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We went out 7 times! Good sign or bad sign?


Question Posted Monday May 11 2009, 3:27 pm

me and my current boyfriend have gone out 7 other times in the past. I feally do like him, but in sum relationships it seems like he's not giving it his all, but i am. And other times it's perfect but my parents ruin it (they dont like him).We first went out wen i was 12 continuing on now at 13. it feels as if hes the only one for me. If that's true why do we keep going on and off?

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sammegan answered Sunday May 17 2009, 4:58 pm:
I went through the same exact thing with my ex boyfriend. except we were on and off like 10 or more times. now we are broken up and barely have anything to do with each other. its not worth it. especially if your parents dont like him. im sorry, i just do not think it will work. thats just my personal experience but follow your gut. remember your parents are smarter than you even if you dont want to admit it.

good luck,

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shelbz7077 answered Tuesday May 12 2009, 5:32 pm:
I think this is a bad sign.

Relationships can be really difficult. Especially if he doesn't give it his all in try and it makes it worse with your parents not accepting him. Maybe talk to your parents about it and tell them you think you have a future with him. Thay may not listen though since yuo are young and I know that is because I'm going through it right now. Also I think you should talk to him about it. Tell him it's not okay that you are doing all the work in the realtionship.

I hope this helps.

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christina answered Tuesday May 12 2009, 10:44 am:
I think going out 7 different times is a bad sign.

If your relationship is on & off, it's only going to continue that way. Your relationship has trouble being steady, therefore it'll continue to fall apart. It's not going to work.

Also, if your parents don't like him, obviously they're seeing something you're not. You should listen to them. You're 13. Parents know best.

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advicecolumnist answered Tuesday May 12 2009, 10:32 am:
well, you did tell me your parents dislike him, maybe it has something to do with them. You said your parents ruin your perfect moments with your boyfriend because they don't like him, right? So maybe now your boyfriend feels that your parents dislike him, so he's like...trying to loosen up a little bit... you know... because of your parent's opinion. So, just talk to your parents gently about how you feel about them putting sort of a stopper to you and your boyfriend's relationship.

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