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How do I get an older guy to notice me?
This is a question for men, preferably, around 30.
I am a 21 year-old female, I'll be 22 in December.
I was just wondering if there was any chance that a man around 30 years old would be interested in someone my age other than for just sex. I feel like most men would just look at me like I'm a stupid child they wouldn't want to waste their time on.
I've never really fit in with any of my peers. I've always hung out with older people because I felt like I fit in much better; I relate to people older than I am. I've had some horrible experiences with relationships, and I've come to the realization that it's probably because I want a MAN. I appreciate the maturity level of an older man since I've always been more mature than my age.
So how do I attract an older guy in such a way that he looks at me as dating material instead of just some young girl he'd like to sleep with?
There's someone I'm interested in who's about 7 and a half years older than me. Is there anything I can do to get on his "potential girlfriend" radar?
What got me really thinking about this was when my mom told me the other day that she has a strong feeling I'm ultimately going to end up with someone 7 to 10 years older than I am. I think she's right, and I'd like serious advice on how to go about it.
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I can't exactly tell you how other then to be yourself
When I look at women, I tend to look for someone who has stability, maturity and someone who I can see myself with. A relationship is based off a connection between two people. Try to engage in conversation without coming across as trying to hard. Find out what their interest are and talk about it with them. Ask them out for a coffee sometime etc.
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