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We went out 7 times! Good sign or bad sign?
Posted Monday May 11 2009, 3:27 pm
me and my current boyfriend have gone out 7 other times in the past. I feally do like him, but in sum relationships it seems like he's not giving it his all, but i am. And other times it's perfect but my parents ruin it (they dont like him).We first went out wen i was 12 continuing on now at 13. it feels as if hes the only one for me. If that's true why do we keep going on and off?
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We still love each other
Posted Monday May 11 2009, 12:02 pm
My boyfriend and i were together 11months, we were in love and everything just seemed perfect. We were best friends before we started going together and then we did, things just started to slow down kind of, i think we wanted to see what else was out there as 11 months is a long time. Since then he's kissed other girls n tht at clubs but i've not. Thing is when we're out we still act like what we did when we were together just without the sexual part of it. At his 18th when i said goodbye to him he told me he loved me and naturally i said it back.I hate it becuase i feel like we're in love and want to be together but we're only 17 so have like live our lives. But i really do feel we're meant to be and when we are out together we just act li...
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Hurt by Masturbation
Posted Monday May 11 2009, 10:31 am
I asked my fiance if he masturbated, expecting him to say no because he knows that I save myself for him, and never please myself unless he's there. He said around once every two weeks, in the shower. I think he's probably lying about how many times he does it because when he saw I was upset he said only four times since we've been together. We've been together for a Year and a half. It just doesn't add up. Not only that but I feel so hurt that he would rather do that than me. I can only think that he's in there fantasizing about other women. I feel like I can't satisfy him, and sex will never be the same. What do I do?
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help me and my gf
Posted Monday May 11 2009, 1:28 am
im 14/m and i love my gf
im not like most guys
i dont think of sex and not planning on it for some time now ( till at least 18 )
alil info on me and my gf
well were both "emo" (i dont like sayin i am but everyone knows it and i know i am =,,,( )
ok me and my gf have been together since jan 16 so almost 5 moths now and i know i love her and i cant say if she does cuz i cant say what she thinks
we've had problems and have been getting thru alright but im stuck on this one problem..
ok well over summer i met this girl and ever since then were relly good friends ( shes not emo )
and well she invited me to church and my gf got per say jelous and ya but shes just a friend and thats...
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what do i do
Posted Sunday May 10 2009, 11:50 pm
this boy jake and i had a fling almost a year ago. i had met him at an event at church. he is related to my best friend. after a month of the fling happening, i became very busy with volleyball and didnt see him for months. during that time i became involved with another guy and so did jake with another girl. so we both basically gave up. but lately i have realized how this guy actually is the right guy for me. so many things about him make it seem like our relationship would be perfect. including the fact that i know all of his friends, we go to the same church, and all of his family likes me. but currently, he is still with his girlfriend and apparently in love. my best friend tells me almost every day to give up on him and that he doesnt...
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How am I going to talk to him?
Posted Sunday May 10 2009, 8:21 pm
Hi!!( This question might be long...SORRY!!)
Okay, well I just recently talked to my boy friend from when I was like...6 or 7. lol We didn't really call each other ... but we were!! His name is Andrew...and than he was very shy,I think he still is to.Our mothers worked together and they became real close friends. So, we met each other...and we seen each other SO MUCH...than he started to like me..and so on. Well, now I'm 13 1/2 and he's 12. I just talked to him at the end of last month and I started to have those type of feelings for him again. So..I told him I liked him and he said we don't really now each other. Well..I told him we can get to know each other better than we can be more than that maybe, and he agreed. Well......
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Boyfriend!
Posted Sunday May 10 2009, 12:05 pm
Okay well heres the story .. ill try and keep it short.. im a teenager and ive been with my guy for over 3 months now.. and recently all of the group went out. Now theres alot of us.. maybe 30 all together?!
and the thing is.. my guy really likes me .. well .. he says he loves me .. like Really loves me .. but i dont know why i just dont feel the same way anymore?! .. is that what usually happens?
i mean i danced with him that night .. but towards the the end of the night i was thinking do i really want to be with him .. and i ddnt spk to him for a good solid hour, i didnt even dance with him!.. everytime he came up to me .. i said can i be left alone! Ive thought about this before.. 'do i really want to be with him'
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i want him back , ill do anything,
Posted Sunday May 10 2009, 2:42 am
well i went out with this guy and we have been on and off for like a year , he is all i ever thing about . But on new years eve we broke up for stupid reasons .It broke my heart beacause i love him so much. People say " he treated you soo bad just forget about him " but the thing is i cant and dont really want to . We havent been together
for about 5 months and i saw him the other night and he told me to my face that he had no feeling for me and it broke me ive been crying for 2 days now and the pain wont stop .. what do i do? i want him but he doesnt want me?
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chose the other one, but now want him.
Posted Sunday May 10 2009, 12:49 am
17/F
Sort of long.
I am currently on an exchange for one year, with 2 months left before I go home.
At the beggining of my exchange I met these two great guys, another American like me, and a Brasilian. I started fallling for them both pretty hard. It was not serious with either of us, and the more I saw them, the more I liked them. I started getting more serious with the American, but still really wanted the Brasilian. A part of me thinks I only chose the american because it was a comfort zone, I know how americans are, and we can relate to each other in more ways. So after a while me and him were pretty close and the Brasilian kept wanting me to go to his house, which I was not comfertable with because well brasilians...
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Oral Sex
Posted Saturday May 9 2009, 9:39 pm
Hey, I had my first sexual encounter last week. And some weird things have been happening, and I'm a little afraid. We had protected sex, but I haven't been feeling well for the past couple of days. I think it might be the flu, but I'm not positive that it is.. What are early signs of pregnancy, just in case? I don't really know what they are, but I would like to be on the lookout for symptoms.
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Romeo and Juliet
Posted Saturday May 9 2009, 4:37 pm
Me and My boyfriend have completly different lives .... I have everything I could possibly ask for and I am protected alot which don't get me wrong I understand why and I am glad of this....
BUT
My Boyfriend however lives on a rough estate and is one of them people when watching a film parents are like "Never bring a boy like that home" But as a person (not where he comes from or who he is friends with) he is lovely and respectfull .... But even though this may be the case .... I won't be aloud to see him. It's happened before when I got close with a boy off the same estate.
If anyone has any advice on what I should do I would very much appreciate it.
Female - 17 -
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Posted Saturday May 9 2009, 4:20 pm
So last night I had a small get together with me my best friend the guy I like and a few other friends, we were playing truth or dare and I got dared to kiss the guy I like, later one of my friends told the guy I really enjoyed the kiss(he knows I like him) and then I found out the guy I like likes my best friend....I talked to them both and they both told me they were sorry it happend, and after my bff left this morning I've been crying over this, I talked to my friend and after I told her I couldn't talk to her cuz I didn't want her to feel bad(she said she did last night) she said she had to go an think about some things. And I can't help but blame myself for all of this and I don't kno what to do, so idk just any advice on how to fix this or get my mind off of it would be great.
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Virginity
Posted Saturday May 9 2009, 3:11 pm
I know this sounds random but I have been thinking about sleeping with My boyfriend and he would be My first.
The thing is he has told Me he is also a virgin, but for some reason I can't quite believe him, I trust him about everything else but I just can't get My head around that he is a virgin, because he isn't the type of boy who appears to be and his mates are always going on about who they have recently slept with.
I really don't know what to believe.
Secondly if I was to sleep with him and he was a virgin, would he know what he was doing because I personally don't have a clue, I'm shy and easily embarrassed. I've been in a relationship with him for a while but still don't feel I know him that well.
Female - 17
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lack in confidence
Posted Saturday May 9 2009, 1:58 pm
Well I'm 18/m. I guess the title says it all? Basically I've been single for far too long, and my last relationship was ended by the girl. Ever since then, I've lost my confidence in talking to other girls, I just don't have any good communication skills any more. I've also got that "nerd" image, but I've changed my hairstyle and I'm now wearing contacts, just to sort've lose that image. But I've still got that background of a "nerd". Any ideas on how I can gain back my confidence? + I don't have very good communication skills!:( Help!!
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My boyfriend is suddenly being extremely mean to me
Posted Saturday May 9 2009, 12:50 am
I have been living with my boyfriend for 5 years now. He is 41 and I am 24; we have overcome a lot of obstacles and personality conflicts, but most of all was his alcoholism. His drinking has been a problem in the past; he used to humiliate me in front of his kids and call me names and kick me out of 'his' house; but the last couple of years it has mellowed out to just an annoyance. He no longer triesd to kick me out of the house; and he doesnt talk shit about me to his kids nearly as much when hesdrunk - but, i confess, it still does happen occassionaly. Despite all of that, I am still here, in a house with BOTH of our names on the lease; and we are now engaged and we would have celebrated our 5th anniversary together 2 days ago. Trouble i...
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Haha im horrible with relationshipps
Posted Friday May 8 2009, 11:53 pm
-Sorry if its kinda long..:)
ok so i like this guy for bout 3 months. and never told him or anything. well then about a week ago he asked me to our school dance and asked me out. Well i better tell you that im a loud, happy, outgoing, kinda popular, crazy, fun person who has lots of guy friends because girls just cause to much drama. Iv been in both the school plays and iv had lead roles. Im a select soccer player and i play the whole game, lead goal scorer. Im a computer geek lol and i guess people consider me realy pretty(dont like to say im pretty cause that just seems "bigheaded") i laugh alot and i like to tell perverted jokes cause i think they are super funny. Well my boyfriend is tall, not exactly the cutest...
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what the hell?
Posted Friday May 8 2009, 11:52 pm
so a guy I was talking to he was very flirty i spent the night with him a few times slept in the same bed cuddled, told me hed be so lucky to be with me told me im part of his life, saying hes happy as long as hes talkin to me, told me i was gonna move in with him, said theres always been something about me, said wed make pretty babies (i kno stupid), but anyways he up and got back with his ex fiance sayin im his best friend and that he likes me but doesnt want to date me right now. what the hell??? what does he mean?
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i dont know who to choose
Posted Friday May 8 2009, 10:28 pm
Ok i have these two girls that like me and i dont know who to choose i was hoping to get some opinions or advice
girl number one: i went out with before but it ended pretty quickly because she still loved her old boyfriend but we have remained really close friends since and there has always been something. now she said she always liked me and broke up with her bf to go out with me and i said ok but im afraid it will happen again. but we get along great, alot in common, lots of communication.but im not sure if i can readjust to becomeing more than friends again. even thought i keep thinking this is my chance to get her back,what iv wanted for so long...but im not sure if i want it.
girl 2: a girl that broke up w...
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guys.
Posted Friday May 8 2009, 8:44 pm
Alright so I'm nearly 16 (girl) and I've never had a boyfriend. Its not that there's somethign wrong with me or anything, its just that I'm not super outgoing or the type of person to flirt with a guy who I don't actually like. Nobody really dates at my school (I'm not kidding, there aren't that many relationships within the school, most kids' bfs/gfs go to other schools) and I don't really know many kids from other schools (haha I know, loser, right).
I never really cared about getting a boyfriend before cause it was just like, whatever, and I never really thought I was ready for it, but now I think I am and am ready to start looking this summer. Not to sound cocky but I don't think I'd necessarily have a problem getting a ...
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should i get mad or is this a good thing?
Posted Friday May 8 2009, 6:15 pm
I told my guy friend from school that i liked him about a month ago and things got awkward but things have still been kindof awkward but we're still friends. He never really clearly responded to it, meaning either he's assumed that I took it as he only saw me as a friend or he's still not really sure (i know, i know, i shouldn't get my hopes up too high and the first thing is probably right but being the optimist that i am, in the back of my mind i keep thinking maybe he isn't sure because he's kinda like that and he seems kinda nervous around me and when my friend has talked to him about it, all he could say was "i don't know" to the whole situation. but don't worry, i'm aware that he probably just sees me as a friend). But no ...
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