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My sister said she wants to kill me?
(I'm 13 and my sister is 15)
This morning, me and my sister were in our living room and we were arguing over some random thing and she threw a pillow at me. I said "Yeah, because a pillow hurts me" and she said "You were lucky it was a pillow and not something else. I could've slapped you." Then she said she wanted to kill me.
Will she try to kill me? She's done things to me in my sleep in the past before (That water cup prank, putting stuff on my face, etc.) so now I'm terrified that she'll try something. What should I do?
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When I was younger, me and my brother used to fight all the time. We would throw things at each other and scream and yell tons of mean things.
We never took what we said to each other seriously though. I just wished we never fought when we were your age though.
So I think you should talk to her when she's not angry and ask if she meant it. If she says yes, she has some problems and you need to talk to your parents. If she says no, and you believe her, then ok.
I don't know her. I don't know what kind of dangerous things she could be capable of. So you could talk to your parents and see what they say.
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Haha I remember this time well, i had all daughters so for a long period of time i had two then eventually 3 at once whose emotions were going haywire as their bodies were trying to adjust to all the hormones coursing through their bodies. They cried over little things, made big deals over nothing, screamed real loud at the top of their lungs when mad or frustrated which happened quite often, and of course, fought with their siblings.
I would say your sisters words are harmless. But then again, Perhaps you and your mom are not aware of other pressures she is facing in her own life, at school, with friends, etc...that may be stressing her out beyond her ability to handle fairly and rationally which means she could take out her frustrations at home...and you could end up the brunt of it in fights. Not that I think she might lose control to the point of killing, But any person, adults too, are capable of doing that in a certain situation. Everyone has their mental and emotional breaking points. In your case its more teenage girl hormones running amok. Since your sister has messed with your psyche by doing stuff to you when asleep, it makes you more uncomfortable so its best if you brought up to mom that you and sis are having troubles with your hormones going nuts and fighting alot and it scares you sometimes. Mom may not have given it a thought but once reminded, she'll remember when she was that age..and she has gone through it too...i assure you, though maybe at a greater or lesser intensity. Mom needs to be there for you and have conversations with you and remind you both to gain control of your emotions when she sees you losing it. Maybe give hints at how to cope, tricks to switch your attention off what random thing is making sis or you angry. Talk to mom and get a friendly supportive family chat started.
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Dear to say about it that she want to kill you very difficult ,may be she want respect from you ,i think you do more argument with her so he was angry so she threw a pillow at you .you should care her and respect her .she is you sister and have blood relation with you so not do it .but i give advise you ,give respect and take respect,and follow your elders .give respect her and care her ,everything will be fine ,no need to terrified
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