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Emotional Enmeshment. (Is it best if I have nothing to do with my mother?)


Posted Tuesday July 30 2013, 7:28 am

I am a 49 year old woman. My question is concerning my mother and my 53 year old brother. My dad passed away 17 years ago. I was married at the time, my oldest brother, I will call him Fred, lived with my parents. Fred is an alcoholic and a chronic marijuana smoker. My mom interfered when my dad attempted to make a man out of him. She has always been immensely partial to her sons. My other brother is married with 5 kids. I think marrying at a young age and having a large family is what saved him from eternal childhood, unlike Fred. Recently, I have had to move in with my mom due to financial difficulties. Fred doesn't work at the time and does, virtually nothing all day. I work part time while waiting on a full time job. I help as much as I...

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what to do about myself... i left school and my parents already paid for it


Posted Tuesday July 30 2013, 6:32 am

so here goes....I am a high school student from India, i have taken PCB and biotech so i used to go for this institution during my weekends from 8am to 4pm and when i used to come home it would be around 5pm at first it was alright but then i couldn't handle it i mean i had school from Monday to Friday then on Saturday and sunday i was in that institute so i left it but the thing was that my parents had paid that institute for 3months and i quit before so i think i wasted my parent's money...i want to make them proud but is it really really important for me to join an institution for the preparation of a medical entrance exam? can i not do it by my own?

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I'm afraid something bad is going to happen to my mom..she's always sick :(


Posted Tuesday July 30 2013, 12:16 am

My mom had & blood clot & pneumonia twice & almost died like 2 years ago. She has diabetes & glaucoma. She can't get all of her medicine & every time she goes to the doctor they find something wrong with her. She's always coughing up mucus. Right now she just found out that she has a blocked artery in her neck & heart. I don't know if they are going to do something about her arteries. Can the doctors unblock her arteries?

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How do i repent from my sins?


Posted Monday July 29 2013, 11:41 pm

I'm trying to become a better person & stop being so negative, angry, etc. I want to change my life. What do I need to do to become a better christian & what do I have to do to repent from my sins? Do I need to go to church and get baptized?

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Phone Clutching Out


Posted Monday July 29 2013, 8:51 pm

So, the Samsung brightside I have had for about 6 months is really glitched out right now. I turn it on and it spazzes out and opens up applications I didn't hit. The back button shuts th Phone off and changes the master volume (wtf) whenever I send a text it types in 4678 and sends it to the person. It won't let me type, and when I try to view pictures it immediately goes to camera mode and freezes until I try to remove the battery. Any help or explanation to this would be great! Thanks in advance!

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i dont get my ex boyfriend....


Posted Monday July 29 2013, 5:46 pm

well it's been a year since me and my ex boyfriend broke up, and its pretty weird lately i keep getting these next feelings, basically yesterday on twitter i posted a picture and he Favorited it, a while later he un done it, i don't understand whats wrong with him? Something in me tells me he doesn't want to admit to himself deep down he still has feelings, he hasn't had a girlfriend since we broke up, it actually shocks me.
I think he isn't brave enough to admit to himself nor to me that he still likes me, (i am his first love anyway), and i know some guys are too stubborn to admit to anything.
But from my point of view if your over your ex you would't still have them as a contact or like their pictures right?
I can't...

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Inlaws don't think I contribute enough to the household


Posted Monday July 29 2013, 3:03 pm

I am a 33yo female with a fiancee (38) and a baby girl (10 mos). Because of financial problems that my fiancee incurred after a loss of a job (for three years) and a baby, we begrudgingly decided to move into my almost in-law's house for a year to try to recover and start our lives over. His mother is old school Russian. Never leaves the house. Goes to and from the store, etc. Her husband takes care of most stuff and she takes care of the house. She works three days a week and takes care of our baby by choice. I try to get home as quickly as possible to relieve her, but I take a Tuesday night writing class as an outlet for myself and I see a therapist once every two weeks. Over the last month, we have tried to co-exist peacefully. Just rece...

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Cutting/Self Harm


Posted Monday July 29 2013, 5:01 am

Hi.. Well this might be not a question you would hear everyday.. I dont think my other question posted.. But anyway.. I have cut/Self Harm for a year now.. I really want to stop.. Its just hurting my family and friends too much.. :( can i get some tips to stop? Please dont judge.

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What fabric cover goes with floral wall decals?


Posted Monday July 29 2013, 4:53 am

I would like a fabric cover suggestion to go with floral wall decals, please can you provide me options?

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A best friend that turned to a boyfriend back to friend.


Posted Monday July 29 2013, 12:40 am

Okay i am 13/f. But my story might be long but sorry if it is. I really need answers.
So anyway, i had a friend he was a year older and we been friends every since 3rd to 8th grade and he were in the Friend zone ever since 3rd and i started liking him in 6th then he finally told me at the beginning of 8th grade and we started going together. We was doing great we never had fight. But he broke up with me one day and texted me that the relationship wasn't the same. And i was hurt and we were together for 10 months. He mad me feel bad. But i got over it and a few hours later a friend of mines told me the truth about him and the break up. And because he had a dream about being with my friend. So a few weeks later he asked me you want to g...

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How would a girl react if I ask her to role play as a teacher?


Posted Monday July 29 2013, 12:36 am

There is this teacher that I have an intense attraction to, I pine for her all the time. I asked my friend how I can get over her and he said when you get a girlfriend in the future ask her to role play as the teacher. Do you think if I ask a girl to do this she wouldn't mind or she would get mad?


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How do I get noticed by an older guy?


Posted Sunday July 28 2013, 10:26 pm

This is a question for men, preferably, around 30. I am 21 years old (F) - I'll be 22 in December.

I was just wondering if there was any chance that a man around 30 years old would be interested in someone my age beyond something just purely sexual. I feel like maybe most men would just write me off when they find out how old I am.

I know a lot of girls say they're mature when they're really not, but if you knew me you'd agree that I'm mature beyond my years. I've never fit in with any of my peers. I've always hung out with older people because I feel like I fit in SO much better. I want a MAN. I appreciate the maturity level of an older man; I want someone "on my level", if you know what I mean.
...

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will i have small breast forever?


Posted Sunday July 28 2013, 8:45 pm

i am 18 years old i weight 125.3 and height is 5'7 i wear a 36d. my breast and perky but when i go to bed without a bra they look small btw the way i'm a late blommer. the next day i wake up my boobs are big again. why does my breast do this can i get plastic surgery to prevent this from happening? will i have small breast forever since i am done with puberty.

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curious to know what this actually means?


Posted Sunday July 28 2013, 7:09 pm

You attract what you are, not what you want.

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How do I get an older guy to notice me?


Posted Sunday July 28 2013, 5:11 pm

This is a question for men, preferably, around 30.
I am a 21 year-old female, I'll be 22 in December.

I was just wondering if there was any chance that a man around 30 years old would be interested in someone my age other than for just sex. I feel like most men would just look at me like I'm a stupid child they wouldn't want to waste their time on.

I've never really fit in with any of my peers. I've always hung out with older people because I felt like I fit in much better; I relate to people older than I am. I've had some horrible experiences with relationships, and I've come to the realization that it's probably because I want a MAN. I appreciate the maturity level of an older man since I've always bee...

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Scared of getting a filling


Posted Sunday July 28 2013, 3:35 pm

So my twin sister is really scared of having a filling in a few days time.
We're 18. She's scared of the numbing part.
Like I have had my mouth numbed by injection six times before, she never has, and has had NO treatment.
I don't know how to reassure her, or explain what its like to have your mouth numbed. She's so scared!
Any advice is welcomed, I'm grateful for any :)

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Talk about a dysfunctional family.


Posted Sunday July 28 2013, 3:31 pm

I don't normally do this, but my family is so screwed up I wouldn't feel comfortable asking advice from people I know, so here goes.
All my life, I was a total daddy's girl. I worshiped him. I looked more like him than anyone in my family.
On my 12th birthday, my dad left my mom and I to go work as a producer in L.A. He would e-mail and call me on occasion, but after a few months he cut all communication with no explanation.
My mom did the best she could to raise me, but she spent a lot of time dating and not much time with me. I couldn't help but miss my dad.
I spent all of my time trying to get in touch with him. He's a pretty big name in the music industry, so while I could find his website and his twitter ...

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Unwanted Sex Dreams


Posted Sunday July 28 2013, 2:34 pm

Hey y'all. I'm 20/f and I have been living with my boyfriend happily for 2 years. I am incredibly attracted to him sexually and would never ever cheat on him. There are some nights that I will have sex dreams about him while he's sleeping right next to me.
But, last night and the night before I had dreams about 2 of my coworkers-one of whom is incredibly attractive (but I am not actually attracted to) and the other has an incredible gentle personality, but I would never pursue. At work, I spend most of my time with the two of them, so I guess it would make sense that they make an appearance in my dreams, but these dreams were both sexual. The first dream I had was with my kind, caring coworker. He confided in me about some dark thing...

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Tension between me and my teacher?


Posted Sunday July 28 2013, 12:47 pm

Okay, I was talking to this teacher (I shall call him B). B and I were alone in his classroom talking - which is something we do quite frequently. Anyway, my friend walked in and later when I was speaking to her she commented on how there was 'a lot of tension between me and B when she came in' and that she felt very awkward walking in and as though she was interrupting something. I wasn't really sure what to think seeing as I didn't notice any tension between us (it's not something I'd ever really thought about).

But then since that day I've noticed that whenever someone (other teachers included) comes into the room when it's just me and him they always look awkward and quickly leave. Me and B will often look and them and ea...

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Kyphosis and Scoliosis


Posted Sunday July 28 2013, 8:24 am

Hello everyone female, 20 years old.

I would say about 10-11 years ago I was diagnosed with kyphosis and scoliosis. The scoliosis was minor but the kyphosis was the major issue they were concerened with. I went to physical therapy for a year after which didn't do much. I haven't seen a doctor since.

I deal with pain or soreness every day in my back. I pretty much look just like I have horrible posture, besides that my ribs are uneven and I constantly lean on one side. I work in an office where I must be on a computer all day. I've been dealing with rude people all my life telling me to sit up straight and that I'll be a hunchback when I'm older. My husband has never mentioned it but I feel like he just knows I'...

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