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hymen
how do i tell my mom my hymen broke
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Why do you have to tell her?
Hymens don't even break. They stretch, you could look that up if you want to.
They partially cover the vagina so when you have sex, they stretch and that's why a lot of women bleed their first time. If you don't have sex for awhile, it goes back to the way it was and if you do it again, you might bleed again.
It can also happen from tampons or sex toys or even activities so I don't see why you have to tell your mom.
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What causes you to believe your Hymen broke? Hymens are not something that fully covers the vagina and so do not need to be broken. They need to be stretched which can happen with use of tampons,
sex toys and your own fingers inside.
If you had sex for the first time and felt pain or saw blood...then it wasn't being done correctly. A female must be well aroused in foreplay and wet before entered and the male must enter slowly so the hymen can slowly stretch. This may mean holding his position at only an inch inside until you say, go a little more.
You don't have to tell mom anything. If you both have always been close and shared about anything and everything and she's very open minded and sex positive and you want to tell her, then tell her.
But it is best that you get educated first about your situation so you can figure out if there is anything to be concerned about or not.
I recommend a gal who is one of your peers on youtube with a sex positive and relationships channel. watch this episode and check out the rest.
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Why do you need to tell her? You don't do you? I don't really know anyone who tells their mum this quite of thing...
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It is not unusual for a girls Hymen to break. It often happens from bike riding, horseback riding, exercise and a multitude of other things non-sexually related such as fingering. One of the biggest causes is the use of Tampons.
So I would suggest if you feel the need to tell you mother you just take her a side and tell her. Your still a virgin as the definition of a virgin today is someone, when it comes to a female, who has not had her vagina penetrated by a penis. So until you have had actual sexual intercourse you are still a virgin.
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