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My crush: What does all of this mean?


Posted Sunday October 20 2013, 7:23 pm

I am 13 and a female...Okay, so there's a guy at school that I've liked so much since last year! I'm not really sure if he likes me or not, but I'd really like to know! He knows I like him also! When we go down the hallway at school and pass each other sometimes he says "hey Hannah" but he almost ALWAYS smiles and his face turns red. I don't know what this means! He never texts me back and sometimes when I call him he answers and we talk for like 5 minutes or so. But last night when my friend was with me we called him and talked to him all night long. We did a three way call with him and his friend and he kept saying "this is the girl that likes me so much" and he said "Hannah this is my best friend" and I was ...

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I'm falling for my best friend


Posted Sunday October 20 2013, 4:35 pm

The other day I realized that I was falling for my best friend. Normally i would prance around in my prettiest clothes and maybe even tell him how i feel, but the problem is that he's been my best friend for years. I only realized I liked him a couple weeks ago, but its been eating away at me ever since. He has a girlfriend also. All I want right now is some closure, but theres no way I can talk to him because it might ruin our friendship forever. What do I do?

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whY is it illegal?


Posted Sunday October 20 2013, 1:33 pm

Why is it illegal for a 14 y old to go out with a 19 y olad?

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I need help in moving on after abortion


Posted Sunday October 20 2013, 11:37 am

I have been friends with a guy for the past year, and he led me on, and we hooked up. Later I found out it was all a lie, and we had a falling out. However, found out that I was pregnant and went through an abortion. I told him later on, but he already had a new girlfriend. Now, we are not on speaking terms because he can't 'face' me. I miss him, because he was a good friend, and I don't want to lose that. I need help in moving on and letting go.

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my new boyfriend:)


Posted Sunday October 20 2013, 8:51 am

Hey everyone! So Ive got a boyfriend and weve only been togethr since october 18th.. Hes the most amazing guy ever. Hes not the problem but there was another guy i liked before him named Jacob. Jacob was such a nice guy and he never did anything wrong. But ww had grown apart andi thought wewere both moving on. My parents love jacob and hes been to my house many times. I havent told really anyone in my family about my boyfriend ,only my best friend know. (Also jacob hadnt talked to me in a month).. so jacob texted me the night that me and my boyfriend were official & i think he fot the jist of the fact that Im not into him anymore.. my mom keeps asking when I wanna have jacob over though ans I just want them to forget about him. I know i...

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When is the right time to have sex?


Posted Sunday October 20 2013, 12:36 am

I need advice on a very important subject. When is the right time to have sex? All I hear is "I remember prom night" and all these stories from people's collage years. I'm confused about when it would be the right time. I don't want to make any rash judgements or mistakes which I will regret later on. Thanks for reading.
P.s. I'm fourteen and female and know now is not the right time for that relationship, though I would like to know when.

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How do I know if he's the one? Been with him for 6 months?


Posted Friday October 18 2013, 3:05 pm

So I've been with my boyfriend for almost 6 months. We didn't do the normal dating thing like most people.
We immediately hit it off almost like love at first sight (which I never believed in before him). We spent almost every single day together and both went out of our way to see the other.
About month 2 I lost my virginity to him at 18.
Half way through month 3 we moved in together to a beautiful apartment in a luxury complex after saving up (we both worked full time).

We've been living together ever since and I think we're both happier then ever before.

However I lost my job a month ago after being laid off. Ever since I've been searching every day for hours and hours for a new job. Luc...

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crush the crush?????? or get him??? either way how?


Posted Friday October 18 2013, 11:15 am

it's a question from my friend. she has a 'MASSIVE MASSIVE CRUSH' on a guy........she never liked any guy like this before...... he is not that handsome or exotic etc etc............... but he is very fine gentle man, who knows his moral values............ he is smart and an achiever.............. he goes to a different school and lives far away.......she met him twice and saw him thrice......... my friend approached him through his cell phone.............. and found out that he is not interest in her or any other girl 'AT ALL' he wants to focus on life ,, studies career and his public speaking talent (now that's a nerdy thought)she didn't mention her feelings to him but she still sensed the attitude........ .............. she is still stu...

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affair with married women or it isnt


Posted Thursday October 17 2013, 4:16 pm

hi we are both married . I have feelings for her but she said no. Inspite of tis she accepts gifts from me .and I have touched her breasts and kissed on her neck .I always think of her but she never reciprocate .I always pay for dinners but she never did bring me anything.now the confusing part is she says she didn't tell anyone that she is meeting me .she let me kissed her on her lips but then got grumpy .any good aadvise will be welomed

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Do you think he likes me?


Posted Wednesday October 16 2013, 8:39 pm

There is this guy I like and I think he likes me too but I have doubts sometimes. He started talking to me first. He always comes around me and talks to me. He asks me lots of questions about myself like where I work or what I'm doing on the weekends etc. Sometimes we joke and tease each other. He touches me a lot like on my arms or my shoulder or my back which I heard was a sign that a guy could like you. He calls me doll all the time which I think is a compliment. Sometimes he will even come sit next to me really close and talk to me. He told when is birthday was and then on the day of I said happy birthday he got all happy and said you remembered! So I think he likes me. But he hasnt asked me out yet or for my number. I'm not ...

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Should I keep my hopes up?


Posted Wednesday October 16 2013, 5:49 pm

OK, I am talking to this guy, but he doesn't live in the same country as me. He is like 3 years older than me. He plans on moving to the US, and he is like the only person that likes me. But, should I keep my hopes up about him? No rude reply's please.

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Why was I so mean to my boyfriend?


Posted Wednesday October 16 2013, 12:28 pm

So I use to date this guy we'll call him L but then he got too needy and clingy so I broke up with him and started dating this other guy named K. Now K was equally needy and clingy in his own way but for some reason I didn't mind I could take it and when he talks about sweet stuff I get all sorts of butterflies yet when L talked about the same exact stuff I would get annoyed and tell him to just stop. I don't get it why do you think that is?

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Friend`s boyfriend


Posted Wednesday October 16 2013, 1:21 am

hey. since recently my friend and her bf got in a fight over his new kik account over fall break. then on monday he didn`t speak to her at all. on tuesday he waved at her and they talked a little about the fight but then he had to go to class. later that night he unfollowed her on instagram and he liked a few of her pics. he hasnt returned her texts though. how can she save them both please help.

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Does he like me?/Should I talk to him?


Posted Tuesday October 15 2013, 9:52 pm

Hello :} im sorry if this is long. okay so there is this guy(His name is Andre, one of my guy friends knows him...) and this all started when i read a love story and i pictured what the guy and the girl in the story would look like. so i went to school the next day and i noticed the guy in my dream looked just like Andre and ever since then i see him everywhere. at my locker, in the halls, passing classes in the line for the bus, on the bus EVERYWHERE(at my school the girls and guys have to split the gym and he's on the boys side and when the guys had to share the gym with the girls in groups...i was in his group)so i notice that whenever im on the bus and im talking to my friends in the corner of my eye i can see him look my way(im not su...

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Boyfriend Trust and Porn


Posted Monday October 14 2013, 6:28 pm

So long story short my boyfriend watches porn. It hurts my feelings an it makes me not feel wanted or not what he wants. I found a lot on blondes like hot an sexy blonde blonde this blonde that. But I'm not blonde. He said he didn't kno why the blonde but he has made a comment to me about he wants my blonde back an such. Also why having sex he was like saying stuff about squirting the whole time an he knows I don't squirt? He has done a few things like this an now I'm even more insecure. I also see him looking at other girls butts constantly while were out. I don't do any of this to him and I don't play with myself to other guys. He used to look at pictures which hurt me more then porn but he says now he just does porn? I just don't underst...

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My boyfriend can't get over my past


Posted Monday October 14 2013, 11:02 am

I've been with my boyfriend for 2 YEARS, he cannot get over my sexual past. I've lied and kept things from him to avoid hurting him and making him feel worse, but it just made everything worse. Now he doesn't trust me. Whenever I tell him something he always questions it. He asks me if I'm telling him the truth. I'm not going to lie to him or keep anything from him anymore because I see that it just hurts him worse than the truth could. I know that lying is wrong and it's bad, but I didn't have malicious intentions. I feel horrible that I've made him lose his trust for me. I'm trying quite hard to gain it back. But anyways, everyday he drills me with questions about my past. It's starting to really upset me. It hurts to talk about my past b...

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Has he lost his attraction for me?


Posted Monday October 14 2013, 4:24 am

So we used to have like lots of eye contact and then recently, I feel that our eye contact has lessened and he's purposely avoiding eye contact but I also haven't really been seeing him around. Today, I went to my other acquaintance who was sitting at a table and when I went there, everyone around looked at me and after a while, because I was talking to her about matters then no one looked and he kind of looked to the left and did not look at the group at all. He did not look back at all the whole time I was there and he only looked back to the group when I left :( Does he still feel attracted to me?

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In love/deep crushing, but to afraid to speak up??


Posted Monday October 14 2013, 1:50 am

14/F. OK, So I have liked this guy for a few weeks now, (we are in Marching band together, he in band, I in Color Guard)and my friends (who are in band with us, so they have seen us around each other A LOT) have been telling me they think he likes me back, and that we seem to be In love. I'm slowly starting to believe he likes me back. So we had a competition yesterday(We didn't get to ride together on the bus) then guard had to separate from band to do warm ups. Then we performed and had to go back to the buses and change into a polo and jeans. I did that, and I was kind of upset cause I missed a family member who passes away a few years ago. He saw me cry and kept looking at me, out of concern (two of my friends where comforting me at d...

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a guys likes me but i dont like him


Posted Monday October 14 2013, 1:16 am

ok im 13 and in 8th grade and I found out a guy likes me I figured it out on my own but even my friends say they can tell too im scared hes going to ask me out 1 because I don't like him that way and 2 cuz like last week me and my friend made a deal thr next guy who asks us out we have to say yes and cant break up with them until a week has passed then on facebook my best guy friend who is also friends with the guy had messaged me asking me would I ever go out with him and I said why then he said just asking then I said idk then we stopped chatting so should I forget about the deal or should I go along with the deal ?

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I'm Unsure of My Feelings for My Best Friend


Posted Sunday October 13 2013, 6:32 pm

16/F

I have a friend, we'll call her S. S and I go to the same high school. I can't remember at all how we became friends, but we did and it's amazing. Y'know how you have those friends that you talk to in school who never want to speak to you outside of school and make plans in front of your face? S is exactly the opposite and it make me feel special because most of my "friends" are like what I have just described. Usually, she herself is actually trying to convince me to be more social. We've been able to talk to one another for hours and never get bored. Once she kept mentioning a conversation that had us up until two in the morning on a Saturday night/Sunday morn. S convinced me to get a tumblr, which I did and ...

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