my bf and i had a very long fight 4 about 5 months. at first he stopped talking to me completely . he used to look at me in school. but whenever he had eye contact he used to pull his eyes away from me . i tried to talk but he kept away all the time. when i used to ask his friends where he is they always came up with an answer that he was in his football or basketball or he was just simply busy.
So that evening it was quite late , around 9 p.m. when i was returning home from my coaching. and i spotted him with MY CLASSMATE in the park in the shadow of a tree, quite close. i stopped to look and he suddenly saw me but , he didnot move away from her. i ran back home crying.
i was so depressed . i feel ill. when he could not spot me in school he came over to my house. i was unconscious and i woke up with his kiss on my lips.he said he was sorry and he wanted me back. i was so happy that i didnot want to bring that evening up and spoil the happiness.
so we got back to normal and, he made love to me. he even licked and fingered me and made me orgasm. we became tooo close and he said he loved me all the time.
but yesterday when he was making love to me, that girl came over to his home . so when he was busy talking to her in the hall i checked his cell. there were some texts like..."when can we meet?"...i am waiting...i want you so close ....are you busy tonight etc.
i dont want to think he is cheating me because he has made love to me and ... somehow i am connected to him from my body and soul. can any one tell me what is up with him?he has never brought up her name in front of me. am i overthinking?
lightoftruth answered Sunday May 19 2013, 4:59 pm: Well since he had those texts on his phone, he definitely could be cheating.
Why would she say, "I'm waiting, I want you so close" to a guy who is just her friend?
He's not being honest with you. I mean she could just be the one coming on to him but if he's still talking to her in the hall, he likes it.
Guys have hormones and most teenage guys don't view sex the same as girls do. They'll say anything to get laid, the common thing is "I love you"
But when you love someone, you don't talk to girls like that.
You're not over thinking it, he's a liar and a cheater so just move on. [ lightoftruth's advice column | Ask lightoftruth A Question ]
santos answered Sunday May 19 2013, 3:26 pm: yes he cheating you,you can understand yourself he want relationship with other girl and do not want to leave you reason is you fulfill his sexsual desire he used you for sex so i suggest you just leave him and seek trusted guys .you want her with body and soul but he want you only for sex and do flirt other girls so understand and leave him [ santos's advice column | Ask santos A Question ]
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