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should i get mad or is this a good thing?
I told my guy friend from school that i liked him about a month ago and things got awkward but things have still been kindof awkward but we're still friends. He never really clearly responded to it, meaning either he's assumed that I took it as he only saw me as a friend or he's still not really sure (i know, i know, i shouldn't get my hopes up too high and the first thing is probably right but being the optimist that i am, in the back of my mind i keep thinking maybe he isn't sure because he's kinda like that and he seems kinda nervous around me and when my friend has talked to him about it, all he could say was "i don't know" to the whole situation. but don't worry, i'm aware that he probably just sees me as a friend). But no one tells me anything, so I just found out from another friend that he's told pretty much all his friends about how I like him (his friends are both guys and girls) and it's not like it's a load of people but it's not a small amount of people either. I mean I'm a little surprised because he clearly has seemed like he wanted to avoid the whole situation completely. And I'm not sure if he told them a while ago or recently, but i wouldn't be surprised if it was sometime the past two weeks or so but I could be wrong. If it was an ego thing, it was probably only slightly, but he probably sortof has been assuming that everyone knew since I had my friend (one of his close friends) confront him about it two weeks ago (he didn't know i asked her to haha). I mean, should I be mad that he told all these people? Should I be suspicious of it? In the past two weeks his behavior has been different and he's kindof been looking at me weirder and been telling one of our friends something about me and then our other friend (who confronted him) nothing about me (meaning like he's been trying to avoid the conversation with that particular girl). What should I think of this?
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It's hard to say unless you know how he told them. "Was he like yeah, (yourname) totally likes me. blahblah, bragging crap." Or was it like, "(Yourname) told me that she liked me. I don't know what to do."
The only way you can really find that out is by talking to some of the people he told.
If I were you, I would really just leave it alone at this point. If he likes you, he will let you know.
Darby(:
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