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all my friends think my one guy friend is gay and i think so too..but he deny's it when we say nething about it..what do i do ??
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Just keep thinkin' that he's gay.
Don't badger about him about it anymore.
It shouldn't matter if he's gay or not.
I swear this one kids gay at our school, but he'll deny it, and so will all of these girls.
He's more femme than the other homos at our school.
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just go along with him ~ if he is gay obviously he isnt ready to come out yet... but maybe hes not gay i got straight friends who act gay but are totaly straight! ~ so take his word for now but dont be surprised if in the future he says hes gay ~ *mare*
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You shud believe him..but if you Rilly think he is gay then u shud explain tu him that you will accept hime no matter wat and how fun it wud be foR tha both of u! think about SHOPIN!..lol..i wud du anythin foR a gay fRiend i think theRe aesome!
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It's his business, first of all. If he IS, then let him accept it on his own, and he'll tell you when he's ready to. That's a really big thing to admit, you know.
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Dont say nething to him about it. This must mean hes either not gay but acts like it or he is and is not ready to come out of the closet. He might be afraid you wont except him as a friends if he comes out.
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i think you should wait for him to be ready to tell u about it instead of pressuring him into telling you
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you shouldn't pressure him about it. if he really feels like you need to know, then he will eventually tell you. if you pressure him too hard though, you might run the risk of losing a good friend. hope i helped! =Þ
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I had the exact same problem with my best friend. Everyone knew he was gay but he just wasn't ready to tell. He eventually came out,and gained alot more respect for it. However, don't rush him into confessing anything, he'll do it eventually if he IS gay, it's not an easy thing for someone to come out and say. The best thing you can do is continue to be his friend, stick up for him when someoen calls him gay (EVEN IF YOU AGREE) and eventually he'll come out, when HE'S ready. We forced my friend too, and it's something I regret a whole bunch looking back on. Just don't hassle him about it...like I said, he'll come out some day, that is, if he's gay...he could just be feminine?
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if he's really gay, maybe he's embarassed
and if he is gay, he'll find a way to tell u in his own tyme
we knew this kid, and he acted gay, looked gay, and EVERY1 thought he was gay, including his family, well it turns out, he wasn't
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SoUtHeRn_ChIcKeTy
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If he *IS* gay then he'll tell you when he wants to. It's non of anyone's buisness whether he is or he isn't.
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Dear,Person
Well I have the same probelm because people think im gay but i really don't care i am not gay so it really doesn't matter i only hang with girls so i know where he is goin thorugh just tell him i know your not gay i know your a femmie boy don't worry bout it tell him just tell him don't worry what other people think of you just worry bout your self tell him because i think hes not gay he probably a femmie boy it doesn't matter if a guy acts like a girl that doesn't matter mabye that guy was grow up with sisters or sisters friends see it doesn't matter bc i know alot of guys here that are femmie but there friends are popular doesn't really matter if they r if your not pouplar you get made fun of if your a femmie boy if hes not popular tell him to not worry bout it
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he may or may not be gay, but just acts like a stereotypical gay man. they had the stupid playing it straight show on fox for a while that showed that gay men don't act very different from straight ones.
with him, leave it alone. it prolly makes him uncomfortable. if he's straight, his self-confidence is hurt by this, and if he's gay, and denies it, he probably just isn't ready to come out.
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believe him.. i have a friend like that but i dont think he is gay and we dont mention it to him cuz we dont care!!-trix
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When I was in high school, I had a friend like this. He came out when we went to college together, and he told me why he didn't come out in high school.
This is what he said
"I never liked any guys in high school. They were either ugly, or just total jerks. I might have had crushes on guys I saw, who didn't go to the same school, but I was always too afraid to say anything, because of what people might think. I didn't want guys to act different towards me." Something like that
I remember when he told me about his first real date with a guy, in college, when he came out. He was the happiest I had ever seen him.
Anyway, my point is, let him come out when he wants to, don't push the point. If he's your friend, then continue to be his friend. It shouldn't change just because you think he might be gay.
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Nothing. It's really none of your business wheter hes gay or not. Why do you care anyway? I mean if hes a nice guy,so what?
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Ahh dont ask about it anymore, if he really is gay some day he'll come out of the closet... he probably is still embaressed... give it time!
-holly-
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So what if hes gay. He's obviously not going to come right out and say something. Leave him the hell alone about it and stop asking him.
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I wouldn't really say anything more about it!!Just let him know that you're there for him if he ever needed to talk about something!But if he says he isn't-he probably isn't!!
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Maybe u should try to talk to him yourself like just u and him. And if he trusts u then he will tell u if hes gay or not but if he doesnt trust u then u have to get it so he can gain your trust.
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why would it matter if he is gay? dont pressure him into confessing he is gay.. if he really is he'll tell you in time when he is comfortable with it. for now, just stay COMPLETELY off the topic.
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just wait...if he's gay you'll find out sometime..when he finds a mate.lol..sry i couldn't help more...GOOD LUCK!
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Let it go if he wanted u to no he wuld have told u.. n he hasnt come outta tha closet yet SO DONT PRESURE HIM it will make him stay in the closet longerr
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I had the exact same problem with my best friend. Everyone knew he was gay but he just wasn't ready to tell. He eventually came out,and gained alot more respect for it. However, don't rush him into confessing anything, he'll do it eventually if he IS gay, it's not an easy thing for someone to come out and say. The best thing you can do is continue to be his friend, stick up for him when someoen calls him gay (EVEN IF YOU AGREE) and eventually he'll come out, when HE'S ready. We forced my friend too, and it's something I regret a whole bunch looking back on. Just don't hassle him about it...like I said, he'll come out some day, that is, if he's gay...he could just be feminine?
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Just let him be... if he is Gay he will let y'all kno when he is ready...
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well first of all you have to believe what he tells you. you don't know if he's lying or not. so just listen to him.
*~~~shana~~~*
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tell him its just a sexuality, it doesnt matter to you, you wont stop being his friend, you just want to know! dont do it when hes around his friends tho..:)
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Be like dude u are a flamer!j/p dont do that!!! approach him by himsself and tell him it doesnt matter about his sexuality.OMG im sorry my sister is watching sum oxgwn channel with this old old lady talking about sex and penis infections!lol but anywaystell him it dont matter if he is gay....hope i helped sorry my sister is werid jp
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