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Should I keep my hopes up?
OK, I am talking to this guy, but he doesn't live in the same country as me. He is like 3 years older than me. He plans on moving to the US, and he is like the only person that likes me. But, should I keep my hopes up about him? No rude reply's please.
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I did the internet dating thing, so though mine was more short term, I do understand well one thing that i learned, that my own mind fills in lots of the details with what i imagine as I get what little input I get from an LDR. Although there was one LDR. I got to meet. We were in love. It was great for the first month and then I saw and experienced stuff I could never live with, things that would drive me nuts, I ignored these but things got worse and he was starting to distance himself. Needless to say, I did not end up with him, I did meet someone on line. All I did was use the internet as a tool to get to know of the persons existance. The sooner I could meet a person in real life, the easier it was to find out if this was the right person for me or not. I do know that some LDR's and long term internet friendships can turn out okay. But that's an exceptional to the rule. In the meanwhile enjoy his friendship. But if someone comes along in your sphere of the neighborhood, don't exclude him because of the person in another country. You dont know 100% for sure if it would turn out once he got here. I have had any many online male friends who 'were there for me' during difficult times' before i met my current husband.
In all things, always go with your gut feeling, it's like your inner voice, your angels guiding you. If you feel unsettled or agitated about a choice you want to make and don't feel quite at peace, then likely it is the wrong choice to make.
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I think you should keep your options open. It's fine to like him, but there is a good chance you won't be seeing him for a long time. So don't just limit yourself to a guy who lives in a different country just because he's the only guy that likes you.
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No. If you don't want to get hurt than don't keep any hopes. Great you're talking to the guy but are you 100% sure that he'll move to the US. The answer is no you can't so if I was you I'd look around you for people who live near you. It is proven that we don't even know what great people live around us. We like to complicate things (I don't know why but we do) and we forget about the simple things like trying to get to know our neighbors. Try it and I'm sure you wont regret it. Good luck!!!
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