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i dont get my ex boyfriend....
well it's been a year since me and my ex boyfriend broke up, and its pretty weird lately i keep getting these next feelings, basically yesterday on twitter i posted a picture and he Favorited it, a while later he un done it, i don't understand whats wrong with him? Something in me tells me he doesn't want to admit to himself deep down he still has feelings, he hasn't had a girlfriend since we broke up, it actually shocks me.
I think he isn't brave enough to admit to himself nor to me that he still likes me, (i am his first love anyway), and i know some guys are too stubborn to admit to anything.
But from my point of view if your over your ex you would't still have them as a contact or like their pictures right?
I can't lie i still have feelings for him but i do try not to think about it.
He's on holiday atm, and i got the weirdest phone call it was a number from another country and a feeling in me said it was him, we have not heard each others voices in a year, as a women I have this sort of 6th sense that tells me he still likes me, but his pride is getting in the way of telling me.
i really don't know what to think anymore ...
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most guys are so stubborn with their feelings and i can say that from personal experiences. you said that you still have some feelings for him and you think he still has feelings for you. the best thing to do is just work up the nerves and have a conversation with him. just ask him if he still has feelings for you if so tell him you feel the same. and if he's still too stubborn to admit it then don't worry about it. don't waist your time worrying about it because just know sooner or later he'll regret not speaking up when you gave him the chance too
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Are you thinking about getting back together with him or something?
You didn't say why you guys broke up, so I guess we won't get into reasons why or why you shouldn't get back with him.
He may or may not still have feelings for you.
Some ex's can handle having them as a contact. I still have an ex that I'm friends with on Facebook. I'm over him, he's over me. We're both seeing other people but we still like each others post sometimes. That's not something you really read into, you know?
I don't see it as an uncommon thing unless it was a terrible break up.
One of my ex's and I had a terrible fight when we broke up. We didn't end on good terms. He unfriended me on Facebook and we haven't spoke since. If he came back around and liked my photo or something, I'd think it's strange.
So it really depends.
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Your subconscious mind could be reading more into it than there is. I think there are plenty of people who keep somewhat in contact with each other. I am in my 50's and remarried. The guys I dated are still FB friends. I read their postings and click like on what I like but I don't write to them. They have new girlfriends. My daughters all have my last boyfriend on FB too and he likes many of their postings and comments on them, but not mine. My oldest daughter really bonded with him and wished he had been her dad. Stuff like this is okay, its normal. He can enjoy keeping tabs on you but not harassing you. You didn't say why you broke you broke up. People who aren't compatible in some way usually break up. Just because one heart still cares about the other or both do, doesn't mean you get back together if you had some major differences or fights that could not be worked out or stuff like not having that spark or chemistry in sex. It takes the hearts a long time sometime to let go...cus the emotions and feelings come from our subconscious mind. While our conscious awake minds remember what logica there was for breaking up and that it is best that way.
If he still hasn't gotten over you, it's for him to find a way to deal with it. You can't help him.
So the real question here is, is there any real good reason for getting back together. ONly you can know the answer to that dear. Good luck.
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