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Boyfriend!
Okay well heres the story .. ill try and keep it short.. im a teenager and ive been with my guy for over 3 months now.. and recently all of the group went out. Now theres alot of us.. maybe 30 all together?!
and the thing is.. my guy really likes me .. well .. he says he loves me .. like Really loves me .. but i dont know why i just dont feel the same way anymore?! .. is that what usually happens?
i mean i danced with him that night .. but towards the the end of the night i was thinking do i really want to be with him .. and i ddnt spk to him for a good solid hour, i didnt even dance with him!.. everytime he came up to me .. i said can i be left alone! Ive thought about this before.. 'do i really want to be with him'
For some odd reason i just cant understand myself, i spoke to my friends about it, and they said i should think about it before i do anything!
Im sooo confused.. he even said to me the next day online.. are you okay with me.. i feel like im loosing you! I just didnt know what to say!...
Can anyone help? =]
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Well... Yeah it's actually normal
It happens to me a lot, it's just that I don't fall in love easily and I think that's also your problem, but not the only problem.
Look I always date guys that i'm instersted with but then after 1/2/3 months I loose interst but I would think there is something wrong with me.
It's nothing really, else you lost interst or your just not ready for the love part.
You'll figure it out later but as for now I think you need space/break. So ask for it, and don't even feel bad for your partner because it would lead you to doing something bad so he can dump you.
Good Luck =]=]
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Of course you should think about it before you do anything. I would say this is fairly normal in a relationship, but usually relationships last longer than three months before those feelings come up. You might be spending too much time with him or talking to him. There are so many forms of communication now, it's seriously hard to get away from people for even a few minutes. With texting and e-mail, people can communicate with you at any time.
I think you're probably just feeling smothered right now. I start feeling like that when I'm in a relationship and a guy is getting too serious too soon. (it sounds like this guy might be doing that)
Think about how things were before you were dating him and how things have changed since then. How would things be if he wasn't in your life? Would you be happier that way?
People always say you don't miss things until you lose them, so you should think hard about it before you make any rash decisions.
If you decide to stick with it for a while and those thoughts come up more frequently, you should probably break things off. You don't want to stay with someone that you know you can't care about as much as they care about you. If you do that, you'll be in the same position you are now, 6 months from now. It will be even harder to break things off then. I would probably stick with it a little longer though. You don't want to do anything you'll regret.
Darby(:
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Honestly, i think this is actually pretty normal. I'm exactly like that all the time! You should listen to your friends, think about it before you do anything. Usually, when this happens, you think you lost feelings for that one person. But after you lose them, all the feelings start coming back.. and you'll realize that you really do like them. My sister always says it's because you're starting to get tired of them, in a way. So basically, you should try getting some space.. Talk to him about it. Then think it over.
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