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should I ask him?


Question Posted Monday October 14 2013, 9:55 am

Okay so I'm a junior girl and I'm trying to find someone decent to prom, I know its a long ways away but I don't want to have a slim picking to choose from. So he's a freshman. I don't know if I should ask him or not because we have only been talking to each other non-stop for the past 3 days. Please help! I need to know if I should ask him and if so, in a cute way.

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CupidsAssistant answered Tuesday October 15 2013, 9:45 pm:
Aww :) hello.And since you two have only known each other for 3 days and you have been talking non stop, i definitely think there is a connection. I also think you should ask him(guys looovvve older girls ;) )But if you don't want to make things awkward i would suggest asking him to go as friends. Or if you are friends with any couples ask them to go with you and him and suggest the four of you go together. That way if they play a slow song and the two of them dance, he might ask you to dance. I know pretty weird logic but trust me;). Have fun at the dance, and tell me how it goes after;)XOXOXO

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Dragonflymagic answered Tuesday October 15 2013, 4:43 pm:
I remember answering you last time. So he's still showing interest? I suppose that asking him to go to prom with you might be a good way to find out the depth of his interest.

The only problems I see with asking him now is:

If you ask him now and meet someone else later in the year that you fall head over heels for and would rather go to prom with, then you're in a pickle. OR

You start hanging out as B/F G/F and discover after some time that you do not like his personality after all. Will you still go to prom with him or split with him and cancel prom.

If you're not concerned about those possibilities occuring, then I'd say go ahead and ask.

As to a 'cute' way to ask, I am assuming you mean something not so direct like "Will you go Prom with me?" Maybe a poem in a note card that hints at prom by what is said. Something like:

This princess plans to go to prom
I know it's far away
I hold my breath, will you accept
And take me there that day?

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