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My legs are too big!!


Posted Tuesday January 21 2014, 1:39 pm

I'm a 15 year old girl with a physical disability that prevents me from losing weight easily, but I'm still trying to lose it. I know that obesity and being overweight causes you to be bigger in places, but my calfs are quite big.. and they're not 'fat' either.. it's muscle!

I just don't know how to get them to be smaller.. I work out at the gym, play racquetball and walk the treadmill.. but nothing. And please don't just respond with; lose weight. I know losing weight will obviously help. That's why I'm trying. Like I said they're MUSCLE they don't 'jiggle' or anything.. I have really strong legs. Just help??

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friends house


Posted Tuesday January 21 2014, 1:35 pm

ok so im 15 and im going to a friends house this weekend and my friend invited her bf and my bf.... me and my bf were talking and he wants to have sex this weekend, hes 15 too.... im really scared and dont know what to do ive asked my friends and they just dont know what to say about it... i need advice please help me im freaking out i have so many questions like does it hurt, what if we get caught, what if something goes wrong, what if he breaks up with me the next day. please help me im soooooooo scared!

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long term relationship? 15 year old couple


Posted Tuesday January 21 2014, 12:40 pm

Sometimes I wish we had never met. I love you and you’ve made a great impact on my life but often times I don’t know if that’s what I want. You seem like the perfect guy for me..with our inside jokes and being cute with eachother but its been almost 10 months and starting to feel different. I don’t know what it is and im trying to avoid finding out. Could I be bored of you? is it normal to feel this way? Whenever im with you I love it but we always do the same thing…its like a cycle almost every weekend. You have all these rules about me talking to other guys and other stupid stuff like deleting all my other guy contacts and checking my text messages but sometimes I wish we could just take a break in this relationship and be free....

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How do you tell if he seriously loves you?


Posted Tuesday January 21 2014, 11:35 am

How do you tell is a guy's love for you is serious?

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Boyfriend got a Ticket?!


Posted Tuesday January 21 2014, 11:35 am

My boyfriend and i have beeen together for 1 and a half years now. And we broke up for about 2-3 months and got back together for one month. Well he told me thatbhe got into a fight with his parents but he didnt tell me what it was about. And then on his business instagram i saw that he was selling some stuff to pay for his speeding ticket. Why didnt he tell me about this? Like do you guys have any ideas? Because frankly im concern about why he didnt just tell me this.

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bleeding everytime i poop


Posted Tuesday January 21 2014, 12:37 am

What does it mean if you bleed a lot everytime I poop

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Confused and lost


Posted Tuesday January 21 2014, 12:15 am

I have a religious family. I'm Gay and My family knows but pretend it's not there. I'm 22 years old and the guy I date is 33years old. I want my family to meet him. But, I'm afraid that my family wouldn't want to have anything to deal with me anymore after I tell them that i'm gay and officially in a relationship with a guy. My grandparents are my pastors and i'm not sure what to do. I can't help that i'm gay it's not a choice. I have tried to change whom I am. Plenty of times and Nothing has changed. I haven't seen my family for about 2 close to 3 months now. I have a niece who is 4years old and is my world and my nephew is almost a year old and he is my world. I'm not sure who to turn too and who would be there for me when they disown me....

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my crush likes my friend


Posted Monday January 20 2014, 10:09 pm

So I have known this guy since we were thirteen. He's 22 and I'm 21 now. We've always had a thing for each other but we were never vocal about it. We spent new years together and ended up having a moment. He tried to kiss me, and as much as I wanted to I couldn't agree because he had a long distance girlfriend. A week later he was talking to my best friend explaining to her how much he liked me and how he wasn't sure if I liked him back and how he had broken up with his long distance girlfriend. So anyway. This past weekend we got together with a ton of friends and decided to go bowling. It was horrible because He and one of my other friends that he had never met before kept starring at each other and giving each other the "eyes"....

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Messed up


Posted Monday January 20 2014, 9:58 pm

K so basically been talking to this guy for a few months now and we've hung out a few times. Today he asked me to come over to just cuddle and watch a movie so I said sure. Everything was going well we cuddled and watched a movie and then started making out and that's when things went downhill. While he was making out with me he was touching me in spots I wasn't comfortable with him touching me so I asked if he could please just stop because I wasn't comfortable and he did for a little bit and then the kissing got a little more intense and he started the awkward touching so again I asked him to stop and jokingly said otherwise and he said otherwise what and I said I'll leave that's when he said k bye now he was laughing when he said this bu...

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Is he using me?


Posted Monday January 20 2014, 9:05 pm

It's far to early but you know how girls are, we all obsess over nothing. A boy who I'm friends with has asked me to start to hang out. When we see each other on night out we both openly flirt with each other but lately he's made his intentions clear that he wants us to have more than a flirtatious friendship. I want more too but he told me to keep it on the down low and not tell anyone if I come to his house. I'd this because he dosnt want people knowing our business or thinks it's too early to let everyone know were hanging out or is he ashamed of people knowing were more than friends? This guys a real gentle man but he's good looking too and I'm sure he could get any other girl so this could just be an act I don't know? Help!

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I want to be an actress.


Posted Monday January 20 2014, 1:06 pm

I have been practicing a few monologues I found online. But every time I do, I consider more and more what it would be like to actually audition. I have no idea what to expect. I guess this question is for anyone who has auditioned maybe? I know Bella Thorne uses this website so hopefully you'll see this, Bella. What should I expect other than 10 pairs of eyes on me, watching my every move, and then taking pictures of me? I know they ask for a specific type, or they let me do whatever. How can I mentally prepare myself for that pressure? Thank you to anyone who answers. I'm 16/f.

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vacation with bf


Posted Monday January 20 2014, 12:30 pm

21/f

My boyfriend and his friends keep talking about going somewhere for spring break. His friend (who I am very close to) said "you can't come unless you bring two girls for me & (the other friend)" I don't know if he was joking or not?! & then my boyfriend made a comment about how he doesn't think he'll have enough money for both of us to go.. & i said of course i'll pay for myself. & he said no (he pays for everything)

I wouldn't care about going somewhere with them on spring break. But, its me and my boyfriends 2 year anniversary like that same week.

don't you think we should spend that time together?

i don't care about him going on vacations with o...

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Complicated


Posted Monday January 20 2014, 9:36 am

And that is why I pose the question. Trust me when I say all of these thoughts have entered my mind, Honestly, I don't think much can come from this. You see I work a lot, and I mean up to 20 hours a day on a regular basis, she is someone that passes the time and someone that is pleasant to speak with. I myself am just trying to figure out the rest of what she is saying and why.

I don't imagine that she cut off an engagement but I'm not in the position to just call her out because the exact reason you point out about me not knowing anything besides what she tells me,

Trust me when I say that this thing I am in is just a thing, and someone to talk with because oddly enough her life hours actually fit mine and ...

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irRitated vergina


Posted Monday January 20 2014, 8:29 am

15/F. I'm irritated so much I could CRY!!!! My vergina *̩s burning and I have to pee the whole time. I had UTI a few weeks ago. But I'm not sure if it still *̩s! Becaise I don't have any pain only the burning and urge to pee. Plz help


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To apologize or to not apologize


Posted Monday January 20 2014, 8:03 am

There this thing that have been bothering me for the past 5 years. You see, there's this person who I shall name O who was once was my 'friend', I say 'friend' because I'm not sure we were even friends.
Right now I'm in form 5 ( I think its equivalent to second last year of high school in the USA. ) student in Malaysia and this happen during form 1. O and I became friends when we were placed in the same class with someone from the same elementary school as us. She was extremely sarcastic and the only reason she put up with my freshman awkwardness because she hated the other person who is poor and knew about O immigrant background. She was tolerable with me through out the half year of school until sports month came.
Since I w...

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Suicide cure for insomnia


Posted Monday January 20 2014, 4:50 am

I suffer from insomnia and seriously don't want to live any more. Will an overdose of Nitrazepam help?

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I miss him


Posted Monday January 20 2014, 3:09 am

I went out with my boyfriend for 7 months we broke up before and he left me for his ex he then he begged for me back and ended up leaving me again he use to go to different schools now he goes to mine and I have him in a class I love him so much I fell in love with him I have begged for him but it doesn't work I'm trying to make his gf mad do she can dump him buy she doesn't what can I do he needs to be mine again I live him so much I'm 17 btw

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Friends.. maybe more? Its complicated


Posted Monday January 20 2014, 1:43 am

So, in a nutshell. I met a girl online and we have been talking for over a month. First day we talked on PS3 we exchanged phone numbers and had a very lengthy conversation, and honestly since then that is the case. We have fun conversations, now she was engaged when we first met.

Out of no where she explained that they are no longer a couple, to be honest I am not sure if I believe that; however, she has been spending more time talking and texting me recently. And my confusion lies in the fact that she insists on talking with me every night and we end up falling asleep. She actually even text me asking if i will fall sleep with her on the phone. She states she lives at home with her parents, which I assume is true.
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PlanB one step effects...


Posted Monday January 20 2014, 12:54 am

I have my period every month almost like clock work. Everything month it begins on the 3rd. So when I had unprotected sex I began to panic. I took a plan B one step pill. And proceeded to wait.
Let's see I took the pill directly after the decision to have unprotected sex so it worked efficiently. It's been exactly a week since the I took the pill and I'm starting almost a second period this month. I guess the advice I need is more of a question than actual advice, but is this normal? Is this abnormal?
I'm freaking out a tad, I'm not young. I've just decided being g another human into this world at this time isn't for me.
Thank you for your help if you have an or have experienced this.

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Friend is depressed and won't let me in!!!


Posted Sunday January 19 2014, 3:21 pm

Ok, I'm a freshman in high school (female). I have a friend from last year(when i was an 8th grader, he a sophomore) who is a junior. We are in band together. WE where really good friends last year, and he had a big crush on me for a while (i'm not sure how long)but at the beginning of this year after B.C he started ignoring me a little. but he was still friendly with me at times.

But....

SO this season he had started ignoring me full time. This was around the time that people in the band could tell that me and another freshman in the band (my boyfriend now) liked each other.

During the season i would go up and say hi and be friendly but he'd just say Hi very curtly and walk away,
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