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Has he lost his attraction for me?


Question Posted Monday October 14 2013, 4:24 am

So we used to have like lots of eye contact and then recently, I feel that our eye contact has lessened and he's purposely avoiding eye contact but I also haven't really been seeing him around. Today, I went to my other acquaintance who was sitting at a table and when I went there, everyone around looked at me and after a while, because I was talking to her about matters then no one looked and he kind of looked to the left and did not look at the group at all. He did not look back at all the whole time I was there and he only looked back to the group when I left :( Does he still feel attracted to me?

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CupidsAssistant answered Wednesday October 16 2013, 8:28 pm:
Hello :)
Me and my friends make eye contact like that all the time, so i'm guessing he wants to talk to you but is too shy to, and usually when people have feelings for one another they have a hard time making eye contact with them. That's probably why he felt left out, because he wanted to talk to you but maybe he was too nervous or scared. I'm not saying he likes you(maybe he does) but it would probably be a good idea to talk to him. Maybe he has other things going on in his life right now. Good Luck
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lightoftruth answered Tuesday October 15 2013, 6:18 pm:
When someone looks at you a lot, it normally means they are attracted to you or curious about you.
If this is the only thing that he does, then the attraction probably is not strong enough for him to make a move. Or he's just simply curious.
You didn't give enough detail as to if you talk to him, if he's a friend or if you just never talk to him and you just look at him.
You might want to try talking to him.

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Dragonflymagic answered Tuesday October 15 2013, 5:18 pm:
Looking at a person often and staring can be one of many body language signs that a person is interested, but if thats the only sign, the interest may be kinda there but not strong enough to make him take action. He might be curious about you but not attracted enough to take steps to find out more about you by starting up conversation.
It could be that he is shy. I can think of a half dozen other possibilities but that doesnt change the fact that without more signs, there's no way to tell you that he may feel attracted to you, or ever felt attracted.
I am attaching an article about body language
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If a guy tries to find excuses to come stand or sit close enough that you are within arms reach if he wanted to touch you, he starts conversation with you, finds excuses to 'accidently' brush up against your arm or hand, or begins to subconsciously mimic your movements and actions, its a sure sign a guy is interested. A guy does not go out of his way to approach you, be near and try to talk to you if he is not interested.

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