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i used tew be really shy and all of a sudden i made a big change all of my friends see it to, i dont think a lot of people exept that im changing.........and im not sure but a lot of people started calling me a slut or a hoe and like a whore and i dont no why, and even if i was doing somting it would only be with my boyfriend and its not even there buisiness, im so confused
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thats life...i went through the SAME thing...and i was only in 6 grade
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OMG!! we are both having the samething happen!. but i just think that there mad cause they dont have what you got i mean yeah i do stuff but most of the time its only with my boyfriend and im losing all my friends but dont worry things get better just keep to yourself and dont care what people say. im here for you just IM me if you need anymore help ill talk to you about it!.
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as lonq as it`s not your friends callinq you those thinqs then you shouldn`t listen to them just iqnore them and make them think it isn`t botherinq you then they will eventually stop nd realize they are wastinq there time.
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Dont listen to wat others say n dont let it get to you cuz u kno that your not a hoe or a slut or a whore so dont take it to heart k
Hope i helped!!!
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people r alwaes gunna talk their mess cuz their jelous.. l0l... for real tho.. people git mad cuz ur talkyn or flirtyn(innocently) with thier guys.. or tha guys they wish they could ho0k up with and their jelous.. so yea.. its gunna happen.. but just dont worry bout it.. :-D
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just dont worry about it! you knwo your not any of those things and thats all that matters!! let people think what they wanna think because once somebody has an opinion of you..thats really hard to change...and people also might be jealous of you!!! you have made such a big change in your personality and its making more people like you!!!
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Its really nothing to get in a tizz about.Just blow it off,I know it hurts to be called names but seriously all the people calling you names are probly just jealous or have problems of there own and need to take it out on someone so they chose you.Why? I dont know,becuase you are coming out of your shell and they dont like it!I dont know but just be strong,thats the best advice I can give you!
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*Lacey
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hey i had the same problem...its not that i was one its just that i had a lot of guy friends..and this one person spred tstuff about me because i hung out with the guys sometimes...its not like i did anything!!~ i just let it roll off my back!!~
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you gotta be who you are, and if people have a problem with you, well guess what? it shouldn't matter. as long as your colfortable with who you are, your image will soon settle in and people will have to accept the fact that thats who you are and that they are going to have to deal with it. hope i helped =Þ
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sam
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well if you are having sex non stop then u can be considered a slut and a whore and stuff.. just chill out with ur sex life u little horn dog ;)
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the best answer that i can give you, is to talk to your friends
tell them how u feel about them callin u names
unless it's the other people, that u aren't friends wit, then it shouldn't bother u
as long as u have your friends and ur guy, or atleast your friends, then it shouldn't bother u wut other ppl are saying
if it REALLY REALLY REALLY REALLY bothers u, than tell them off or sumthin, or talk to an adult, or if skools started, and they call u names there, tell an administrator!!
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SoUtHeRn_ChIcKeTy
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You are very right, it is none of their buisness. But it's typical for that to happen because people are judgemental. In fact everyone has a little bit of judgement in them. But yeah, a lot of times it goes way too far. The only thing that matters hun is if you're happy with this change. It's your body and not theirs, so don't keep trying to please people. Be who you want to be. If you know those people well tell them you are not a whore, slut or hoe. You do things with your boyfriend...so what? Many people do, believe me. lol Just make them realize you are not what they think you are. If you don't know them very well then chances are they don't know you well. So right from the start they don't even know who and what you are and they are just spreading rumors trying to bring you down. Don't let them do that to you ever! If you are happy with yourself never be afraid to show it, and don't let people tell you what you are, because only you know what and who you are! Good luck with everything babe! Take care! Love you! -Mandee
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