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I'm married and another guy is flirting with me


Posted Thursday May 23 2013, 9:23 am

i've been married for 5 years and i've met this guy who is my sister's friend. He lives in another town. He's been recently sending me messages through facebook. What should I do?? Because I've started to like him..I really love my husband,though, and I'm afraid of hurting him.

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hopelessly in love..help


Posted Wednesday May 22 2013, 8:02 pm

I've known this guy for about 3 and a half years, I used to be very depressed and he acted as a consular and helped me. We both started to really like each other but we didn't wanna date because we love 5 hours away so we agreed to date other people but nothing serious. We go to the same camp ground so I see him a couple times a year. Around October he calls Me crying saying his gf is pregnant (he's a virgin so she cheated on him) but his parents and hers made them get married....we tried so much to stop it but it was a fail. So he joined the army to be able to pay for and in hopes his new wife will get bored while he is gone and leave him. He is telling me that he knows we will be together some day but it all is just so hard.....what do I do :/ gone

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How i can fake virginity


Posted Wednesday May 22 2013, 5:13 pm

How i can fake my virginity

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Am i really in love?


Posted Wednesday May 22 2013, 10:42 am

Hello friends!! Am bhuvaneswari of India.Am 20 doing my engineering final year.I met a boy in my first year of college.He was not that much smart but something impressed me and i have proposed him.He too accepted.But after a moment i proposed i felt so bad why did i proposed him because basically i hate this love because my parents are so much strict. But he started to love me truely.Many times i have admired him because of his care and affection towards me.Many times i just really feel like hating him because of his very much possessiveness, appearance and attitude.Even i feel very shy to tell my friends he is my boyfriend because he is not that much smart and not that much talented studieswise.Whatever he does like caring me whenever am n...

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I need help!!! I'm sending lustful pics to some guy !! why do I do this??


Posted Tuesday May 21 2013, 11:48 pm

So, I have a boyfriend who I really really love..But ive met this guy on facebook. He started to chat me up and persuaded me to sort of being slutty towards him..Its all been done through the chat..The thing is that i decided to go a little further..and I sent him a picture of me being naked..Ive been feeling miserable ever since..What was I thinking?? I decided not to talk to this guy anymore..please.I need some advice..Thanks!!

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How to feel confident?


Posted Tuesday May 21 2013, 6:50 pm

Well, I have a few social problems I'd like some tips on. See, I'm a very shy girl (21 years), I can handle making small talk but only if the other person initiates it, and I'm lacking in any real friends, managed to make a few friends but none who I'd call and say let's go out or whatever. In short, i just have no confidence. However, my boyfriend is the opposite, he'll go out and make several new friends straight away, everyone knows him and he isnt keen on taking me out with him anymore because all I do is stay by his side as opposed to doing my own thing as his ex did.

So, can you give me advice on how to approach a total stranger and make conversation with them? to feel confident in myself to do that and any little advi...

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ex-boyfriends


Posted Tuesday May 21 2013, 12:26 am

well its been 3days since I broke up with my boyfriend of 9years but I still find my self picking up when he call and wanting to do stuff for him still but that is the only time he calls me he dose not even call to see how the girls r doing i wish it was easy to get over him i guess im hoping that one time I pick up for him he will ask how the girls r doing and not to ask me to do something for him

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private dance at stag paid for from his own pocket!!


Posted Monday May 20 2013, 6:59 pm

My boyfriend understands that I am self-concious and see private dances as a form of cheating, I practically begged him not 2 get one for his stag and he literally swore in my life that he would only get one if his mates paid at his stag and that would be it!! I take people swearing in my life very serious!! He then got 2 dances the one paid for by his friends and the one he paid for!! He lied on me asking twice before finally admitting that he had in fact paid himself for the second one!! I am in bits I know he loves me and I still want to marry him but I cant get the images out of my mind and feel physically sick at the thought!! I need help 2 get this out of my head before I go insane!! xxxxx

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Boyfriend in prison


Posted Monday May 20 2013, 2:36 am

My boyfriend went to prison last year . We were together 1 year before he went to jail. I met his mother and was around her only tow times. The house he lived in before he left I'm here now holding it down until he comes home. I pay some of his bills and mine and were still a couple. I'm faithful and we email each other every day. Oh I met his sister once I don't see her anymore. But I'm starting to feel that I'm just here to watch his house for him cause his family don't come around me at all. If he's my boyfriend I should have contact with his mother at least right? His dad call to check on me but his mom no. Should I ask him why his mother don't come around ? And he said we gone get married and I'm his everything but its just weird cause...

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What should I do?


Posted Sunday May 19 2013, 9:16 pm

Well,So this weekend I saw my boyfriend and I haven't talked to him in awhile because my phone was broken. Well we have been dating for awhile and it has always been awkward when we see each other, we are both 14 anyway my friend I know was like you used to date him? and I didn't know what he was even talking about. I don't know if we are dating are not but I really like him but it seems like we are not even dating at all.But it makes me sad and I am dumb enough not to even ask him about it when I had the chance and I don't get to see him for a while later and it kills me. ): please help me.

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tell me what to do?


Posted Sunday May 19 2013, 6:14 pm

i am 15/f. on 6th feb 2012, he proposed me. we had been besties and then when he proposed...i still remember the happiness...i have never been so happy in my life.and the best part was he liked what i did and understood before i said things...he knew me completely. more to say i never thought he was human, i thought he could read me. i was so overwhelmed by him. every thing about him. i was his first and he is my first love. till i left that town and shifted...we still shared the same love until one day he cut all contacts without any fight or anything . i later came to know that his father had forcefully taken away all his COMMUNICATION FACTORS. but slowly, as i eagerly waited for him, i heard he didnot miss me, jokes around and flirts in ...

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Holding her hand


Posted Sunday May 19 2013, 3:10 pm

So i really feel uncomfortable putting what happened during my past... but i like this girl and we are having an awkward relationship... So i want to just try make a huge step and hold her hand... how will i o it? Just slide my hand slower and slower towards her hand?

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is he cheating me?


Posted Sunday May 19 2013, 2:15 pm

okay so i am 15/f. sorry my story is LONG.

my bf and i had a very long fight 4 about 5 months. at first he stopped talking to me completely . he used to look at me in school. but whenever he had eye contact he used to pull his eyes away from me . i tried to talk but he kept away all the time. when i used to ask his friends where he is they always came up with an answer that he was in his football or basketball or he was just simply busy.

So that evening it was quite late , around 9 p.m. when i was returning home from my coaching. and i spotted him with MY CLASSMATE in the park in the shadow of a tree, quite close. i stopped to look and he suddenly saw me but , he didnot move away from her. i ran back home cryin...

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How often do atheists change their minds?


Posted Sunday May 19 2013, 2:13 pm

I have this coworker, and he and I have become pretty good friends. I think I'm falling for him, and it appears to be mutual, I can just sense it. Before, about a year ago, we were acquaintances and kind of joked around. Then our friendship started growing, and we became pretty good friends, to the point where we have a 6 hour long conversations on Facebook about serious stuff, funny stuff, the whole sha-bang. Now it's sort of taken an awkward turn. When we're scheduled on the same shifts, at first we are sooooooo awkward. Then as the shift goes on, we're close again. He's even started playfully teasing, and we've got some witty banter going on. Great development, right? Awesome news, eh? WRONG.

See, there's an important fac...

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things to do to recover after a relationship ends? (9 years)


Posted Sunday May 19 2013, 1:48 pm

well i just got out of a 9year relationship and I was wanting to know if any one could help me out with some fun thangs I could do to get my mind off of him and find ways that wont make me if bad for doing them

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boyfriend issues/getting closer


Posted Sunday May 19 2013, 10:39 am

my boyfriend and I recently went through a rough patch, we made up by talking talking about it, then just dealing with it, then making out. he initiated the kissing, he was mostly having a problem with me, but i was annoyed with him for being distant. he leaves for college in a little over a month. we made up about five days ago, and on the fifth day, we got a lot closer. he fingered me for the first time. we were so close, and then his best friend was hanging out with us that night, ans he acted weird. he only acts differently when he is around that one guy friebd of his. he seems uncomfortable around me, and doesn't touch me.other than that, he is great, we talk, kiss, and have a great time now. but even when he is out with him and i try ...

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How to get through the pain of being cheated on TWICE??


Posted Saturday May 18 2013, 10:39 pm

So I found out my boyfriend cheated on me after about a year and a half of us dating and I immediately broke up with him and took my space. Over the next few months he had done a lot to show his remorse and I really felt as though he understood the severity of what he had done and I loved him enough to try and work things out. We got back together and were together for another 8 months when I found out that he had cheated AGAIN with a different girl. Because of what he has done to me it makes it easy to walk away from someone so cruel but I am really struggling with how to move past the pain it has caused me. Does anyone have any advice on how to get through this? I obviously have left him but I am now left with so much pain because of all ...

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the best friend of the guy I like seems to be interested in me..


Posted Saturday May 18 2013, 7:03 pm

I'll try to explain this as briefly as I can.. I'm a girl (19) and I'm secretly in love with one of my classmate. A few months ago, his best friend started approaching me, he asked for my number and we gradually became "friends". BUT :
1. he says very ambiguous things to me, gets jealous of other guys, texts me a lot and makes efforts to be near me in class, etc.
2. he often talks about his best friend (the one I love) and he invites him when we do things together.. the other day, he even said to me that his best friend was single (i don't know if he was testing me or something)

-> I don't know if one of them or both or none likes me.. What do you think ?
-> What should I do ? I don't want...

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how to tell my mother


Posted Saturday May 18 2013, 4:07 pm

13/m
so i want to talk to my mother about my "love life" since i got myself a girlfriend, and i cant keep it secret forever. So how do i start a conversation about what is going on?

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How can I stop being insecure? Should I hook up with this guy?


Posted Saturday May 18 2013, 12:02 am

I'm 18 years old, and I work part-time after school. A few months ago, this new guy came in. He's a bit older than I am, and really funny and very cute, and I immediately took a liking to him.

I didn't think he'd ever be interested, but we started talking and he's asked to hook up. I have a few concerns;
1. He's in his 20s, and I feel like hooking up to him is sex. I don't feel comfortable going all the way with someone that I'm not even dating.
2. I like his personality, and I worry that getting physically intimate will cause me to develop feelings for him.
3. I gained a lot of weight recently. I'm just barely overweight, and you can't really tell how big I am in clothes. If I were to take anything off,...

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