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Boyfriend in prison
My boyfriend went to prison last year . We were together 1 year before he went to jail. I met his mother and was around her only tow times. The house he lived in before he left I'm here now holding it down until he comes home. I pay some of his bills and mine and were still a couple. I'm faithful and we email each other every day. Oh I met his sister once I don't see her anymore. But I'm starting to feel that I'm just here to watch his house for him cause his family don't come around me at all. If he's my boyfriend I should have contact with his mother at least right? His dad call to check on me but his mom no. Should I ask him why his mother don't come around ? And he said we gone get married and I'm his everything but its just weird cause his family don't come around me and I live a this house. Please help
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It's really hard to answer these types of questions since we don't know the people involved.
So there could be plenty of reasons why his mom doesn't come around. Maybe she doesn't feel comfortable around you, or maybe she's not very close to her son. Maybe there is some other random reason.
If you're really curious, then ask him. If you don't trust him, then rethink your relationship.
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Often we don't give our inner voice any credibility. If yours is giving you feelings that something is not quite right about your role there, then maybe it's time to heed that little voice and decide where you go from here.
If he owned the house and family wasn't interested in it, or who's staying in it paying bills,maybe there's a reason. It could be that he and all his family were never close or perhaps very disfunctional people.Who am I to say. You did not elaborate much on details as to why he went to prison or for how long. Depending on the details, he may be a nice guy who was falsely arrested, or he could have a long history with the law and not be the best prospect you could find for a boyfriend or future husband.
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