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i want him back , ill do anything,
well i went out with this guy and we have been on and off for like a year , he is all i ever thing about . But on new years eve we broke up for stupid reasons .It broke my heart beacause i love him so much. People say " he treated you soo bad just forget about him " but the thing is i cant and dont really want to . We havent been together
for about 5 months and i saw him the other night and he told me to my face that he had no feeling for me and it broke me ive been crying for 2 days now and the pain wont stop .. what do i do? i want him but he doesnt want me?
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heartbreak and ache always sucks and although it sounds strange in time the feeling wont hurt as much there is always going to be a little part of you that loves this guy or youll have a soft spot for this guy as a friend...
i went through a similar situation & i had my heart broken even though i broke up with the guy i loved because alike you all my friends told me that he treated me like crap and finally i saw it 2 and i just couldnt take it anymore..the hardest part is when they move on..i cried for ages when i saw my guy with another girl but it made me stronger ultimately even though at the time i didnt know how much more i could take...
the only way i finally got over the whole situation was by confinding in my older sis...its sounds weird cos me and her never really got along like people always sed we were close but it seemed like we were always fighting to me...anyway through the strengthening of that relationship i sort of got over the guy one...it really helps knowing sumone so close to you by blood that will unconditionally love you will always b there regardless of how many times you get your heart broken or unintentionally break some...if you dont have an older sis mayb someone else in your family could help like a cousin or a girl by relative close to your age usually id say find someone older cos there wiser and theyve probably been through what your going through...basically the key to recovery is communication dont with hold how you feel..the other great thing about supportive relatives is that unlike friends they will never get sick of you and will always b willing to hear your side...i know my friends were supportive at first but eventually they didnt want to hear another word about my ex...families will stand the test of time..
anyways you sound like a mad chick so i hope you feel better soon hope my advice helped
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I know that heartbreaks hurt bad. And if you really want him bad enough talk to him and maybe even hang out with him. Tell him how you really feel and show him what he should miss and how your not like other girls.
Its really hard but after you try, if he still says that he doesnt want you then thats going to have to be something you deal with. I know this isnt what you want to hear but i promise that you can get over him there are a lot of other great guys out there =]
Good luck and hope i helped =]
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I've been through that before too, it's pretty tough. Usually your friends would see how he treated you before, and you don't notice it because you love that person so much. You really should forget about it, sooner or later he's going to regret letting you go in the first place. You shouldn't be with someone that treated you badly, don't fight for someone that won't fight for you. It takes more than one person to work it out, and if he's just going to be stubborn. It's not worth your time. Usually the saying "Time is medicine" is really annoying, but true. I moved on later on.. and you will too, you'll find someone else better than him. And i promise you, you won't regret it.
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i went through this exact same thing. his feelings just changed i guess and the last month he wasn't treating me good. i was completely devestated when we broke up and i cried for days and tried for a few weeks to get him back, i said to myself i would do anything...then after awhile i really thought to myself, why fight for someone thats not fighting for me? alot of people have probably said this to you but seriously, theres so many guys out there that will treat you 10x better than this guy did and you need to believe it. it's going to be hard but your friends will get you through it and you'll be so much happier you broke up when you meet that guy that treats you right.
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