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I need help!!! I'm sending lustful pics to some guy !! why do I do this??
So, I have a boyfriend who I really really love..But ive met this guy on facebook. He started to chat me up and persuaded me to sort of being slutty towards him..Its all been done through the chat..The thing is that i decided to go a little further..and I sent him a picture of me being naked..Ive been feeling miserable ever since..What was I thinking?? I decided not to talk to this guy anymore..please.I need some advice..Thanks!!
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You are a registered user. When you signed up you gave your age. That information is available to modirotors of which I am one.
I can't tell you why you did this; what I can tell you is the consequences of what you did.
The information about you says your 27, if so you should know better, but at least your not guilty of sending child porn. What you have done is exposed yourself to someone you don't know personally. He now can send this picture out for any and all to see. This is the problem of sending things out over the web, you lose control over the information and or the pictures you send.
Now or in the future that picture will come back to bite you. Once out on the web it is free to anyone to use. Just asking for it back does not mean he will not retain the original image he received or that he has not already posted it to some website.
In the news recently a high school teacher lost her job because her school principal found she had posed for nude pictures. In her case she was a paid model and knew what she was doing. What if in the future you are in a position where a nude picture of you is found. It is also found to be detrimental to your job. This is what you have opened yourself up for by sending a nude picture of yourself out over the Internet to someone you really do not know. This is not a maybe type thing, it has happened. Employers do search the Internet for information on candidates for employment. How would you feel if this or future pictures surface.
I have in the past advised others who are thinking of doing what you have done as follows. When thinking of sending pictures over the Internet; do not send any picture of yourself you would not show to your father. If you follow this rule you have nothing to worry about in the future.
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You're in a tough position. Hopefully you at least didn't have your face in the pic.
Anyways, there isn't anything you can do but consider this a lesson learned. I don't know how well you know this guy, if you know him at all, because he could have sent them to anyone or put them on the internet.
Just don't talk to him anymore and never do that again because it is illegal.
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I hate to be the barrier of bad news, but that was a huge mistake.
Depending on your age, Sending nude or even partly nude photographs is considered child pornography.
Also, Santos is right, 9 times out of 10 that Facebook of his was a bullshit lie. If he talked you into sending a photo then sweetie, You aren't the only one...
As far as your photo goes, I hate to tell you that it is long gone . Once you send photos over the internet or a cellphone it stores hidden data, which means it is permanently stored on the hard drive despite whether or not it has been deleted. Sadly, There is a great possibility your photo was also leaked somewhere on the internet...
Basically all you can do now is hope you've learned a lesson and never ever do something like that again.
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it is a big mistake which you have done you should think,90% id on face book is fake ,.he also blackmail you through this picture so do not sudden stop talking show him that you love him and say him delete my naked picture ,tell me this guy is live in your country or in your city..do not think if he black mail you can complaint in police .also zane's is right,you have learned a lesson and never ever do some thing like that again ,learn from your past mistake .
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