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texting each other all day, every day
Okay so I'm a junior girl in high school and there's this guy who is a freshmen and is like my best friend. We started texting each other basically all day for the past 2 days and is continuing on. I'm not saying I don't like the texts but I can't tell if he's just being really close friends or wants to be bf & gf? You know what I'm saying? anyway I guess my question in a short story would have to be what does it mean when a guy texts you all the time?
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This is tough because it honestly could be either. Most guys text girls who they are interested in. But he also might just be looking for a friend. It really depends on the guy.
I think a good way to tell is what he says to you. If it's kinda flirty, then that's a very good sign he likes you. If he's just chatty, it could be either or.
There's a good chance he's interested in you though. I mean you don't always text your close friends all day, every day right?
I think you can either wait to see where things go and see if he brings anything up or you can straight up ask him if he's into you.
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If the guy flirts with you then I think he does or at least hints to you that he wants to say something but he doesn't. That all got but if you like him then ask him why messages you a lot but don't make it seem like its a bad thing if you like texting and messaging back just ask him in a way that you know its cool. If you like the guy then go for it you have a good reason to anyway. :) good luck!
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HON, I can only guess since I don't know the guy or anything about him. The only way you can find out for sure is to ask him.
You could say, "Gee, you and I have talked more these past couple days than my girlfriends and I do. So i get it, that you enjoy talking with me, I enjoy talking to you too. But i am wondering if your interest is as more than just a friend.
Or, don't ask anything and wait a while to see how things pan out in the next week or two.
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Maybe he very much wants to learn how to talk to and understand girls so he is over eager to learn and wants to do so with someone he is attracted to. That could be why he is contacting you all day long.
I could say its NRE, new relationship energy which is like a drug, making you want more and more, even though you two are not in a relationship yet other than friends. The chatting with you to him might feel addictive...the more he gets, the more he wants. But I can't say for sure. A guy doesn't have to text anyone. If he is texting, it basically means there is an attraction. The natural thing to do is spend more time with, quality time talking and getting to know the person so you can discover if you also like the person. He's attracted. Either the attraction grows into liking you as time goes on or he will discover that you and he don't have enough in common to hold interest and he will move on to check out someone else. That how all relationships start. Then they progress from liking to falling in love.
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I know exactly what you're saying. The confusing thing is, it could mean both. This boy could be texting you simply because he enjoys talking to you.But he may also fancy you. If you think you two are close enough to talk about this you should just flat out ask him. I know this may be awkward but if you really want to know the best way would be to ask him yourself. If you feel too shy to do this, maybe talk to a friend of his about it if you know any of his friends and ask them to ask him.
Good Luck XOXOXO
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