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My crush: What does all of this mean?
I am 13 and a female...Okay, so there's a guy at school that I've liked so much since last year! I'm not really sure if he likes me or not, but I'd really like to know! He knows I like him also! When we go down the hallway at school and pass each other sometimes he says "hey Hannah" but he almost ALWAYS smiles and his face turns red. I don't know what this means! He never texts me back and sometimes when I call him he answers and we talk for like 5 minutes or so. But last night when my friend was with me we called him and talked to him all night long. We did a three way call with him and his friend and he kept saying "this is the girl that likes me so much" and he said "Hannah this is my best friend" and I was just like "okay ambers my best friend haha" and then he was like "I thought I was your best friend!" And I said " no I'm in love with you there's a difference." And he told his buddy "see did you here that". SO what does all of this mean!? Please tell me!!!
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Well he doesn't not like you lol.
There is a good chance that he does like you as more than a friend, especially if he turns red when he says hi to you.
When most guys know a girl likes them, they don't like talking to them that much. So the fact that he's talking to you, that's a good sign.
The only thing is that he never answers your text messages. Most guys will answer the girl they like.
So really, it's a 50/50 chance.
I'd suggest talking to him to see how he feels about you and then you will know for sure.
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What does it mean when someone smiles at you? Or what does it mean if someones face turns red?
What does it mean if it happens to you? Likely you smile when you are happy, just like every other human. If you break into a smile when you see your girlfriend, it's because you're happy to see her, being with her makes you feel goo.
Well, same with this guy. He smiles cus he is glad to see you. Only thing is, besides it making him feel good in general, there are likely other feelings being stirred up as well, the feeling of attraction to the opposite sex which is so new and scary when experiencing it for the first time. He may be embarrassed because of being in unknown territory, not having felt this before and embarrassed cus he doesnt know what to do with these feelings or how to act and what to say. Like many people do when embarrassed, he blushes, meaning his face turns red. It's an automatic body response connected to what he's feeling that he can't control so if he's doing it, thats what he is feeling.
Interesting that in phone call he says this is the girl that likes me so much, and couldn't admit, this is the girl that I like so much. All you can know by his comment to his buddy, See, Did you hear that?" is that he has been talking about you to his buddy and what you said about loving him is somehow connected to what was discussed about you and confirms something he knows or suspects about you. If the words spoken are exactly as you wrote it thats what that means. If the word "See" was not there, then he wasn't making a comparising connection to what you said. He was more likely surprised and asking his friend "Did you hear that" more as in was I imagining what I think I just heard or did you hear it too?
If he smiles at you and greets you by name, and talks about you to his best friend, then he is definitely interested in you. Just too scared and unsure of what to do next. Girls are always a bit more socially advanced than guys at this stage so it may be up to you to make the first move. If after your confession on the phone, he doesnt try to build a closer friendship with you and want to hang out as boyfriend and girlfriend, then it will be up to you to hbe the brave one. Finding opportunities to be near the person is one way to show preferance, but he already knows that so if you are comfortable with it, there are some very innocent ways to flirt with him that should hopefully encourage him more to feel self assured around you, and become as comfortable with you as he is with his guy friend. Here is the link to that. In a nutshell, he is attracted to you and doesnt know how to get from here to friendship stage;;;thats what this all means.
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