, cuz then u can have TWICE as much FUN!!
Mandee answered Sunday July 25 2004, 3:12 am: Why not?! Hehe. If you think that both of them there would be more enjoyable for your trip then take them!! It would probably be fun too! When I go away I invite a bunch of friends, and we have the best time! And if taking both of them is what you want, go for it! As for your mom... Maybe a good idea is to talk to your mom about the friend who she claims is out of control. If she is a bit out of control talk to your friend and tell her that you love her but she needs to calm down a bit for your mom. And you can tell you mom if she just gets a chance to know the friend who is out of control better before the trip, she could make her decision that way. Have an awesome trip!! Love you! -Mandee [ Mandee's advice column | Ask Mandee A Question ]
blackmamba answered Sunday July 25 2004, 2:16 am: that could be very fun! you should make sure that the two of them get along, otherwise that could lead to a very bad ride there and home (ugh) if your mom really doesnt want to take the "wild" one, then you have to explain it to her ( DO NOT.. I REPEAT.. DO NOT LIE TO HER) that your mom cant handle her and she cant go anymore because she was acting irresponsibly. try and pursuede your mom to take both though, because that way no one gets hurt and you have double the fun (hopefully) peace out:) [ blackmamba's advice column | Ask blackmamba A Question ]
blueyedchic answered Sunday July 25 2004, 2:08 am: Yes u should definatley take both cuz if u take the one that u did invite then the one u didnt may feel upset but then again if u take the one u didnt invite then the one u did will feel upset so if u can then u should take both.
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