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What there to say about me? I'm 27 and a graduate of UCSD. Throughout my life most of my close friends have been girls so I have a unique perspective on relationships and sex. I know a lot about computers as well as random stuff in general. Feel free to ask me anything and I'll answer it to the best of my knowledge.
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Does anyone know any really good girl books a 7th grader at the age of 13 would like?
Thanks. I'll rate 5's. (link)
ender's game and its sequels are all pretty good. so is harry potter, the buffy books are nice too.


ok well i like this guy and i think that he might kinda like me a little bit but he has a girl freind and she used to be muh good freind but now we dont talk like at all and she already thinks that we fool around so .......muh ? is do u think that it would be bad to do shit with him behind her back?

savannah
x0x0x0 write back please (link)
he has a girlfriend, dont do anything until they break up.


Lathy, I been talking this guy I know over a year now. we becoming friendds and of course were in drama class together. frist part of the year I gotten know how sweet he is and he started talk to me and say hi and stuff. he sweet and loving to everyone. I at frist like him as a freind. then when part after a year or so I start to open up more and tease him and try to saysomethinng funny but come out wrong and I feel like I am showing him I like him. I think I am sarding him away. he say he cool with that I like him, I he gives me hugs stuff like that. he like that other girls.. online he talks to me little. he smart to. thing is I want like him as a freind but all of sudden I say something stupid or did something not me. I am trying be me but its hard becouse I think I having feelings for him I dont want that becouse were seniors this year. i lost other guys firends i had. one my nighbore say he promise visted me never did. sorry this is long. but this guy i know he like me and stuff but i want expaline to him why i been acting like this around him. hes knows it not me. i know he use know sweet amanda like me.. i am lost i think beocuse i see other girl flarting him. he seem think funny but he dont really flart. anyway it all i say. if u dont understand i understand want me send u email and i will try explaine better..
I think I falling in peaces of a guy but I think best to tell him why I think he understand if not he a jerk? right? i know how to moved on..

Thanks (link)
you should tell him how you feel, i know its nerve wrecking but chances are he does have feelings for you back.


I'm a really good singer. All of my friends have said so, and are threatening to take me too American Idol when I'm 16. And I love to sing. But when I go to do it in front of some people I get really nervous and choke up. Any suggestions on how to get rid of my nervous-ness??

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willium hung
clay aiken

i think its been proven that the people that lose on american idol get more publicity than the people who win.


Anyone know where I can get one of those jackets that Mathew Lesko has? (link)
mathew lesko's closet.


What are the benefits of using High Power Fiber Lasers over Pulsed Fiber Lasers?
And which drains more power? (link)
judging by the name, i would think high power drains more power.


oh my god im going to kill the person who asked what he/she should do if people dont type right well i cant type right because then it slows me down and i like typing really fast well now everytime i try to answer someones question and i dont type corectly it says SPEAK IN ENGLISH PLEASE! and it doesnt post my answer to the person dude who ever the heck you are you need to die but anyways what the heck do i do!? (link)
50 wa17 17s actua1y faster 4 u 2 typ0rs l1k3 this? theres a difference between not using capetilization and punctuation, which almost no one does online, and annoying as hell leet that makes a question alsmot impossible to read.


i've been really doubting Jesus Christ these past few days. i believed in Jesus before and i trust that i'll believe in him once again, i just need some motivation and i need to be reminded again of his grace and glory. please help me turn my life back to God. (link)
normal to doubt jesus, he isnt real, but hey thats my opinion. what you need to do is read up on your religion, and the on other religions, and then decide whats right for you.


I've gotten a couple ridiculous questions in my inbox lately- disgusting questions and some that, i just don't have any idea what to say to them. but i feel bad just not answering these people. does anyone else have this problem? (link)
on occasion, but i have no problem answering disgusting questions. you could always answer them with something along the lines of telling them not to do it, or you can tell them you arent comfortable asnwering soemthing like that.


i have always been the girl to get her period REALLY heavy, like changing a super tampon every 2 hours and ive always been on schedual to the day! but this time i was 2 WEEKS late AND i cant even fill the littlest tampon. is this normal? please dont reply by saying its disgusting b/c i really need help! i rate good advice! (link)
yes, until youre older your period wil not be very regualr, in time, and in intensity. from what i hear birth vontrol pills help regulate your period. but for now jsut be happy that you dont have to go through a box of tampons a day.


my boyfriend and I have been dating for quiet awhile now.. (1/2 a year) and now he's thinking i don't like him anymore, when he's the one who shows a lack of interest in me.. what do i do? i'm so oblivious to the situation. I really cannot lose him, he means way too much to me... I'm not the perfect girlfriend, i do have my flaws as everyone does, but i never knew i had one of showing no interest.. help (link)
hes probably angling and trying to get you to do something you dont want to do (ie sex)


ok i have this friend and well he rlly wants to loose his virginity cause he feels weird at his age...(peer presure) and so he asked me if i would do it with him...im scared of wht ppl wouldthink (ive alraeady lost mine)...but i dnt wanna sound like a slut or anything
pleasee help me!! thnks!! (link)
friends with benifits, nothing wrong with that, youre not a slut.


What do you guys think of a 18-year-old(f) dating a 24-year-old(m). And don't give any of that "age doesn't matter crap" bcasue it does. What do yall think of the maturity levels?

The biggest problem I see... The 18-year-old is still a freshman in college and the 24-year-old graduated 2 years ago. (link)
a little iffy but i dont see anything to wrong with it.


how do u kow if a guys a virgin or not? (link)
hard to tell, most guys don't last lomg at all the first time, im talking like secodns, other than that there's no way


I have this problem with frozen pizzas: I can't cook them. Any pointers? (link)
take it out of the package
put it on a plate
put it in the microwave
2 minutes
feel with finger, if hot wait if cold cook for 30 seconds and repeate.


Hi, im Adrianna im 15 and I need help. I found this old cd of this game Catz. Its this vitual game where you take care of a cat. Stupid, I know but I really want to play it. The problem is I dont have the 12 digit number on the cd case because, I dont have the case anymore. Is there a way around it? Or Could someone be really nice and let me have theirs? (As if anyone has this game.) Id apprectiate it alot. Thanks a bunch :) (link)
5467-1872-5763 if that doesnt work try

S/N: 5467-2077-5882
S/N: 5781-6128-4259-5247-3201
S/N: 1287-5846-7535

Enter Code: 1111-1111-1111-1111-1111 Unlock Code: 3451-3724

not usre which version you have jsut put in whatever fits


my boyrfiend and i have been together for two years we are both 17 and he is in the army well in oct. of this year he was suppose to be deployed to baghdad for a year and a half, which ruined our plans of going to college together so i planned on staying home and going to a school near by till he got back well turns out he actaully wont be going, but now he has this mindset of not going to college at all, which i think is pretty stupid. He said that when he turns 18 this fire department has some kind of job waiting for him. he said he would be making 40k a year and insists that he doesnt HAVE to go to college at all. He hasnt really made up his mind which I think is unfair to me b/c what he does effects me and i am again finding myself putting my life on hold for him...we grad. in May and im not committed to anything school wise which really scares me Im so lost and dont know what to do getting someone else point of view would be awesome thanks....

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Wow he can make 40k a year? that should last you like... nothing. he cant support a family on 40k, your going to need to get a hob. 60k is basically the minimum for a decent life. he needs to go to college, so should you. you shouldnt put your life on hold for him, whether he decides to go to college or not you definitely should, actualy especially if he doesnt. you really should convince him to go to college.


Does anyone have or had scoliosis? and had to have surgery?? if so what was it like? thanks! (link)
well i dont have scolioses but ive had like 30 surgeries, it really isnt all that bad.


how do u just make a guy go crazy.. and make him fall for you. i know to be yourself.. but what are little extra things that he will just love? any girls who know how to make their boyfriends go crazy?.. or guy.. what turns you on? (link)
i think a better question is what doesnt turn guys on, the answer is michael jackson.


ughhh
my boyfriend smokes pot and i HATE it...i have really strong feelings about it b.c of certain things from my family // well i want him to stop and he promised me he would, he did it once and i wasnt so mad then he did it at this party that i went to! i dont want him to think im trying to control his life i just dont want to associate with people who do pot and i dont like to see him hurting himself like that...im scared to talk to him about it b.c i dont have enough strenght after everything that happened in my family...well, what can i do - leave your screen name for AIM if possible ! (link)
my80gighardrive ill be glad to talk to you about it.




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