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I miss him


Question Posted Monday January 20 2014, 3:09 am

I went out with my boyfriend for 7 months we broke up before and he left me for his ex he then he begged for me back and ended up leaving me again he use to go to different schools now he goes to mine and I have him in a class I love him so much I fell in love with him I have begged for him but it doesn't work I'm trying to make his gf mad do she can dump him buy she doesn't what can I do he needs to be mine again I live him so much I'm 17 btw

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Hardcore-Band-Geek answered Wednesday January 22 2014, 10:37 pm:
He's not the right guy for you. You shouldn't have to beg and plead for a guy to come back to you WHEN HE LEFT You for his ex. Also if you truly care about this guy, don't try and make his girlfriend mad and break up with him.

I wish you luck, but i don't think he's right for you. Your guy is out there :)

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lightoftruth answered Tuesday January 21 2014, 12:26 am:
You can't make someone want to be with you.

He dated you for 7 months, then he left you for his ex, then you got back together, then he left you again. It doesn't sound like he cares about you or your feelings very much. You don't want a guy like that.

I get it, you love him. But it doesn't mean you should be with him. He's not the right guy for you.

There is no point in make him girlfriend mad and her dumping him. I mean even if he did jump back to you, he'll leave you again for someone else.
He chose to be with her, she didn't make him.

You need to let him go and find a guy who will actually stay with you and only you. Someone who treats you better than this guy did.

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gr8fruit answered Monday January 20 2014, 7:55 pm:
I have to agree with the other advicenator hun. If he loved you, he woudn't have left you for his ex AND then left you AGAIN. It is one of the reasons why I won't get back with my ex... he left me and he learned the hard way that if you love someone - you don't just drop them, you Stick With Them to the end and back! The first time your ex left you it was a warning and the second time, you just let him take advantage of you, which is something a girl should never let a guy have power of. Trust me, date someone who actually cares about your feelings, that way you'll never have to be let down and heartbroken. You'll feel more loved and wonder why you didn't let that guy go sooner... there's always a good reason why an ex is an ex, realize why and then move on to better and greater things <3

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Xui answered Monday January 20 2014, 7:44 am:
If a man really wants to be with you, He will faithfully.

Anyone who wants to play the field and bounce back and forth between relationships isn't worth being with. Why would you want anyone back after dating them for 7 months and then they leave you for an ex? Wouldn't that tell you that the relationship you had with him to begin with wasn't really a relationship. You can't make her mad so she will dump him, This isn't just about her. It takes two too tango, HE was also involved. If HE wants to be with her, He will. This isn't just about his ex girlfriend.

If he loved you, He wouldn't of thought about leaving you. If he wanted to be with you, He would of had enough balls to tell his ex he wanted nothing to do with her and he didn't. This isn't love, Someone who loves you would stick with you through thick and thin, Not leave you for someone else.

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