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So last night I had a small get together with me my best friend the guy I like and a few other friends, we were playing truth or dare and I got dared to kiss the guy I like, later one of my friends told the guy I really enjoyed the kiss(he knows I like him) and then I found out the guy I like likes my best friend....I talked to them both and they both told me they were sorry it happend, and after my bff left this morning I've been crying over this, I talked to my friend and after I told her I couldn't talk to her cuz I didn't want her to feel bad(she said she did last night) she said she had to go an think about some things. And I can't help but blame myself for all of this and I don't kno what to do, so idk just any advice on how to fix this or get my mind off of it would be great.
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It's not your fault. You didn't know that he liked her. Just take it easy. You haven't done anything wrong. No one in this situation really did anything wrong. It's just one of those things that come up from time to time. You should go out and see a movie or hang out with a couple of your girl friends and have a movie night. Just to take your mind off of it. (:
Darby
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I'm slightly confused by your question.
But I'm going to answer if by how I understood it.
I apologize if I don't get everything right.
You like this guy, we'll name him Mike.
You kissed him last night as a dare, but he likes your best friend, we'll call her Sarah. But now, you're upset because 1. Mike likes Sarah and 2. Sarah is upset because you like him too.
My advice would be to talk to Sarah. Let her know how you feel- but be honest. Don't tell her "Oh, I'm okay with you guys dating" if you're not. That's just going to mess things up in the future. Tell her how you feel, and talk to her about how you guys can solve this. If she's truly your best friend, she'll respect your feelings.
In the meantime, try to focus on other guys. I'm sure there are others that can be just as great as Mike. Time heals all wounds. And maybe when those wounds are healed, you can tell Sarah, & maybe things will work out between her and Mike, even if they didn't work out with you and him.
Good luck,
Kymmy <3
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