Hello ;) Chloe here. I love to help people with all sorts of crazy crap they get themselves into. Don't worry i'm not one to judge so dont be shy ;)XOXOXO
Member Since: October 13, 2013
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Last Update: November 5, 2013
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I have to baby sit my niece and nephew tomorrow after they get home from school and the little girl is 12 and my nephew is 10 but all I did with them today was watch a movies which was monsters university and mad pop corn after I helped them with their homework and they got bored quickly and I don't have any more ideas so we just basically watched movies when they got home any ideas would be appreciated and please remember I don't have transportation and I am on a tight money budget so any tips would be greatly appreciated thanks . (link)
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Try playing charades with them maybe? Kids love acting things out. Have fun
XOXOXO
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I am 13 and I look like a zombie crossed with a nerd. My under eye circles come from genetics and allergies, and are more extreme than you would assume. (Havent seen anyone with worse) I got glasses and I look a lot more attractive since they hide them a bit, but now I look like a nerd. My hair is medium length and boring, my teeth are yellow, my eyes are small, and my nose is big. I know that there is lots of makeup I could use to fix this, but I'm not allowed to. What can I do to look more attractive? (link)
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This is going to sound really cheesy but no one in this world is ugly. To be beautiful you must not only have it on the outside but on the inside as well. But for your skin i would suggest putting cucumbers in cold water for 10 minutes then lay them on your eyes for 15-20 minutes(You can also do this with wet tea bags.I recommend peppermint). Or(this is gonna sound kinda crazy but trust me it works!!)Get two spoons and put them in the freezer for 15-20 minutes then but them on your eyes until the spoon feels warm again. Also drink plenty of water.(I'm sure you're beautiful.. maybe you just dont see it ;))
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 weeks now and latly hes been trying to get close i think? He's been giving me his jacket and love notes also compliments. So i wondering how our relationship is going so far? And r we taking to fast? (link)
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Awww ;)
Thats cute. So far your relationship seems like it is going very well. And only YOU can determine how fast you or slow you would like it to go. In relationships, there is no such thing as going too fast or too slow unless one of the people in the relationship feels that way. So don't worry too much. Hope all goes well ;)
XOXOXO
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Okay, where do I start....
I have two freinds. I'll call them M, and D.
Now starting with M. She is, in short, a spoiled immature brat. We have been freinds for five years and she has always been mean to me. But lately, its been getting worse. Shes a great girl to be around (when shes not a brat) but her father drinks and shes ben having some problems at home. But I feel like shes controling my life! I cant do so may things I like to do becquse I feel like shes about to walk in the door and judge me for it. She never listens to me and does stuff i ask her not to just to make me mad. She always tells me im dumb and that im usless if I dont do something perfectly. I know im not the perfect friend, but I cant take the stress anymore.
Then there's D. She has been my freind since we where in diapers. She has never treated me that badly and I feel like I can be more relaxed around her than I can with M. But I almost feel like shes minipulating me to get at M. And I have problems trusting eathermone of them. And they're always getting into fights and draging me into it.
I dont know whats a lie and whats the truth or anything.
I love them both dearly, but I just dont know what to do anymore. (link)
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Hey sweetie :/
I used to have the exact same problem as you did believe it or not. So about M, she's probably treating you like this because of the things going on with her family. She does not know how to control it so she acts out aggressively towards you. I think the best thing to do right now would be to let her know that you are aware that she is going through a tough time. Tell her you want to help her, but it is also important to let her know what you are feeling, ask her to stop. If the does not, then end the friendship. Going through a tough time or not, no one deserves to be treated that way. Same thing with D. You need to put your foot down girl!! Tell them where you stand, doing just let them walk all over you. Your best bet right now would be to have a heart to heart with them, talk to them about all of this. I hope all goes well. XOXOXO
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I'm a girl and I'm 15 There is a lot of girls that are in my school that don't like me . Many girls talk bad about me but I don't even know most of them . I'm am nice to them but they don't like me how can I make friendships that would last? (link)
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Trust me, you don't want to be friends with people like them. :/ In life there's always going to be someone who does not like you.Sometimes for a reason, sometimes for no reason. Just ignore them I think i know exactly what they're problem is... ITS CALLED JEALOUSY. If these girls don't know you then theres no reason for them to talk crap about you. Trust me ive been called a slut when all i wear to school is sweatpants. Just ignore them and hang out with you're other friends;) No one can make you feel inferior without you letting them ;)
XOXOXO
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I am a 13 year old female and I like a guy in my grade and I feel like he likes me back. But I mostly like another guy in my grade who is dating someone. I'm scared that my minor crush is going to ask me out so should I go out with my minor crush or should I wait til my main crush becomes single again and then see if he likes me? (link)
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Oooh Love Triangle ;)
I would say go out with your minor crush. A normal relationship will last for who knows how long. Your crush could still be with his girlfriend for the next year. Plus what if he and his girlfriend break up and he does not feel the same about you? If I were you i would give your minor crush a chance. Who knows, maybe if you go out with him you may start to like him even more. P.s You have no idea how lucky you are. Most girls would burst into flames if they knew their crush liked them back(I mean that in a good way)
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Hi , I'm Aisling , I'm 14 and I'm in 3rd year at secondary school.
The reason I asked this question is because I want to become friends with this girl called Niamh . She is in my class and she hangs round with a group of girls - not being stereo typical- but if I had to describe them , I would call them popular girls! I like Niamh very much and I really want to be her friend , but unfortunately I'm very scared to talk to her - especially when she is with her friends- I feel awkward. Everyday I say hello to her , and I like most of her pictures on Instagram and I retweeted one of her tweets and I would send her a snapchat but she never replies - even if it does say she opened it- . I pray every night that I will be her friend but I don't know how to , I'm just too scared , can you help me ?
Sorry about the long post ! And please dont say mean things .
Thanks for taking the time to do this and if it works I'm eternally grateful .
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Hello Aisling.:)(cool name)
If you really want to be friends with this girl JUST SAY HI :) I know that it sounds scary but it's actually pretty easy,and maybe she does not reply to your snapchats because she does not recognize or know you that well.(All the more reason to get to know her!) And just remember, if she rejects you or acts arrogant in any way, then that just reflects on the type of person that she is. You seem like a nice girl, if she turns out to be a jerk then screw her who wants to hang out with jerks anyways ;) Also, never judge a book by it's cover. Despite who she hangs out with, she could turn out to be pretty nice! Hope things work out!
XOXOXOXO
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I have a teacher that doesn't like many students and if you are on her bad side, her class is Hell for you. I have her every morning. Recently, she made a Log where a trusted student would take it to each teacher everyday and if someone misbehaves, their name is written down. Anyways - I was the trusted student. I am very nervous because I lost it and I was one of the few people she trusted. Luckily, she didn't ask for it today. But - I know tomorrow she will. I have been very responsible and taking it to her everyday but yesterday I know I put it in my backpack but today I just couldn't find it! I don't know how to tell her, I'm afraid she would get very angry. Anyone got any advice? (Also, I am in 6th grade. I started in August.) (link)
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Aww, scary teachers are the worst. Just remember, you teacher cannot lay a hand on you are there will be hell for her. It's better to do this sooner than later so you get through it faster. By the way, if you do not like the way she is treating you or if she scares you that much, talk to your mum about it maybe and have a talk with the principle? All the best
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Hi everyone. I'm thirteen, and I have been struggling with suicidal thoughts and self-harm on and off for a long time now. I really want to stop, but nothing seems to work.
I cut because it relieves stress, I like the sight of blood, and it's a way to punish myself for being stupid. I feel like it's the only thing keeping me from suicide.
Speaking of suicide, I think about that a lot. But it is only a thought now, and I haven't acted on it yet.
I have two counselors and do not like either of them. I have been trying to convince my mom to let me try something else or see a different counselor because they aren't helping. But she always says it is helping and I just don't realize it. (No, that isn't true. I don't like them and they do not help me!!)
I don't feel like I have anyone to talk to or someone to understand me. The only person who is actually helping is my girlfriend. Not my counselors or anyone else.
The other thing that concerns me is how to hide the scars . . . are there any other ways to hide them other than wearing a sweatshirt all the time? I tried using bracelets and concealer, but those don't cover them up well enough.
I guess what I'm asking is, what else can I try to stop myself from cutting and also stop thinking about suicide? And how can I cover up the scars?
Thank you! (link)
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Hello sweetie :)
I would suggest to hang out with people you enjoy. Sometimes friends are the only ones who understand us,have fun do things you like, this might sound weird but i think you should record how long you can go without having suicidal thought or cutting. Each time try and try to go as long as you can try to get your mind off of it. And if your mother does not understand then talk to her, i mean REALLY talk to her. Tell her that if you want to get over thinking about suicide then this is not the way to go. Tell her that things are just getting worse and your counselors make you think more and more about suicide because they are not helping at all, make her understand. And if you want to hide the scars the best way to do that would be to stop cutting. As tempting as you might feel, you're going to have to fight the feeling.(Ha might fight that rhymed ;) okaay im lame :/) Whenever you want to cut think about your girlfriend and how much you like or love her. Think about how she would not want you to do this to yourself. I hope everything works out. Please keep me updated on what happens :) I hope everything works out.
XOXOXO
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So we used to have like lots of eye contact and then recently, I feel that our eye contact has lessened and he's purposely avoiding eye contact but I also haven't really been seeing him around. Today, I went to my other acquaintance who was sitting at a table and when I went there, everyone around looked at me and after a while, because I was talking to her about matters then no one looked and he kind of looked to the left and did not look at the group at all. He did not look back at all the whole time I was there and he only looked back to the group when I left :( Does he still feel attracted to me? (link)
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Hello :)
Me and my friends make eye contact like that all the time, so i'm guessing he wants to talk to you but is too shy to, and usually when people have feelings for one another they have a hard time making eye contact with them. That's probably why he felt left out, because he wanted to talk to you but maybe he was too nervous or scared. I'm not saying he likes you(maybe he does) but it would probably be a good idea to talk to him. Maybe he has other things going on in his life right now. Good Luck
XOXOXO
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ok im 13 and in 8th grade and I found out a guy likes me I figured it out on my own but even my friends say they can tell too im scared hes going to ask me out 1 because I don't like him that way and 2 cuz like last week me and my friend made a deal thr next guy who asks us out we have to say yes and cant break up with them until a week has passed then on facebook my best guy friend who is also friends with the guy had messaged me asking me would I ever go out with him and I said why then he said just asking then I said idk then we stopped chatting so should I forget about the deal or should I go along with the deal ? (link)
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I think you should forget about the deal. This is someone else's feelings you're talking about, your friends should not make you do anything you don't want to do. How would feel if you asked someone out they said yes and then broke up with you after a week because his friends bet him to. Sound horrible right?Trust me, forgetting about the bet is in everyone's best intrest
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So I use to date this guy we'll call him L but then he got too needy and clingy so I broke up with him and started dating this other guy named K. Now K was equally needy and clingy in his own way but for some reason I didn't mind I could take it and when he talks about sweet stuff I get all sorts of butterflies yet when L talked about the same exact stuff I would get annoyed and tell him to just stop. I don't get it why do you think that is? (link)
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Aww love triangle ;) A'rent they just the worst?
I think the reason that you don't mind K being clingy is because you like him more than you liked L.These two share the same flaw yet you can only handle one of them because they are both different from each other. K probably has a character trait that you like but that L did not have when you were dating. Whether it's who is sweeter or who has the better personality. Either way, your feelings are probably stronger for K than they were for L. ;);)
XOXOXO
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Thank you for your advice. Please suggests me what can i do to getting back my boyfriend and reassure him that i truly love him. He just can't accept my past and i am not a virgin. So he think that i am not a good girl and not able to be a good wife.and everyday he makes issues with my past and called me sl*t. I love him so much.don't wanna lose him. But i lied him about my past and others things before.but i reveal all secrets and all the matters of my past.i was in a abusive relation.my ex abused me mentally and physically.i can't say all this to my current boyfriend before.now i told everything.but he can't undrstand.so he can't trust me anymore.please suggests me. (link)
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No problem ;)
And if you want him to trust you again, the proper way to make up with someone would be to talk everything out. Tell him how much you love him,how you feel,how bad things were with your ex,how scared you were to tell him.Things like that, if you really want things to go back to normal(whatever your normal is{: ) then having a good long heart to heart is the way to do it. So you both understand each other.
But if you want to find a way to win the love of your life back i would suggest doing something bold and unexpected. Like what people do for marriage proposals(I dont mean ask him to marry you ahaha, i just mean take him to dinner maybe and spell out "forgive me" or "i love you" in rose petals") Things like that even try writing him a song maybe(hopefully one of you can sing.heh)Keep me updated on what happens!!!Hope things go well .XOXOXO
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I've been with my boyfriend for 2 YEARS, he cannot get over my sexual past. I've lied and kept things from him to avoid hurting him and making him feel worse, but it just made everything worse. Now he doesn't trust me. Whenever I tell him something he always questions it. He asks me if I'm telling him the truth. I'm not going to lie to him or keep anything from him anymore because I see that it just hurts him worse than the truth could. I know that lying is wrong and it's bad, but I didn't have malicious intentions. I feel horrible that I've made him lose his trust for me. I'm trying quite hard to gain it back. But anyways, everyday he drills me with questions about my past. It's starting to really upset me. It hurts to talk about my past because I'm so very ashamed of what I did and I'm very regretful, but I talk about it for him. It's starting to upset me because that's all we really talk about lately. We aren't the same couple we used to be and I miss that. Now we fight and argue and I don't want to lose him. I can't. I love him so much and I know that he loves me too. I could never break up with him, he's too special in my heart to do that. I just don't know what to do anymore. I don't want him to feel upset, extremely sad, angry, jealous, hurt, and inferior anymore. He's the absolute best of them all, that's a fact. So how can I or we fix his problems? ACTUALLY, I had a relation with a guy who used to tortured me a lot mentally and physically and i loosed my virginity with him,he forced me to do that, its just 1 time. then i broke the relationship. after a year i met with my current boyfriend in online.afer somedays he proposed me and i agreed. but i lied to him about my some information ,and my past ,that i don't had my relation in my past and i am virgin. because i afraid to lose him,because he is a nice guy and also very conservative.all was good i revealed other wrong info about my life and he okey with that, but i don't tell him about my past.2 month ago ,he noticed my facebook accout and saw some open wall conversation with my ex boyfriend. but this total conversation was more than 3years earlier when i am in my past relation. so after seeing this my current boyfriend call a guy(my ex's friend) and know all the details and also some wrong details. he told that i had a abortion but it is a big lie!!! but my boyfriend can't trust me anymore. i try to regain his trust but he always doubt me. and that guy some time called him and tell nonsense things about me. but this is not true.i love my boyfriend very much.and he think that i used him , and he feel he gets dirty to do sex with me. we'hv do it 2times.and called me sl*t. i feel terrible with all this matter, and feel very guilty.SOME time he wants to break the relation but i don't want to do that . PLEASE suggest me. I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND AND WANT TO MARRY HIM. I AM TOTALLY LOYAL WITH HIM. he can't accept my past. his problem is not that i lied him but his actual problem is i am not a virgin, he want a virgin girl to marry. (link)
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Hey sweetie, I'm not one to judge, and i think that if your boyfriend loves you enough then he is sure to get over it, and he should NOT be calling you that. I think if you want him to get over it sooner do something bold and romantic to show him he can trust you. Everything will be okay in the end. If it's not okay, its not the end
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Okay so I'm a junior girl and I'm trying to find someone decent to prom, I know its a long ways away but I don't want to have a slim picking to choose from. So he's a freshman. I don't know if I should ask him or not because we have only been talking to each other non-stop for the past 3 days. Please help! I need to know if I should ask him and if so, in a cute way. (link)
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Aww :) hello.And since you two have only known each other for 3 days and you have been talking non stop, i definitely think there is a connection. I also think you should ask him(guys looovvve older girls ;) )But if you don't want to make things awkward i would suggest asking him to go as friends. Or if you are friends with any couples ask them to go with you and him and suggest the four of you go together. That way if they play a slow song and the two of them dance, he might ask you to dance. I know pretty weird logic but trust me;). Have fun at the dance, and tell me how it goes after;)XOXOXO
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My boyfriend tells me he loves me all the time, but I'm kind of wondering if he has feelings for his bestfriend (His bestfriend is a girl). He always talks about her and he said that she comes first before everyone else, he would die for her, etc. I know I should trust my boyfriend, and I do - it's just it seems like he might have feelings for her. Any advice? (link)
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This is a very concerning topic. The fact that he said SHE comes first before YOU already proves that something if off in this relationship. Since you are his girlfriend and he tells you he loves you then you should come first.(Especially before any of his female friends) The best thing to do would probably talk to his best friend about this and then him. Another good thing to do would be talk your best friend and get their opinion on it too. Good Luck XOXOXO
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Someone help I just wanna have friends make new friends I barley am around people because usually stay home babysitting I can't go out on certain days. The people I babysit are my siblings so it no problem I just can't join any clubs in school because of it I just wish there was a way I could make friends that understand my babysitting situation. I love bing there for others and talking to people but when I arrive to school I can't socialize I usually go to the bathroom and wait till class starts :/ I also have a boyfriend he understands but he also doesn't have many friends. The friends I have don't really have that connection with me :/ (link)
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I'll be your friend ;) Aha. If you want to get closer to your friends i suggest you spend more time with them, talk to them more text IM Email Facebook whatever.Another way would be to make friends with their friends. When you are hanging out with them and someone you don't know comes along, talk to them. Introduce yourself of start out with a complement for example."Hey i like your__"Making new friends is stressful but easy. Sometimes the only thing you have to do it say "Hi!" I made most of my friends that way. Good luck sweetheart XOXOXO
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my guy friend really likes me i dont know how to take it weve known each other for ages a while now should i go out with him or not hes like 31 and im 18 (link)
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The only thing that really matters is if you like him or if you feel comfortable with him. It is up to you. If you like him then you should go for it ;) But if you do not like him then don't do it. No one should ever force you into a relationship. Hope everything works out. XOXOXO
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Okay so I'm a junior girl in high school and there's this guy who is a freshmen and is like my best friend. We started texting each other basically all day for the past 2 days and is continuing on. I'm not saying I don't like the texts but I can't tell if he's just being really close friends or wants to be bf & gf? You know what I'm saying? anyway I guess my question in a short story would have to be what does it mean when a guy texts you all the time? (link)
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I know exactly what you're saying. The confusing thing is, it could mean both. This boy could be texting you simply because he enjoys talking to you.But he may also fancy you. If you think you two are close enough to talk about this you should just flat out ask him. I know this may be awkward but if you really want to know the best way would be to ask him yourself. If you feel too shy to do this, maybe talk to a friend of his about it if you know any of his friends and ask them to ask him.
Good Luck XOXOXO
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Hi everyone,
I'm a young teen, and I have been a Christian for most of my life. But I don't always feel like I'm meant to be a Christian.
I would like to mention that I'm lesbian, and I have known this for a long time. My church teaches that this is a sin and that being gay is a choice. But I certainly didn't choose to be this way.
They often say that people need to do what Jesus tells them to do, and they say that if you believe in Jesus, you will like the opposite sex. But I do believe in Jesus. . . .
People from my church sometimes talk about that verse from the Bible that condemns homosexuality. Yeah, I know. I read that several times when I was trying to become straight.
They also say that God hates gays. But I love God deeply and don't want to think that He hates me.
I don't think God hates anyone, not even people like me. He is all-forgiving and merciful. It doesn't make sense that he would hate.
I know it seems like I'm just saying my opinion. But I really want to find the truth. Does God really hate me? And is being gay really a sin?
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First i'm not one to judge ;)And second of all god loves all his children. Your race, sexuality or what sex you like does not matter nor does it make you any less human than you already are. You have done nothing wrong. If the world was taught to like the same sex then liking a different sex would be wrong.It would be the other way around. Being gay is NOT a sin in any way. And by the way, if god hates gays, why would he create them? ;) Hope i helped.
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