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How do you tell if he seriously loves you?
How do you tell is a guy's love for you is serious?
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I once watched a video on relationships and the topic was how to know if a guy really loves you. So I took notes and heres what I learned.
When a gal can't be sure the guy loves her, either he is doing a bad job of showing it, you are doing a bad job of noticing the signs, or your intuition is picking up on something that makes you question what he says and his motives.
7 Questions to determine if he really loves you
1. Does he say I love you. For some, it's a hard thing to say but they show it to you in other ways. When he says “I love you”, he is viewing that as a commitment to you. It is not a flippant phrase.
Saying I love you too early like during first couple dates is a warning about the guy. Its a very good chance he is needy and wanting a woman to be his mom. Other phrases from a guy count too, like you're awesome, I adore you. You're the woman I always dreamed of.
2. Does he make you a priority in his life? Guys have more than one priority...things very important to him but you should definitely be one of the top 3.
What he does for you or how he acts can't be faked easily because it's hard to lie with your body. Things he does without having to be asked, making dinner, picking up something for a collection that you have, making time for you, even if it's a walk or going to a movie. If the guy likes you, he'll make time for you at least a quarter of the time.
3 Does he tell friends about you and like to show you off? Have you been introduced to his family and friends? If he keeps you separate, he's hiding something or ashamed or fearful of something
4. Does he care about your pleasure during sex? Is he only into seeking his own pleasure or your's too. Does he open his eyes and want to have both your eyes connect while making love?
5. Does he respect and encourage you? Respect means, does he value your opinions, do you share decisions with him treating you as an equal partner.
6. Are you encouraged by him to have your own friends and hobbies outside the relationship and encourage you to seek your dreams and uphold you in that. Doing the opposite is controlling behavior. Jealousy is not love, it's control. It's okay to be protective, but jealousy shouldn't be what prompts the protectiveness
7. Do your friends and family like how he treats you? Friends and relatives make a great gauge for judging a guys character.
8. Does he look at you with lust and passion in his eyes, with a hunger and thirst for you? Does he give you admiring looks, does he still want to sneak peeks down your shirt. What he sees is Very important since guys are visually stimulated. If he isn't looking anymore or never did to begin with, he has lost or never had that kind of interest in you. All men because of this natural trait, will also view other women but do so discreetly, without being an ass about it. Don't expect a man to look at only you. If he doesn't look at other women at all, it may be a sign that he is gay. You do want a man who is visually stimulated by women, don't you?
How many points are true for you with your guy?
7-8 true He treats you as a Queen and he is an exceptional man
5-6 true He loves you. Just don't focus on what is lacking.
3-4 true He loves you enough to make the relationship work for him. If it's enough for you, then be content. If you feel like you're settling for less, let him go and look for something better.
1-2 true He's a douche-bag, a user or controller. Leave immediately.
I can say that all 7 points are true of my 2nd husband. I truly believe this is a good indicator of how much a guy loves you. My ex only qualified on one point, number 6 and failed at all the rest.
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