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i have this friend at school and we are really close. (he is a guy) we went out last year for awhile and basically he ended up breaking my heart, but months had gone by and one day he just randomly comes up to me and we end up making out etc... the only thing is, i promised not to tell anyone... the problem is that our relationship has skyrocketted and we are not going out and he has said that he loves me and that the thought of me brings him to his knees, but he can't date me... he is with someone else now in a less tangled, less involved relationship, but i can't stop myself from wanting him anyway. I got him to give me a ride home yesterday and we ended up going too far for comfort since he is taken... he often complains about her. he confides in me a lot. but in the public eye we are enemies. in the public eye, he and i never talk, never even really talk at school. but at home and after school, he is the only person i really have. my feelings for him from the begining never died and he admits that the only reason he left me was because something inside (not the feelings for me) changed.
can someone tell me what i should do?
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The answer is simple, if he really does have feelings for you, he would've broken up with his girlfriend already and pursued something with you.
Talk to him about it. Ask him if he loves you, why is he still with the other chick?
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Have you ever thought he could be using you? The whole keeping the relationship a secret thing is kind of suspicious and the fact that he already has a girlfriend. If you are sure he really loves you, then you have to either deal with having to share him and keep your relationship a secret or make him choose. Sorry to say, but no one can tell you what to do, only you will truly know. Just tell him how you feel and give him the options you think you have for the future. I'm not sure I understand what you mean when he said "something changed" , but I guess things will work out as they should. Good luck and I hope I helped in some kind of way.
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