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Does he like me?/Should I talk to him?
Hello :} im sorry if this is long. okay so there is this guy(His name is Andre, one of my guy friends knows him...) and this all started when i read a love story and i pictured what the guy and the girl in the story would look like. so i went to school the next day and i noticed the guy in my dream looked just like Andre and ever since then i see him everywhere. at my locker, in the halls, passing classes in the line for the bus, on the bus EVERYWHERE(at my school the girls and guys have to split the gym and he's on the boys side and when the guys had to share the gym with the girls in groups...i was in his group)so i notice that whenever im on the bus and im talking to my friends in the corner of my eye i can see him look my way(im not sure if he's looking at me though :/ )and when i was coming out of the change room i saw him and his friend outside of my change room(which is weird because his is on the other side of the gym closer to the door)and he was looking at me and smiling. since i didnt know if he was smiling at me or if he was smiling and looked at me i just looked away. And i went to a restaurant and got a fortune cookie and it said "a distant romance will look more promising"....ya i kind of got freaked out. and i also went to this physic(i was at niagara falls and it looked interesting....dont judge)and asked her about my love life. she said that i have feelings for someone but i will become more open about it and soon tell them out of guilt...now i dont know what to do.(i saw him twice today by the way) AND I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO... PLEASE HELP WHAT SHOULD I DO
-Lucy
P.s sorry if this was long :/
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You're a lucky girl. In my opinion this is destiny for you two to be together (i know that some people don't believe in destiny but trust me it exists).
If you say that you see him nearly everywhere and that you believe that he is looking/smiling at you then just do the same thing. Smile back at him. Maybe go and talk to him about something like lessons (something simple/everyday stuff).
Take it slow, don't tell him straight away that you like him. Check if he likes you first and the only way you can do that is by talking to him. If he invites you somewhere or if he'll talk to you, you will know that he wants to be friends with you.
Anyways talk to him and tell me how it went then I will be able to give you more advice.
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Just try to talk to him. Even as just friends about basic things. You never know, he may just like you and open up and tell you. Maybe he likes you and hasn't said anything because he's shy or isn't sure if you like him back. It may be a little scary but you never know until you try and trying can't hurt. :) Good luck.
~PJC
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I don't know if he likes you. I don't believe in physics and such so I don't think it has anything to do with it, in my own personal opinion. Same with someone being in your dreams.
Anyways, you never know, maybe it's a sign. But you should just talk to him. You don't want to think too into it and never make a move and just think that just because he looked at you means he likes you. Maybe he does, maybe he doesn't, but you'll find out once you start talking to him.
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No judging honey. All of us have some abilities like a psychic, just buried. Some are quacks but many are for real. So first, don't feel guilty for believing in that. But always go with your gut feeling.
I find it really interesting that even though your conscious mind did not initially notice him, your subconscious mind did. Thats why when you imagined the characters in a love story, the imagined guy looked like the real guy. If I were you, it would kill me to not ever find out if there was a special reason why my subconscious mind took notice of him before I was really aware. If you don't find the guts to start conversation with him, you may never find out and go through your entire life wondering about the what if's.
I can give you a bit confidence, that there is an actual attraction there on his part. Whether that attraction gets a chance to develop to really liking you depends on if the two of you do more than just stare and smile at each other.
Our bodys give off signals, body language when we are attracted to, interested in getting to know a person. One is the staring at and smiling at. And no, once maybe it could have been someone else he was looking at, but you have way too many incidences where you picked up on it. A good test would be to find a chance to stand really near him and see if he stays put or steps back away from you a bit. When ever a person is approached by someone who is close enough to be arms length away, it is an exciting welcoming feeling if it is someone you like and if its someone you're not interested in, your mind doesnt have to consciously think about it, you automatically step backwards to create more space between you and the unwanted person.
I am attaching an article about body language.
You might try first to stare at him alot in return instead of looking away...meeting his eyes. He may be waiting for some encouraging sign that you might be interested if he approached you. So you can simply smile and say Hi Andre when you see him next. Or if braver, pause a moment and say something like, "You always have such a friendly smile on your face." If he doesn't take that as a hint to start talking to you, I'd keep staring at him for another day or two. Then approach him and say something like, "I'm sorry. I want to apologize." See what his reaction is as you hesitate. then add, "I've been staring at you and I've been taught that it is rude to stare but I couldn't help it. I really want to get to know you but didn't know how to approach you." I am sure at that point he'll be glad to talk to you and plan times to see you at school, become your friend and go on from there.
Let me know how it works out, okay?
Blessings to you dear.
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