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ex-boyfriends
well its been 3days since I broke up with my boyfriend of 9years but I still find my self picking up when he call and wanting to do stuff for him still but that is the only time he calls me he dose not even call to see how the girls r doing i wish it was easy to get over him i guess im hoping that one time I pick up for him he will ask how the girls r doing and not to ask me to do something for him
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For Any Partnership to be successful, the partners must share an equal load of responsibilities.
I have heard that he expects you to do things for him. In 9 years, did he prove himself to love and care unconditionally 24/7, And without being asked did he do things for you, always supportive of you in any way possible? It this who he is at core?
If not, you need to ask yourself what you really want. If you are willing to settle for a guy who puts on an act to pretend he cares, and will be content with him asking how your girls are, then by all means continue the relationship. However I dont believe you want that at all. Based on my first sentence to you, happily ever after doesnt happen just because you wish it so. It only happens when both people put in maximum effort to make it so. A relationship is hard work, there must be a level of commitment from both, whether a business partnership, dating relationship or marriage relationship. Without that commitment and effort it is doomed to failure, to die. Once dead, dieing or unhealthy, Going through the motions of having a relationship is like trying to ride a dead horse....you are not fooling anyone else and you are just lying to yourself.
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