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help me and my gf
im 14/m and i love my gf
im not like most guys
i dont think of sex and not planning on it for some time now ( till at least 18 )
alil info on me and my gf
well were both "emo" (i dont like sayin i am but everyone knows it and i know i am =,,,( )
ok me and my gf have been together since jan 16 so almost 5 moths now and i know i love her and i cant say if she does cuz i cant say what she thinks
we've had problems and have been getting thru alright but im stuck on this one problem..
ok well over summer i met this girl and ever since then were relly good friends ( shes not emo )
and well she invited me to church and my gf got per say jelous and ya but shes just a friend and thats all
and so what makes me want to kill myself is that all the problems my gf is going thru and today is the worst day ever for me
today is may 10 ( mothers day ) and my gfs parents are devorced so my gf woke up with her mom gone..
ON M^%#$@"!.king MOTHERS DAY!!!
i love her and i accully provide myself
i do go to work and i get paid at this age
i love her and i wish to provide her
i wish to marry her
tell me what should i do..
i deeply love her
i wrote this earlier but it didnt show up so i rewrote it but not as good
sorry
i love her..
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Yes, what are you asking?
Well I guess i'll just give you my thinking on the subject. I understand that you love her, but at 14, you shouldn't be 'providing' for her. You don't need to buy her stuff. I don't see the bid deal with her mom gone on mothers day, with her parents divorced i see how her mom may think that it is not a big deal, since her daughter, your girlfriend, won't have a real childhood. Real childhood:: both parents together. Today this is not normal, lots of parents get devorced, however, your parents think 'normal' is the traditional way. Was your girlfriend upset at her mother? if so, SHE needs to talk to her, it doesn't concern you. If your girlfriend gets jelous by your friend get a big group together and try to see if your friend and girlfriend can become friends.
Otherwise, just have fun with life, stay with your girlfriend, and understand that if it doesn't work out, not saying it will or won't, that you are still young.
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I'm not sure what you're asking.
I understand that you care for your girlfriend & want to be there for her through the bad times especially with it being mother's day & her not having a mom around. But, you can't dwell on the negative things & just think about the positive things. The fact that she still has a dad around for her and that she has you as well.
I can understand her being jealous about you going with your friend to church, because all girlfriends can be like that. Does your girlfriend know this friend? Maybe it would be a good idea for them to talk and get to know each other, so they both know each other. Also, so that your girlfriend knows your friend is aware you already have a girlfriend. If they do already know each other, then the only thing you can do is let your girlfriend get over it. It'll take a few weeks for her to stop being mad about it, but after some time she should be OK.
I think your best bet is to write her a letter, like hand-write, not over text messaging or Myspace. Tell her exactly what you told us here. Tell her how much she means to you and don't mention anything about being "emo" because that's just not something you need to include. Also, don't mention you want to kill yourself because that is VERY psychotic & not something she'll want to hear from you. You both have to be positive in a relationship and the fact that you say you want to kill yourself because your girlfriend doesn't have a mother on Mother's day is very abnormal.
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