How can I tell my teacher this without getting her upset?
Question Posted Thursday October 17 2013, 7:07 pm
I have a teacher that doesn't like many students and if you are on her bad side, her class is Hell for you. I have her every morning. Recently, she made a Log where a trusted student would take it to each teacher everyday and if someone misbehaves, their name is written down. Anyways - I was the trusted student. I am very nervous because I lost it and I was one of the few people she trusted. Luckily, she didn't ask for it today. But - I know tomorrow she will. I have been very responsible and taking it to her everyday but yesterday I know I put it in my backpack but today I just couldn't find it! I don't know how to tell her, I'm afraid she would get very angry. Anyone got any advice? (Also, I am in 6th grade. I started in August.)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Work & School category? Maybe give some free advice about: School? Dragonflymagic answered Sunday October 20 2013, 3:36 pm: Lets see if I understand the purpose of this log. She's putting names on it of students she feels have misbehaved (whether they did or not)
this list does not go to the principle, but to all other teachers so that they can know which trouble-makers to look out for?
If they also have a problem with the same kid, they mark it on the same list. And, then what happens, does the list go to the principal so he/she can call in the student who has caused trouble for too many teachers and they are talked to, punished in some way or suspended?
Is it a new school policy with the principal endorsing it or is it some idea this one teacher came up with and is implementing on her own. If it's the latter, it could be that she is simply using this "list" as a tool to scare the students into behaving. If she has to resort to this method of keeping the students in control, she not only does not have their respect but she likely does not have a heart for the kids, and could possibly hate her job. If the principal is aware of the existance of this list, I think the best thing is to approach the principle and tell em that the list is missing. That way, if the teacher chooses to take retribution out on you by taking passing grades and faking them to failing grades and you always had passing grades before she knew you lost the list, then the principal would have foreknowledge of the event and the timing of whatever actions she takes out personally on you. Yes, bring your parents into this. If you're afraid to approach the principal, then give mom all the details and have her call.
Sorry to hear you have a teacher that makes school anything but a fun healthy positive learning experience. [ Dragonflymagic's advice column | Ask Dragonflymagic A Question ]
CupidsAssistant answered Thursday October 17 2013, 11:49 pm: Aww, scary teachers are the worst. Just remember, you teacher cannot lay a hand on you are there will be hell for her. It's better to do this sooner than later so you get through it faster. By the way, if you do not like the way she is treating you or if she scares you that much, talk to your mum about it maybe and have a talk with the principle? All the best
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