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my boyrfiend and i have been together for two years we are both 17 and he is in the army well in oct. of this year he was suppose to be deployed to baghdad for a year and a half, which ruined our plans of going to college together so i planned on staying home and going to a school near by till he got back well turns out he actaully wont be going, but now he has this mindset of not going to college at all, which i think is pretty stupid. He said that when he turns 18 this fire department has some kind of job waiting for him. he said he would be making 40k a year and insists that he doesnt HAVE to go to college at all. He hasnt really made up his mind which I think is unfair to me b/c what he does effects me and i am again finding myself putting my life on hold for him...we grad. in May and im not committed to anything school wise which really scares me Im so lost and dont know what to do getting someone else point of view would be awesome thanks....
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Wow he can make 40k a year? that should last you like... nothing. he cant support a family on 40k, your going to need to get a hob. 60k is basically the minimum for a decent life. he needs to go to college, so should you. you shouldnt put your life on hold for him, whether he decides to go to college or not you definitely should, actualy especially if he doesnt. you really should convince him to go to college.
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this is really hard to get over, im guessing. if your boyfriend is going to get a job then let him. you can go to college and be smart and make lots-o-money. any way you 2 can get an apartment or a house together. and you can go to a close college and he can go to his job. youll still be together and be happy with separate jobs. hope i helped
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