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Holding her hand
So i really feel uncomfortable putting what happened during my past... but i like this girl and we are having an awkward relationship... So i want to just try make a huge step and hold her hand... how will i o it? Just slide my hand slower and slower towards her hand?
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Aww this is cute!
In the past what guys have done to me (I'm a girl) is they have actually asked me, like in a text, how would you feel about holding hands.
Then what you do is don't just grab her hand. Offer it to her, with your palms facing the sky. Then you can either interlock fingers or go for a less intimate, wrap around the palms.
Its also nice to stroke her hand with your thumb. It shows her what kind of intimacy you want, and also acts as a nice surprise for her.
The worst that can happen is she can refuse-and just take this as red that she's just not ready. But ask her in a quick text if your very shy-if she hasn't tried either then she's also probably very shy, and will be glad you made the move :)
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Well if you're ready to take that step, then yes just move your hand closer to hers and just hold it. It's simple.
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The piece of information that is missing is what you said happened in your past that makes you feel uncomfortable. Is it something that happened with her or a different girl? Can't answer the question if I don;t have the whole story.
I could say sure, slowly move to grab her hand but my answer might be different if I knew about what happened in your past experience
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