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things to do to recover after a relationship ends? (9 years)
well i just got out of a 9year relationship and I was wanting to know if any one could help me out with some fun thangs I could do to get my mind off of him and find ways that wont make me if bad for doing them
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This is one of the best times to start doing new things and improving yourself to make you feel better.
There are so many things this world has to offer so try them out.
Definitely start working out, because that will make you feel so much better. You can take classes like yoga or anything really. You could also try martial arts or dancing.
You could try speed dating, learn to snowboard, start cooking and finding new recipes.
Just look up activities or hobbies and there'll be lots of things to do that will preoccupy yourself.
But definitely take time to cry over him and get that out of your system. If you hold back and you end up seeing him again, it will hurt ten times worse. Don't obsess for more than 10 min though, then go make yourself feel better. And make sure you have no contact with him.
So just do things that you think will be fun or exciting. At the very least, go party with your friends.
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May its time for self re-discovery...who were you before you started the relationship. Are there favorite hobbies or interests you stopped pursueing. Pick them up again.
Or try something new. A fun way to meet people and learn something new is to go to Meetup.com click on find. Put in your city or zip and start searching. I looked to see hot the hot trends are, they were web apps and designs group, and a meet for Jamba juice or coffee mommys with strollers group who all spend some time having their favorite drink and then take babies for a stroll together.
There are energy healing groups, walking, hiking, vegan fans groups, etc...almost anything you think of. Just takes some time to find it, do your searchess under every main title so you dont miss anything. I have participated and love them. 2 of my 3 adult daughters have used meetup.com also. and have met many interesting people and had lots of fun.
Give it a try. And hope you find joy in life again.
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