Dragonflymagic answered Friday May 24 2013, 1:50 pm: There is NO NEED TO FAKE VIRGINITY because there is NO WAY TO PROVE VIRGINITY. Let me explain:
I assume you are a female since all the movies and novels make a big deal of seeing a show of blood on the sheets of a bed as proof that a woman was a virgin at time she had sex with her husband on marriage night. This is a great misconsception. There is no reason to feel pain or for a show of blood unless the male doesn't know how to do it right. The hymen stretches over time so going slowly and using lube helps the hymen to adjust, even the first time.
In days of old, there was no such thing as tampons and dildos which stretch the hymen. No lube either and men obviously did not take it slowly or try to arouse the female first with foreplay so shes good and wet before slowly entering. Nope, they just rammed it in dry and that of course would rip some of the tender flesh inside bringing a show of blood as well as screams of pain from the female.
So todays females with use of tampons, checking on some contraceptives placement, have their own fingers inside slowly over time stretching out the hymen not to mention if she used vibrators and dildos before having sex the first time.
End result, there is no need to fake virginity because there is no way to prove virginity.
If a guy assumes you are not a virgin because your
vagina doesn't feel like a certain tightness that he imagined in his head, then he is very uninformed and needs some educatin.
Don't just take my word for it. Watch this sex positive video (Link below) on hymens done by Laci Green who has many relationship and sex related topics to share with her peers.
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